To those who Cheated while being in Relationship, what Instigated you ? was it worth ?? and what were the consequences ??

26 Jun 2017

I did cheat on Hubbie when we were engaged. My first 4 lovers were fairly normal. I thought they were the one and thought they would result in marriage, even though I was rather young when I started making love. My 5th love was completely different. He was one of my high school teachers, 8 years my senior at 25. So at 17 I accepted his collar and at my collaring ceremony pledged my body to his pleasure. Shortly after that he started sharing me at a 3 day gang bang. See my stories "My First Gang Bang and Golden Shower" Parts 1 & 2.

It was during this time I started dating Hubbie again. When we got serious and he was considering us getting married he ask if I was still a virgin. I lied to him and told him I was. When we got married he still believed we had given each other our virginities about 2 years before we were married. I still dated my Teach until about two weeks before we were married.

About a year after we were married Hubbie and I were at my annual alumni dance at my high school. Hubbie over heard Teach and our head janitor talking about the time the janitor caught Teach and I fucking in a teachers lounge. He was furious but extremely turned on. But for him being so turned on he would have left me. He had me tell him everything about my prior sex life. About a month later after we returned to his AF base in West Texas I accepted his collar and shortly he started sharing me. That was ver 36 years ago.

Brandie

3 Jul 2017

I had a long relationship (6 years) when I was younger and cheated once. Didnt even really mean to, things just happened. Sex was blaa and I would lie awake at night regretting it. I never would again.

24 Jul 2019

I cheated before in a long term relationship because my gf would never have sex. I mean never ever. Got tired of it after a while and gave in to temptation. I must say that the sex I had was incredible and I probably missed out on some good relationships had I left but I stuck with my gf because I did love her. However, in the end it just wasn't going to work out and I didn't want to spend my whole life cheating. So...I cheated, and enjoyed the sex but I wouldn't cheat again. Cheating didn't ruin our relationship. I should have left before it got that bad.

25 Jul 2019

Quote by moon03
Whatever instigated someone to cheat his/her partner in a relationship, can't justify their deeds come what may! This is my personal opinion and I don't want anyone to quote me or hurt anyone's feelings. But according to me cheaters are cheaters, nothing can change that. If you aren't happy in a relationship just end it, simple. Have the guts to tell your partner you can't take it anymore. I had the love of my life (at least I thought so) cheat me after 8 years of being together. It shattered me to the extent that I have a hard time trusting men. No one is forcing you to be in a relationship. Just speak out and let it go. (Hah! I think I will have to stop now)

Why do so many get confused about sex and love. They certainly go together, but at the same time sex is a great pleasure without love.

I have been married a long time and love this guy with all my heart, but that does not make me a Nun either. Yes there have been others and yes I am sure my husband has had others also.

What did you expect I had been getting more and more horny by the hour and I walked into the Downtown Marriott and there you are tall dark and studly. Did anyone really expect me to turn around and fly across the country to have sex at home.

With you right there and so vuneralbe to be trapped in my web of Lust. Be realistic.