Yes I am a new sub as of now I have no collar or cuff but I really would like a cuff. To me it would remind me every day that I have a Mistress that cares for me. So I'm hoping in the near future to get one from My Mistress
For me even tho mine was a consideration collar, it meant full trust and by having it no matter what i believed in it till i had no reason to believe anymore.
No one can make you jealous, angry, vengeful, or greedy -unless you let him.
- Napoleon Hill
A collar is the ultimate show of a bond between a slave and their Master or Mistress it means the they both trust each other implicitly
My collar was a sign of devotion and love for my Mistress/Wife. I wore it proudly, It gave me opportunity to share with any who asked the nature of my relationship with my Mistress/Wife and to express my unyielding love for her
I will be able to say if and when I am lucky enough to experience it.........
Being collard depends on the D/s relationship you're in. Sometimes your collar could be a bracelet or ring, it doesn't have to actually be a collar. When a sub is collared its very special an I don't believe it should happen right away, but that's just me. I think the sub should have to earn their collar. The collar isn't just something pretty we get to wear but something with meaning. It shows that a sub is owned and that the sub is proud to be owned and loyal to their owner. It also shows the love between the Dom and sub, which has more meaning than anything. In my case yes I actually have a collar an it took some time for me to earn it. And when a sub is collared it should be permanent unless the relationship comes to an end. It's an amazing feelin to be collared and to wear that special something your Dom gave to you.
I will give the perspective from a Master's point of view I collar my slave when she has earned it when she has proven beyond a doubt total submission to me
When a Master or Mistress makes the decision to collar their slave that is a huge commitment on the slave and the Master or Mistresses part.
1) That is a mark of ownership from that Master or Mistress for the slave. That means that all actions of that slave that are taken in the public eye reflect back on the Master or Mistress whether that is actually the known case or not. This means that the reputation and respect of the Master and Mistress is on the line.
2) It is a sign of commitment that speaks to an extremely deep love and passion that is held for the slave. It means that the slave is now the most precious possession of the Master and Mistress.
3) It is a sign of total commitment of the slave to said Master or Mistress.
I can think of no higher complement that I could pay my slave then to offer her or him my collar.
If you have read 50 Shades of Gray and think that you are ready to be a dom or a sub. Then you have a lot to learn.
Follow my slave's blog slave skye's real life blog if we can get 100 followers she is going to start posting pictures!!! I know there are at least 100 of you that want to see that click the link enter your email and follow. We hit 100 then she has said she will post a picture of herself. The collared is giving themselves fully to there master, mind and body, they are putting there trust in the master not to abuse this commitment, and in turn they must not break it.
im my masters and im fully devoted to him no one can come between me and him and when the time is right .. he wil know.. and that is when it will be presented.. ive had a collar with my previous master and the time i had with him was alright but with my Master now.. i know its right.i know i can be good for him.. and our love will grow even more when im collard....
