Ok here is a question for the guys that I am dying to know how you will respond.
Lets say, that you are in a commited relationship. And lets say that there are sexual things that you want your significant other to do and she refuses. Whatever the reason may be, would you consider looking elsewhere for those needs to be filled? And at the same time stay in that relationship and not tell your significant other what you are doing?
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I didn't really get it at the time, but when I was a young lass I was the "side dish" for an older man who used me for that purpose. In retrospect he was dishonest to both me and his SO.
I think it all depends on the guy and how important the "sexual things" are to him. I realize there are things a woman won't do, and I can work around that. For example, if she doesn't swallow, so what? There are other things she can do that are equally or almost as erotic.
But if there is a constant refusal for sex from the significant other, we're talking a whole different ballgame.
Pixie, can you be more specific -- If she won't have sex that could be a deal breaker but otherwise...it might be ok.
No its not have sex at all......just some sexual things. Like blowjobs or anal....things like that.
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its still cheating and if u cant be content with what u have u shouldnt be there just my opinon
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Absolutly out of the question.
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Definitely not. Even on a landscape with certain forbidden zones, there are infinite places to explore.
Thanks for all the replies guys!
♥ Listen, touch, and look around in the air and on the ground. If you watch all nature's things, you might just see a fairy's wings. ♥
I am about the biggest freak I know and so far it has never been a problem for me. There are so many different sexual possibilities that how can not getting one thing really be that big of a deal. I find that more women are responsive to you asking them what they would like to try. It generally takes a lot to get them to confess what they have wanted to try but have been afraid to ever ask a partner for ut once you get the to open up with you then discussion can bring about reasons why this is acceptable and that is not.
If I were ever in a committed relationship with a girl that I loved and she didn't want to do something, I wouldn't force her and the thought of going to some other girl for it would never even cross my mind. Get over it and move on!
Never....nope, but I'm Irish, Catholic, old and married.
You know that is an interesting question. I have been married over 30 years.. and loved giving oral... She also loved recieving it. I was a virgin when we met. I have never had a BJ because she told me she had a bad experience before we met. She wouldn't discuss it further. All the times I gave her oral... I could never convince her to return the favor. Now we are in a sexless marriage... and damm rights... I am out looking to find a relationship that would satisfy my sexual desires
Interesting Question Pixie.
been there and done it too many times before, but now? no, with relationships come compromise, you have to take the rough with the smooth! So what if my wife isn't as sexual as I am, she is my wife, the mother of my children, my best friend. Chatting on here without her knowing is one thing, but physically cheating on her, no, I wouldn't do again, my balls look much better attached to my body than on a plinth on the mantle piece!
for personal opinion, I won't look for another to satisfy those things she won't do, who cares if she won't do it, all i want is her to enjoy, if i can't force her so be it, i can't make her do what she doesn't want. If I am really in love with that girl, I could give up some wants for her.
Hmmmmm.... Pixie, thats pretty easy. If it was just certain sex things like BJ's then no, i wouldnt cheat on my spouse. Now if there are other holes that my relationship leaves vacant then yes. Yes i would.
JUST BE HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU HAVE!!!!
I wouldn't get involved with a woman who wasn't willing to fulfill important requests. If i was unfortunate enough to find myself in this position i would not go elsewhere. If my word is crap what the hell good am I?
