What about if it's a shockingly hard slap that shocks you? What does that mean?
That depends on the situation... And how the slap was done. Most men (including myself) do not slap well. It is in our physiology to hit things our bones and muscles are heavy and hard when we slap we tend do drive the weight of our hand which causes a much harder and different type of hit than we intend. I have started just using my fingers instead of the palm of my hand because of this.. And I use a light rubber whip or belt for that purpose the point being to bring a wash of high intensity sensation without deep bruising. Kimmi (kimmigirl here) and I have worked out what works for us. But I am always afraid i will spank her too hard or in the wrong way.
As for the shockingly hard slap.. what was the particular situation.. does he have a habit of doing it... what does it do for you or to you. does it scare you in a way that makes you unconfortable... Does he derive pleasure from hurting you in an unhealthy way... You should contemplate the situation and answer these questions.
For my girlfriend and I it is my way of spurring her on during sex ,,when she is woman astride,, But too hard of a slap will kill the mood for her,,talk to your man about this.
We need to know the context in which the slap was given.
It can mean a lot of different things depending if it's your S.O., somebody that's just passing by in the bar, or Creepy Office Guy Who's Desk You Always Avoid.
But, like others have said, it's context dependent. Like many other forms of non-verbal communication.
well apparently he gave you a good one that suprised you and if i were to do it... i probably was really aroused by you and was admiring your ass, i know after ive had some good feels of it, i like to give it a good spank, i guess to make up for the fact if im in a position where i cant bury my face in it lol
I don't slap a womens ass unles I'm having sex with her. There is a time and place for everything....
I've grabbed ass...stroked ass...caressed and fondled ass...but I've never smacked dat ass.
Heheh, unless 'she' has begged me to, in the appropriate manner
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Ohhh not me...sounds too hard on the balls!
Have to be gentle with mine, a few times you ladies have played too rough and made me sick to my stomach!
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av. It means he loves you and he thinks you are sexy as hell and dosnt want you forget it... Ever
It really depends on the situation. I really only slap the girls I know VERY well.
most likely that he wants to do you