if i caught my wife in bed with another woman i get naked and join in so no its not
I would be a bit surprised and yes it is cheating but it's easier to accept because it's a fantasy of mine. Aslobg as she included me in the future and didn't leave me for them then yeah I would be cool with it.
No as long as I could join in dressed in my lingerie.
My ex did just that. She visited her friend in London when I was away on business. They got together. I was texting all the time asking what they were doing. She told me to bugger off and she would fill me in when I got back.
It was a great turn on! I couldn't wait to get home!
I used to be a pervert. In here, I'm normal!
Watch this space...She is really - cumming soon!
If she did it on the sly, then yes, I would consider it cheating. On the other hand, if knew she had a fancy for other women and she asked/told me she was going to, then I would give her my blessing and would like to be there, - if that was alright with them. And if it didn't take away any of my sex with her.
My wife has had sex with other women on many occasions. I find it a real turn on to watch her. We consider cheating if either one of you did it in secret behind the others back with male or female. That's deceitful and unfaithful in our opinion.
Finding out she was bi would be the biggest urn on for me. Of course, I would demand to join in once and awhile.
The romantic bi guy.
Stay horny my friend.
I think you can tell from my Avatar I am not one of the guys.
Of course, it is cheating. But we have lived this open lifestyle forever it seems.
He has the same rights and privileges as I do.
We often share the outside experiences. That is some of the time but not always.
Some think I cheat more than my husband.
Could that be true?.
I think if I was told before or even after I wouldn't mind as it's always been a fantasy of mine, of course if there was more to it and she left me well, I'd be distraught!
Is there any difference?! Probably is even worse with a girl - I could feel I have the wrong set of tools and I caught the wrong "train".
There's a natural and inevitable competition between men for women so, no matter how this sounds, it would probably seem worse if it were a man. But that being said, that she would sleep with anyone without mutual prior consent would indeed make it cheating.
I would love to watch.
But there in lies a hypothetical, so ask the girls.
What would she say if I had sex with another man?
If is was in secret, or became an emotional attachment, then yes.
That said, the one time I was asked, I said "yes" before she had even finished the question.
I don't consider it cheating if he knows and is okay with it. At some point you have to become comfortable with your sexuality and accept it. My husband dealing with me being bi-sexual and accepting it was actually one of the conditions that I had when I accepted his marriage proposal.
Our agreement is that we're monogamous. The gender of the other person doesn't matter.
Wouldn't bother me; I'd prefer to be there to watch or participate but either way it would be a turn on for me.
I would only consider it cheating if I wasn't invited and there were no pictures.
All about the honesty, not sex....
Not at all she has slept with other guys and gals they say a change is always good
I'd consider it cheating, because it simply is by definition. Would I care? Not if it was a "sex only" thing. If she could be emotionally involved with another woman, then it would bother me.
I agree with previous commenter - keeping it a secret makes it cheating. If she were to tell me about it, then I'd be fine regardless if it were another man or a woman...
Not as long as she informs me about it, or better yet, invites me to watch or participate. If she were to do it without my knowledge, we would have some issues.
What about the converse? Is it just me or is it more socially acceptable for women to have sex with other women than ...
