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Why do men edge themselves?

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I honestly believe that edging makes it possible for me to be multi-orgasmic.  I feel like I am cumming once, and if the stimulation continues, again in about 5-10 seconds, and maybe sometimes a third time in another 5-10 seconds.  While it may not result in additional ejaculate to cum more than once, it does have the intense feeling of repeated climaxes, so who cares if there is ejaculate?  

Needless to say, the feeling is great, both getting there and finishing.  If your partner is  conscientious giver, and can can learn the signs and take you to the edge, repeated times, you have found a sex god(dess) and you have been given a rare gift.  They will take great delight in teasing the shit out of you, knowing it will greatly intensify your climax! Treat that partner with the utmost respect, because you may never find someone better suited to giving you such intense pleasure. 

"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than open one's mouth and remove all doubt" - Mark Twain (or Lincoln, or Confucius, or...)

I edge when I masturbate because it prolongs my sexual pleasure. Also edging takes my penis to the absolute peak of erection stiffness and pleasure sensitivity so my orgasm is exquisite. I usually only edge for a few minutes. I would like to meet a woman who knows how to hold my cock on the edge when she hand jobs me.

I have eyewatering, shaking, electrifying orgasms when I edge. Even better when someone is giving me a hand ;)

'Nough said!

"Graze on my lips; and if those hills be dry, stray lower, where the pleasant fountains lie." ~ Shakespeare.

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Honestly I was more just curious about it . Believe it or not not everyone is expierenced enough to have a jack off strategy . I was simply looking for a definite answer on wether people do it for pleasure or if it's something that benefits your partner

Well now, my strategy is to first use some bondage and then edge the one bound to the point that I'm the one in control of when. Having been on the other side its torture of the good kind and the reward at the end leaves you wrung out like a dish rag.

By edging, it all builds up and kind of overwhelms you until you can think of little else....so yeah, a little crazy maybe but when you cum, it is much stronger and like the huge ropes of cum you see on porn films.

Since a guy can cum much more quickly it just prolongs the pleasure. I feel a woman has to work harder for her orgasm.

As everyone said before: lasting longer and shooting bigger.

You wanna possibly shoot volumes like Peter North? Edge.

You wanna engage that primality that'll have you growling "Dropping loads" like Nick Manning? Edge.

You wanna go into caveman mode like Sean Michaels or Prince Yahshua? Edge.

TL/DR: Edging makes you bust the fat, screaming nuts.

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I love to watch porn and edge for an hour or two resulting in intense pleasure and cuming with very strong squirts of sperm.

Why not make the pleasure last longer, not only that but the orgasm is usually more intense.

I'd say, because the journey can be as exciting as the destination. I know the word 'tantric' is wringly used, but it can be a transcendental experience that's worth prolonging.

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Honestly I was more just curious about it . Believe it or not not everyone is expierenced enough to have a jack off strategy . I was simply looking for a definite answer on wether people do it for pleasure or if it's something that benefits your partner

Yes, anyone can jack off, but edgers are like the gourmet connoisseurs of masturbation. They take a basic biological need and function and transform it into an exquisite experience. Edging is my preferred way to get off, but it's very selfish - me practicing control over my own body and carefully managing the mental and physical stimulation to keep me on the edge, intensely focused only on my own pleasure for an extended period of time (hours), so I don't usually try to get into it with my partner. I doubt she'd have the patience to be sexually micromanaged for hours on end without getting anything in return. I know I wouldn't. When I do edge, it's when I know I've got a long time alone to indulge myself that way. However, indirectly, it can help with more awareness of my own sexual responses and lasting longer with a partner as well, so that's a benefit for her.

Don't believe everything that you read.

Weird that I have never responded to this one under either my former or current Lush self. But I think Serene_Prodigy nailed it right back on the first page:

"To make the pleasure last longer ; it also makes the orgasm more pleasurable at the end."

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It just feels so good, gently stroking and holding your orgasm on the brink. I find I can only edge for myself. I've never met a girl or boy who can hold me just on the brink.