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How do you liked to be spanked or to give them?

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Open hand slap and sometimes w/ closed hand while I suck him off.


And love getting slapped when he wears latex glove.

Swoons.
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Give and receive. Hand only, I've done paddle and hairbrush before and it's too much.
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I love being spanked, either while we’re having sex or just on its own. The more I do it the more I love a guy spanking me hard and fast. It turns me on like mad.
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spank my own arse with hard, flat sandal ... cock instant hard-on
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Bent over a desk or chair with a short skirt removed or pinned up and panties down around the ankles. . Then spanked very gently which stimulates her. I usually give her oral after, whilst still in the same position but with her legs further apart. This brings her to orgasm . Its normally part of a roleplay.
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Across his knee with his hand
Or a Flogger ... maybe a belt ... or a bamboo cane ... oh hell I just like spankings
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I like to receive , restrained , ass propped up.But love spanking Sherry's sexy bum.
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I have given a few ladies spankings and orgasm from it, which turns me on as it does them. Few weeks ago I actually, got my first spanking by a gf, she used the hand, then flog then crop. I am now official love giving/getting, mmmmm
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I like to be spanked on my bare puzzy with a hand or flogger.
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I prefer to be on the receiving end while gagged, blindfolded, and bound. Over the knee would be the icing on the cake
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I've owned a riding crop since my mid-twenties, many an ass have felt its sting!

I prefer to give the spanking.
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I like to give spankings out with an electric shock paddle.
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I've not been spanked with anything other than a very strong hand...
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I've not spanked with anything other than my very strong hand...
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well, last weekend, my g/f and I got into a great session. She loves to be spanked, even if that is all, she loves it. Well, after we got up out to breakfast and back home, we cuddled and watched some TV, relaxing. She got up to get a drink and came back. I looked at her and said "where is mine". She paused a moment, that is when I said, "lay across my lap". Her eyes lit up, smile on her face and almost dove across it. She had on shorts, of which I pulled down, as she "coooed". I then let my hand run all over her ass cheeks as she moaned. Then, a few light swats on each cheek, got her wiggling her ass. Back to rubbing, then little harder, did this back and forth for about an hour. Then I said, "go to the bedroom". She was up and off like a rocket. I walked in and she was stripping her clothes with excitement, and I noticed her panties was drenched. Usually, at this point we dive into hot sex, but the devil was out to play. I then scolded her for stripping without me telling her and ordered her to kneel on all fours on the bed, looking away. I got into our "play drawer", tool out flog and crop.
I then began rub her back and butt, it was pink all over. I bent down and began to kiss and lick each ass cheek, and her wiggling was getting stronger. Then I stopped and gave her some smacks with the hand on both cheeks, getting them glowing. It was then then she felt the flog, lightly dance across her skin of the back and butt. then the lashes started, lightly of course, then medium. I stopped and laid the flog on her back, as I got between her legs and licked, right till she was ready to explode. Then I stopped, slowly dragged the flog across her back, as I took the crop and gave her few smacks, I kept dragging the flog across her, then few more slaps with the crop. I then did something never done before and lightly swung the flog between her legs, on the third time, she exploded with orgasm. Of course, this was just the start, but what I learned from this was the different sensations of the implement and mixing between feel of it and skin, then kisses, truly put her into orbit. She will be in trouble next time, he-he-he. Just remember, it doesn't have to be brutal or hard, but has to be sensuous.
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well, last weekend, my g/f and I got into a great session. She loves to be spanked, even if that is all, she loves it. Well, after we got up out to breakfast and back home, we cuddled and watched some TV, relaxing. She got up to get a drink and came back. I looked at her and said "where is mine". She paused a moment, that is when I said, "lay across my lap". Her eyes lit up, smile on her face and almost dove across it. She had on shorts, of which I pulled down, as she "coooed". I then let my hand run all over her ass cheeks as she moaned. Then, a few light swats on each cheek, got her wiggling her ass. Back to rubbing, then little harder, did this back and forth for about an hour. Then I said, "go to the bedroom". She was up and off like a rocket. I walked in and she was stripping her clothes with excitement, and I noticed her panties was drenched. Usually, at this point we dive into hot sex, but the devil was out to play. I then scolded her for stripping without me telling her and ordered her to kneel on all fours on the bed, looking away. I got into our "play drawer", tool out flog and crop.
I then began rub her back and butt, it was pink all over. I bent down and began to kiss and lick each ass cheek, and her wiggling was getting stronger. Then I stopped and gave her some smacks with the hand on both cheeks, getting them glowing. It was then then she felt the flog, lightly dance across her skin of the back and butt. then the lashes started, lightly of course, then medium. I stopped and laid the flog on her back, as I got between her legs and licked, right till she was ready to explode. Then I stopped, slowly dragged the flog across her back, as I took the crop and gave her few smacks, I kept dragging the flog across her, then few more slaps with the crop. I then did something never done before and lightly swung the flog between her legs, on the third time, she exploded with orgasm. Of course, this was just the start, but what I learned from this was the different sensations of the implement and mixing between feel of it and skin, then kisses, truly put her into orbit. She will be in trouble next time, he-he-he. Just remember, it doesn't have to be brutal or hard, but has to be sensuous.


Yes and no . It sounds like to me that you OH is very much like my OH in that they prefer the more sensual spanking approach . Its geared more to the touch than pain.

However there are those who do like the hard hitty sessions. The effect is the that it releases endorphins and these types tend to have a high pain threshold.

But everyone has different tastes and that's how boundaries are set and observed.
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I love to be spanked with her bare hand, over the knee on my bare ass cheeks getting red and hot with each smack....
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I like my spanking on my clit
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I like my spanking on my clit
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I like my spanking on my clit
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Spank with my hand on the softer parts. For the ass I Start with my hand then switch to a paddle. I have a nice collection of custom made paddles that leave a word imprinted on the naughty girl's ass. Immensely satisfying to see the word "SLUT" imprinted on her sexy ass.
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Spank with my hand on the softer parts. For the ass I Start with my hand then switch to a paddle. I have a nice collection of custom made paddles that leave a word imprinted on the naughty girl's ass. Immensely satisfying to see the word "SLUT" imprinted on her sexy ass.


This explains some of the looks I was getting yesterday...
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I prefer to be whipped with cords all over my body, but I also love being spanked.
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I always follow a strict order, warming up the butt with the hand, the marks will be deeper and last longer. Flogger and crop are mandatory, I´m not a whip or cane guy. Alternating strokes as I tease her as she trying to catch a breath. It´s all about communication beforehand to keep her safe and sound.
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Quote by StormNymph
I prefer to be whipped with cords all over my body, but I also love being spanked.


Wow, now that's hot. I've enjoyed it myself in the past !
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I always follow a strict order, warming up the butt with the hand, the marks will be deeper and last longer. Flogger and crop are mandatory, I´m not a whip or cane guy. Alternating strokes as I tease her as she trying to catch a breath. It´s all about communication beforehand to keep her safe and sound.


If your mind doesn´t turn me on, nothing else you have will.
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I can either be dom or sub. My interest if F/f spankings and OTK. I am not into bondage of any sort nor being hit anywhere other than my bottom. No implements other than the hand.
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I love to be spanked over the lap, first over panties then on the bare. An old fashion spanking is what I like and what I like to give to another naughty young lady.
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I love to have my bare ass slapped with a sandal or, mmmmmmmmmmmmmm leather crop