A long time ago, when a relationship was just getting started, I hid my stash of porn in the closet before my girlfriend came round. To my amazement she just took it for granted that guys had porn videos and magazines lying around and practically demanded I get some stuff out. Maybe I was a bit naïve - I was younger then. Anyway, I've watched all sorts of stuff with women, but never for long...
My wife didn't like porn. but one day I brought home some porn stuff and asked her if its ok for me to watch. She said she'll join me. Within a few minutes she was sucking my cock and performing what was being performed on screen. She now regularly watches Porn, with or without me.
speaking as a female, I do watch some, with my girl friends occasionally, it can be fun. I find stories much better though. the mind is the most sensitive sexual organ, video seems to dull it to me
Sadly, I've never watched porn with a woman. I would love to do that, hopefully to turn her on but also, to let her know what I enjoy. I think the only times I've actually even discussed porn with women is in strip clubs. Just not a subject I've ever felt comfortable raising - I wish that were not the case.
I do watch my favourite porn sites occasionally and can enjoy a good video - mainly girls together. I do share any good ones with my girlfriends and with the boys occasionally.
I use to, then we stopped it. Simply because by the 3rd or 4th video, she would ask "have you seen this before? and when did you last watch porn?"
It became a trigger for the Porn Investigator.
So no more sharing porn. It was good while it lasted though, coz we would discuss all sorts of "would you do that" situations...
Very rarely unfortunately . My wife gets jeleous very easily and becomes concerned if I am paying to much attention to the screen. Considers my watching it alone to be tantamount to cheating. It amazing that we've made it 27 years.
I Think one of the healthiest things i have ever suggested for my girlfriend and i was to watch porn. IT was because of porn that i learned she was interested in anal (and the reason we had anal sex for the first time). If anything it allows you to understand more about your partner sexually and heighten how great the sex life already may be.
Maybe I'm just wired wrong, but watching porn has never done much for me, with or without a partner.
I'm always distracted by the bizarre positions that are used for better camera angles, I'm always distracted by the music/the actress saying ridiculous things or making clearly fake moaning sounds when she's performing fellatio. I'm almost always distracted by the settings, which invariably appear to have been cheaply and hastily furnished--and who the f*ck does a MMF threesome on a cream coloured sofa?
I'd give anything to not have a multi-track mind, but it is what it is.
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we have been married 40 years and still watch porn together or read it
My partner does like to watch porn with me, but she prefers a story line. I'm usually just interested in the fucking scenes, if you get my drift...
We ... my wife and girlfriend watch porn all the time. It motivates them to try new things.
Back in my youth it seemed uncommon to meet women who watched or liked porn movies. I met a few & they were the sort who also enjoyed swapping partners, or swinger house parties ect... In the 1980s I started seeing copies of PlayGirl in single women's domiciles, & copies of Penthouse as well. By the 90s it seemed porn was not uncommon with the girls, either with couples or at all girl soirees. The net has made it available as water & the hardcore is increasingly popular with the ladies. Would like to introduce some of the younger women I know to Sylvi Krystel & her first two Emanuelle roles.
In a word...yes...it's a great warm up!
Why not? Beats the election, news, and could be looked at as Reality tv
Absolutely... but not with my "ex"... part of the reason I left is lack of sex.
But with others, yes. As unrealistic as most of it is, it still gets the heat turned up.
had a gf once tell me about how her ex would get into a trance and disconnect with her emotionally to watch porn in order to be aroused enough to be with her. of course, that was a big turn-off for her. that sort of scenario doesn't appeal to me or seem likely to ever happen.
with me, i'm into the woman i'm with, very present and connected, very attuned to her body and her reactions... the very best porn is a million times less stimulating than hot, passionate, uninhibited sex with a sexually open woman, but on occasion, it is be arousing to see decent quality porn together... in that sense, it's an intimacy enhancer because we are sharing the experience and getting turned on together.
i would not date a woman who was against porn though. in my first marriage, she was neither passionate nor uninhibited nor inclined to ever become that way, and sex felt like work... sorta ok for a while, but not allowed very often and limited to a couple simple routines. in that situation, masturbating to porn became an occasional escape to allow my fantasies a small breath of air. when we finally ended that marriage, i discovered that not all women were so asexual, that some actually loved it, and that the "real deal" could be WAY better than any fantasy, porn-induced or not.
the last few years, if i am alone and masturbating to porn, i often close my eyes at some points, and due to the porn reminding me in some way of various erotic moments from my life, I recall various sexual memories. these memories are better than the porn because they were real and have many emotional and physical dimensions to them.
We used to put in a porn movie in the bedroom and we would fuck with the scenes.
It was how I realised that my wife was interested in women. The scenes with women together seemed to get her very turned on. Eventually we talked about it and it opened up an opportunity for us to discuss our fantasies.
My wife and I both watch porn, but have only done it together a few times. For me, it makes me cum too fast. I see the stuff she watches, though, and sometimes get myself off by surfing her browsing history.
but been married 35 yrs cant change now LOL
