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Would you let your wife or gf have sex with another man if she demands or asks?
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I'm with many of other responders in that the word demand is a no go for me, in fact I'd probably drop her short of a good reason and I can think of none off the top of my head. If she asked for such a thing I'd probably go shopping with her and help her pick out a new outfit. lol
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Well I suppose so if there is beer in the fridge and dinner on the table ... pudding had better not be late thats all!
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Have to agree with many. Demand, no, but if she asked I would likely let her.
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Since we entered the swinging scene I have watched my wife have sex with other men and women and she has watched me with other women. This followed a long discussion and mutual consent. If there had been any 'demand' from either of us it would never have got any further I feel that to demand something would be lack of respect for each other. Asking? Now that is a different matter.
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It's said that all things are relative, and this question and the other answers given so far exemplify that. For me it would be dependent upon her also being willing to share me with other women (fair is fair after all) and both of us doing so with the clear understanding that those other people were simply living, breathing, ambulatory sex toys each of us was willing to accept for the purpose of giving one another pleasure beyond the capability of a single human being. Put another way, swinging would be a NO, unless it was done in the same room so we could each watch the other having sex (sort of a LIVE porn movie with our partner as the star). Similarly another man and I making love to her or another woman helping her make love to me would also be acceptable to me. But either of us getting together with others on a "solo" basis would not, as that would not fit my idea of a SHARED experience. Oh and I too would rankle at the "demand" idea.
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I would not tolerate either, nor would I do either to her.
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I would let her of course, she is her own woman and can make her own decisions. Of course the opposite side is, she would have to understand that I may have the same request of me being with another woman. This would be if she asks, demanding is another story. But my wife wouldn't demand. She probably wouldn't ask this question either.
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I love femdom, so if she demanded, I would let her do whatever she wanted.
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Yes, absolutely. She travels a lot for biz, so I am pretty sure she already did it anyway.
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I would be ok with it. I am her partner, not her owner.
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I would never tell my wife she couldn't do something. However, there would be a consequence for all involved parties. I'll just leave it at that.
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I don't do well with demands, so that would be a no for me. Depending on the reasons and after we have talked about it, I may be ok if she asks. I've been cheated on a few times and it's not an experience I'm willing to do again, but if we set up boundaries and I have full knowledge, maybe.
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Fuck no, she can take all of her shit and find somewhere else to live.
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Yes, my gf can fuck any guy she wants. I love it and so does she, becoming a cuckold was the best thing thats ever happened to me!
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Yes she can have sex with whom ever she wants. Love to watch if it's possible
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Obviously, people are free to make their own choices - within reason of course. It's not necessary "to demand", people should ultimately be selfish to the point of finding the best and bigger happiness for themselves, if they are able to do that without hurting others it's a perfect world, but it's not mandatory - yes I'm a very selfish and bad person.... but please have in mind that sometimes there is no bigger pleasure than making someone else smiling.
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Yes it's her body not mine. I would hope she would like me to be there to share the experience with her.
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I would love to watch and then join in. 69 with her on top, lick her pussy and his cock at the same time. After he came, i would lick his cock clean, then eat her clean too!
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Sure would....then joiin in.!!!!
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Demand? She's never had to demand. She has sex with other guys (and girls) and so do I. It was part of the package of us two hooking up.
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I would say...it depends, but probably yes, though I would definitely need to be involved myself.
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I wouldn't even contemplate it happening, but then again, my girlfriend would never, ever, have asked.
I'm not one of those people who can separate sex and feelings like some people seem to be able to. Hell, my girlfriends been gone now for 10 months and the thought of having sex with another woman would still feel like cheating on her, so I know full well that I wouldn't have done it whilst in a relationship- and she would have been the same.
For me, this question (her asking to sleep with another man) would be her telling me that I'm not good enough for her, or that I can't satisfy her. That's how I would take it, and it's how she would have taken it had it been the other way round.
I'm an all or nothing type person, especially within a relationship.
And it is about ownership, but not in the negative way that some people have argued here (the are a couple who have said 'I don't own her, so....').
I did own her, and with that came a huge responsibility that I took very seriously. But she owned me too. We owned each other. We took care of each other, and we made sure the other was always happy. We told each other everything, and shared everything. It also isn't a 'owned' in the BDSM type way, but it was 'owned' in a deeply held emotional way. She gave herself to me fully, both physically and emotionally, and I returned to her the same.
So the thought of sharing that with someone? No. Definitely not.
I'm not one of those people who can separate sex and feelings like some people seem to be able to. Hell, my girlfriends been gone now for 10 months and the thought of having sex with another woman would still feel like cheating on her, so I know full well that I wouldn't have done it whilst in a relationship- and she would have been the same.
For me, this question (her asking to sleep with another man) would be her telling me that I'm not good enough for her, or that I can't satisfy her. That's how I would take it, and it's how she would have taken it had it been the other way round.
I'm an all or nothing type person, especially within a relationship.
And it is about ownership, but not in the negative way that some people have argued here (the are a couple who have said 'I don't own her, so....').
I did own her, and with that came a huge responsibility that I took very seriously. But she owned me too. We owned each other. We took care of each other, and we made sure the other was always happy. We told each other everything, and shared everything. It also isn't a 'owned' in the BDSM type way, but it was 'owned' in a deeply held emotional way. She gave herself to me fully, both physically and emotionally, and I returned to her the same.
So the thought of sharing that with someone? No. Definitely not.
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Of course. I occasionally share her but she always wants my input when she selects men. I wish she would be more proactive and set things up on her own.
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My wife told me one night she wanted to fuck my friend, so I asked him if he wanted to fuck her, as she wanted to fuck him. He told me yes, He'd love to fuck her, so with in minutes he was in bed with her and we both fucked her many times, He continued to fuck her for many years, even after he got married, he used to come by for a fuck and blow job. I enjoyed him fucking her, as well as several other guys. some of my stories are about her and me and our friends.
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I understand you must let a woman do what ever she pleases. I also believe what she does can be quite revealing about how she feels about me. I would let her and move on to a woman who didn't make me feel like that. She deserves a guy like the others on this forum not someone like me.
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Demand? Makes no difference whether it's a wife, girlfriend, kidnapper, boss, employee, protester or whoever - I don't respond to demands!
Ask? No wife or girlfriend of mine has ever had to ask. I am not her parent. I am not her owner. It's her decision.
Would I be okay with it if she did? I would be upset if it resulted in an alienation of affection or had some other seriously negative effect on our relationship. Otherwise though, I don't see a problem. Might even be a positive!
Ask? No wife or girlfriend of mine has ever had to ask. I am not her parent. I am not her owner. It's her decision.
Would I be okay with it if she did? I would be upset if it resulted in an alienation of affection or had some other seriously negative effect on our relationship. Otherwise though, I don't see a problem. Might even be a positive!
