I know this is personal but I had to just talk to some people about it.
Many of you know that for almost a year now skye, has been my prime and is my precious little one. Well two days ago my pet was admitted into ICU. There is very little I can do, and I feel helpless. This is the one area where even as my baby girl's Sir, Master and Daddy, all my power, control and strength pale in the face of mother nature and people of science that know more than me.
I have no other reason for posting this other than I needed a place to just get out how I was feeling.
ProfessionalMaster
If you have read 50 Shades of Gray and think that you are ready to be a dom or a sub. Then you have a lot to learn.
Follow my slave's blog slave skye's real life blog if we can get 100 followers she is going to start posting pictures!!! I know there are at least 100 of you that want to see that click the link enter your email and follow. We hit 100 then she has said she will post a picture of herself. huge hugs...
it makes us feel helpless when our loved one is sick does it not
will say a prayer for her
if you cannot go see her... cards or even a taped message might cheer her up
or a photo of something that would make her smile
if she ...can see it
am thinking of you both
Prayers going up! If you feel inclined I will gladly answer any questions medical wise via private msg.
Thank you both for your kind words. I just got word that the problems were caused by a medication that was prescribed that should not have been and it had an adverse reaction causing a heart related issue.
They have said that my precious baby girl skye will be able to go home tomorrow.
Thanks for the prayers and for everything.
If you have read 50 Shades of Gray and think that you are ready to be a dom or a sub. Then you have a lot to learn.
Follow my slave's blog slave skye's real life blog if we can get 100 followers she is going to start posting pictures!!! I know there are at least 100 of you that want to see that click the link enter your email and follow. We hit 100 then she has said she will post a picture of herself. Glad to hear all is getting better.
OH NO! I am happy to hear it is getting better but so sorry for you both. Hugs and I wish you both well. Helpless is a horrible feeling.
Now are things going? Hugs and kisses!
My baby girl is back home and recovering. Thank you all for all your prayers and well wishes this community has been wonderful to both of us through our entire relationship. Lots of recovery to go, but together my baby girl and her Daddy will get through this.
If you have read 50 Shades of Gray and think that you are ready to be a dom or a sub. Then you have a lot to learn.
Follow my slave's blog slave skye's real life blog if we can get 100 followers she is going to start posting pictures!!! I know there are at least 100 of you that want to see that click the link enter your email and follow. We hit 100 then she has said she will post a picture of herself. This is the BDSM forum-therefore not good place to ridicule and make fun of what the forum is about.
People who are truly a part of the lifestyle/specifically the D/l would know this would be ridiclous and that it is not a real question you are asking nor is it simply innocuous or benign to that aspect of the BDSM community and this thread. One does not have to ask something like that - (I think BDSMers would have more respect than to say something like that to each other, even if they did not know.)
It is not funny when someone you love is hurting ...or if they are in the hospital; you don't care about anything else but the person. A Daddy-Dom isn't family unless you marry them, (they may be someone as close or closer than family, though) but they have no legal rights or medical say unless it perhaps stated on medical documents in power of attorney, etc. Any grown adult either knows that or if they have ever had someone in the hospital, usually they will find that out.
It is an old thread anyway.
You are "supposedly" 32 & have you have not ever had someone close or a family member in the hospital to know how that works? If not, I would be surprised. It still does not matter. It is no excuse for how you chose to word your post. I have seen enough other posts on Lush & BDSM by you, Felix. lol. You can call it what you want, quote Google all you want, but it is clear.
I would wish with all my heart that the man I "love" would be ABLE to be in the know and not left out in the cold with the doctors. Too bad they cannot go to or ask because he probably understands me better and what I would want better than anyone ... (except my son maybe), and I know it would make him feel HORRIBLE & so terribly helpless. Helpless is a bad, bad feeling. I have these two friends from a long time back, and his wife is dying...literally as I type, so I don't like to hear things like "bitch" or women referred to as "bitches" - I do not like to hear it from other women either. No, this person did not die, but I would not wish anyone to go through the fear and helplessness~
BDSM does not mean there are no real feelings or real relationships -even marriages or diminish the care that some people have and know is part of a Daddy/little relationship - that whole relationship is hinged in that close kind of care.
Let me revise (talking about myself and my former posts). I will look into this. I should not like to be a liar, and I really do not like to be called one by what used to be one of my favourite cartoon characters.
As far as anything else, I thought your original post on this thread [Felix] was to bash and "kink shame" as 'you' call it, to be funny or for your fun. 'No? ... Well, then... I suppose, regardless of anything people can certainly have an opinion and no one can tell another person what to do on a site except those in that authority- of course, and it mean anything.
REVISE:
ONLY family or spouse, as regarded as 'next of kin', then a person with medical 'Power of Attorney' in legal documents as to emergancy E.R. & ICU medical situations {@previous question), has any rights or would be consulted first and/or solely in those situations.
This post was about a "Little" -however- regardless of BDSM, or name you call a person, or BDSM roles, in an ICU or emergancy room it would be a harrowing experience for anyone who cares.