HELL NO IS NOT STRONG ENOUGH OF AN ANSWER. MORE LIKE FUCK NO AND THERE IS THE DOOR.
Obviously things aren't going to last with a girl that is like this... So a smart guy would tell his friend to just chill while he bangs this new chick until she flips out and eventually leaves. The friend should understand if she's actually a friend and not some girl that wants more but pretending to be friends. Seems pretty simple. I mean guys do it to guy friends all the time. "hey dude, my new girl thinks you're a total shithead, sorry can't come over for now." The friend gets it and just chills until the crazy girl is gone.
But like if its obvious that the "friend" is all over the guys dick. Then I don't see the GF being that wrong really. It depends.
Maybe this applies... Maybe it doesn't.
My best friend in the entire world is a guy.
I've been given the ultimatum from countless boyfriends over the years because they couldn't seem to get it through their thick heads that a man and a woman could be friends, let alone the best of friends. My bestie's had the same issue with girlfriends.
Guess what? They're gone and we're still friends.
It'll either work out or it won't. But I won't let a piece of tail ruin a friendship I've had for over 20 years just because someone I'm dating is insecure and my bestie knows it.
Nor would I ever try to come between my guy and his best friend. Irregardless of the gender.
Now if this all over some online bullshit... Then you guys need to get your shit together and your priorities straight cause it's kind of pathetic and sad. I'll never understand how people can play make-believe online and think it's real.
But that's just my 2 cents. Take it for what it's worth.
Nice edit JohnC. And for the record, my fakebook friends are just that. Friends. Not online lovers.
I'm part of a large online gaming community and I've never let myself believe that the people I played with were anything more than acquaintances. I never lied to myself and believed they were something more than what they were. Nor did I believe that the person they portrayed online was the gospel truth. I am not that naive.
My alarm bells raise pure hell at the first sign of anything remotely romantic when it comes to someone online. I don't trust it. But then I have trust issues. Just like my alarm bells start ringing when someone online finds something I've typed to be offensive. Take it for what you will, but that was not my intention. Not in the slightest. But if you feel that you have to defend yourself and others, go for it.
It's only my opinion and I did mention how I would never understand how people get wrapped up in an online love affair. I just cannot wrap my head around it.
Pussy whipped. Personaly , i wouldn't take kindly to a new friend / girlfriend telling me who i can and can;t have as a friend. secondly, snooping or spying on me would just piss me off even further.
Personally I'd ask myself just when my life suddenly became a teenage soap opera.
Two weeks into a relationship? This isn't an ultimatum, it's ground rules. You're still in the cooling-off period at two weeks; either side should be able to say "I'm not sticking around if I have to deal with this shit".
If she'd put up with it for two YEARS and then kicked up a stink, then yes - it would be an ultimatum and would be symptomatic of some more deep-rooted problems. In all these types of scenarios it's worthwhile swapping the genders of the protagonists and seeing if you come to the same conclusions (it removes the distractions of "pussy-whipping").
Does it even count as a relationship after two weeks?
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I had enough of those kind of teen dramas in high school. A girlfriend of two weeks or even two months giving ultimatums would have to go. Even my wife doesn't give me ultimatums nor I to her. That is not conducive to a healthy relationship. (And don't do that 'relationship talk' either.)