Lately for me, it has been her rubbing her clit, pussy, and my cock while we're having sex. When she tells me about her masturbation experiences, it's also a huge turn-on.
call me odd but:
1. hold my interest with conversation
2. arouse me with your quiet elegance and sensuality
3. surprise with words: "take me". "do anything you want to me"
and if you can combine all three....
She leaned into me until our noses touched while her hand moved to my knee and slowly slid along the inside of my leg.
I answered by placing my hand on her knee and mirrored her journey of exploration. "Your place or mine?" I whispered. It was as cliché as shit, but I couldn't help myself. What could I say? She had just made me an offer I couldn't refuse.
Remember you asked for "the most:"
1. take the many days it takes to show me that you really do love me back. Without that start, you may get my body turned on but not "arouse me the most."
2. Given #1, do something like wear my shirt around, and just be happy and sexy in it. That really shows me you are into "me" and "us" like I am already now into "you" and "us."
3. Either approach me or be open to my approaching you, kissing me as I will kiss you, with all the passion in the world.
Then you will have me aroused as *fxxx* for a long, long time.
1. Wear a skirt or dress, showing plenty of toned legs and perhaps some cleavage
2. "accidentally" brush her breasts against my arm or back
3. Carry on an intelligent conversation
Top three things she could do/say to turn me on - flash her legs in a skirt and give me a quick crotch shot - ask me if I'd like to eat her out - and to TELL me to eat her out.