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For me I could take it or leave it... I mean if she is willing and offering then HELL YES!! But if for some reason she isn't into it then that's not gonna chase me away.
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To Be Sucked or not to be Sucked?
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Love it. Kissing my wife's swollen juicy lips after.....the best
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Quote by Impish_Grin
Love oral. Both giving and receiving, either on its own, 69 or as a prelude (or afterlude). I love making a woman cum orally first - it makes the sensation of penetration even more intense. I've only not enjoyed it once, because the girl couldn't get her jaws wide enough and I got scraped. Otherwise, as long as the woman is enjoying it, I love it.
I love the intimacy and the mixture of sensations when mouthwork is combined with hands, or breasts, or other parts of the body. I love watching her expression, and feeling the connection. It's also great to just lie back sometimes and be pleased.
I also love the feeling of being worshipped. It's not an ego thing (well, not in the bad sense), it's what lovers should do for one another - worship their bodies and devote themselves to giving pleasure. Oral is a great way for both partners to develop that sense of awe and devotion to one another.
And then, on a purely recreational level, it's hot as hell.
I realize it's an 'Ask the Guys' thread, but I had to give my input on this one...and I think Impish_Grin makes a fabulous point!
As for a lot of other men...I'm quite surprised at the answers being posted about not being fans of being on the receiving end of oral stimulation!
Tragic, I think!
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To the guys who find blow-jobs boring, unfortunately I have to agree to the extent that if your partner isn't enjoying it, then you probably aren't either. I've been with women who only did oral out of a sense of obligation, or "wanted" to but did not understand that its not just a mechanical exercise, and the results weren't satisfying. Which is a shame because like everything else about sex, a good BJ done with feeling and imagination is mindshattering.
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Love to be sucked on, love to suck and lick a sweet pussy. Only wish I could find someone who likes to suck as much as I do.
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Oh most definitely a yes! Nothing like the feel of a hot mouth teasing the glans..the tongue circling and a hand squeezing...yum....now if I am flicking my tongue over a swollen and sensitive clitoris at the same time the all the better 
I'm not surprised by what the men here are saying. I've heard it a lot. I always ask more questions, because well I don't like being told I don't get to engage in a bit of worship. Every time I've heard something to the effect of "well it's not really my thing, no one's wowed me with it. I just don't get the hype." To that, I always ask if they will please allow me a chance to change their minds. I tell them they can direct me all they want, including having me stop if I'm not doing it for them and I will move on with no hard feelings (total lie. I will stop but I will also have hard feelings, I will be sorely disappointed). I love it. I have yet to be turned down when I ask so nicely. And I have yet to be told to stop. I have to say, it's fun to make believers (or should I say beggers) out of prevously jaded men.
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Quote by Pasqior me I love a nice soft gentle sucking must be into me and loves my cock my taste my come , it show so much when they are just sucking you because they feel they should , its the same when a man goes down on a girl they know when we're not really it to it , f
For me I could take it or leave it... I mean if she is willing and offering then HELL YES!! But if for some reason she isn't into it then that's not gonna chase me away.
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I love bjs nuttin like it if its done rite. I have found over the yrs that if a woman enjoys givin them they r wonderful at it, but if she just does it to please u she may not be so good either way I love gettin . I also love givin to a woman to its just wonderful when u feel every muscle tence up and she cums for u like that . I love it makes me feel I have done somethng wonderful for her .
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Although its been a while, I do recall (with a smile on my face) very much enjoying the feel of a womans lips wrapped around my crown and her tongue careesing the underside. Add to that, the knowledge that I have surrendered myself to the ultimate act of trust. I'm at her mercy, and loving every minute of it. Then there's the after-kiss! And then I get to tease her and please her. That's the way I remember it, anyway!
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I loved getting sucked, and love sucking cunt! My wife is very good at it and is extremely sensual while giving it! Just watch the teeth! hehehe
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Quote by WHR43Quote by SirSpanksAlot80
I'm with CLUM on this too I can take it or leave it.
BUT that's cuz a couple of girls I've been with went that good at it. I've only had one that was the best at it but after awhile of her working on my throbbing member i just wanted to feel her wetness around it so I would return the oral foreplay n we'd go at it like a couple of bunnies
How could you have only done anything with one or two people and know what is best or what is not best?
Could you possibly be more skilled at oral after 30, 40 or more explorations?
That's true!!! it's just with the couple I have it wasn't that pleasurable seem like they didn't like what they were doing. I still had a huge hard on just wasn't our cup of tea I guess. BUT my last girlfriend WOW she was the shit knew how to rock my world
So I'm just going with my experience on this one 
I love oral. giving as much, if not MORE, than receiving. I love eating out a woman, and making her come at least 3 times before penetration. Love ass licking and cocksucking and the taste of come, male and female. I once had a woman squirt all over my face beacause I made her come so hard. So very HOT!
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I love oral sex! Getting and giving!
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Quote by symes4u
Love the ol' 68. You do me and I will owe you one.
Bet that goes over real well.
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My husband is 42 years old and while he loved receiving oral, he did get bored with it because no woman had ever made him cum doing it....until he met me...now he can't imagine going without it.
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It's great to have a woman that is as passionate about going down on you, as you are with her!
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My wife doesn't like to suck me, she isn't that good at it anyways so... She is great at other stuff so, being sucked isn't that important to me. In the end I still have pleasure and I cum deep in her pussy...
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When I was younger I did not care much for BJs but as I have become older and the women became more experienced a BJ became a requirement for me.
I just love both giving and receiving head... The sensation of going down on a woman who's digging what you're doing is just perfectly pleasurable.....
(Interestingly, it's not always the same trip when I go down on Her... Sometimes I feel all masterful and in control and get off on the pleasure I give her as she gets off on it, Other times I feel quite submissive and worshipful and I get a kick out of simply adoring her.....) I've found my girlfriends like it either way....
My first ever blow-job happened when I was very young... I remember she was very keen to please, a virgin like me she took my directions very well and it was SENSATIONAL!!!!! And she swallowed, it's important!!!! I THINK, remembering back, that it gave her a certain kind of sexual confidence that she could do for me what I'd been doing for her.... (I certainly know she loved doing it ever after...)
I've had other girls since and I've never had one who won't blow me... I have had some who won't swallow, and some who insist they don't like to do it because other boys have told them they aren't very good at it..... Again a little bit of gentle guidance usually sorts that out, and the expression on the face of a girl who's been told 'she's not good at it' when she finally makes you come that way is PRICELESS!!!!! Like YOU're the one who's given HER a gift!!!
Only ONCE have I ever had a girl who just couldn't do it...... And to be honest, she was really inhibited and it took ages for her to get into my going down on her..... She was very Catholic and strange about that stuff..... Eventually she got to love my licking her, but, perhaps because I'm big and she had a tiny little mouth, she never quite mastered the whole 'blow-job' thing..... She DID try, God love her, but she never succeeded in making me come that way..... I think she just thought about it too much...... After a while I just stopped suggesting it...... Funnily enough, she LOVED licking and kissing and stroking me but she never ever got the rythym right.... And oddly, she LOVED to have me come in her mouth and loved the taste and always swallowed...... (She'd ask me to pull out just before I came and come in her mouth.....)
I think it's quite empowering for the girl if she gives good head..... And she knows it.....
On the surface, perhaps it's a submissive act but in reality SHE knows who's controlling this in the seconds before she makes him come.... Okay, so she might like to be taken roughly and have her ass spanked and her hair pulled and being called whorish names as you fuck her, but in the moment that she makes you come when your cock is in her throat both of you know who's REALLY in charge...... (And at that point, it ISN'T the guy......)
And the ones who are good at it always look so proud afterwards.......
GOD, I LOVE women!!!!!!!
xx SF
(Interestingly, it's not always the same trip when I go down on Her... Sometimes I feel all masterful and in control and get off on the pleasure I give her as she gets off on it, Other times I feel quite submissive and worshipful and I get a kick out of simply adoring her.....) I've found my girlfriends like it either way....
My first ever blow-job happened when I was very young... I remember she was very keen to please, a virgin like me she took my directions very well and it was SENSATIONAL!!!!! And she swallowed, it's important!!!! I THINK, remembering back, that it gave her a certain kind of sexual confidence that she could do for me what I'd been doing for her.... (I certainly know she loved doing it ever after...)
I've had other girls since and I've never had one who won't blow me... I have had some who won't swallow, and some who insist they don't like to do it because other boys have told them they aren't very good at it..... Again a little bit of gentle guidance usually sorts that out, and the expression on the face of a girl who's been told 'she's not good at it' when she finally makes you come that way is PRICELESS!!!!! Like YOU're the one who's given HER a gift!!!
Only ONCE have I ever had a girl who just couldn't do it...... And to be honest, she was really inhibited and it took ages for her to get into my going down on her..... She was very Catholic and strange about that stuff..... Eventually she got to love my licking her, but, perhaps because I'm big and she had a tiny little mouth, she never quite mastered the whole 'blow-job' thing..... She DID try, God love her, but she never succeeded in making me come that way..... I think she just thought about it too much...... After a while I just stopped suggesting it...... Funnily enough, she LOVED licking and kissing and stroking me but she never ever got the rythym right.... And oddly, she LOVED to have me come in her mouth and loved the taste and always swallowed...... (She'd ask me to pull out just before I came and come in her mouth.....)
I think it's quite empowering for the girl if she gives good head..... And she knows it.....
On the surface, perhaps it's a submissive act but in reality SHE knows who's controlling this in the seconds before she makes him come.... Okay, so she might like to be taken roughly and have her ass spanked and her hair pulled and being called whorish names as you fuck her, but in the moment that she makes you come when your cock is in her throat both of you know who's REALLY in charge...... (And at that point, it ISN'T the guy......)
And the ones who are good at it always look so proud afterwards.......
GOD, I LOVE women!!!!!!!
xx SF
Quote by swollen
Wow, this thread is a bit of an eye-opener to me. I never imagined there are guys out there who don't like to be on the receiving end of some gentle oral stimulation !
For me, oral - both giving and receiving are a natural, and extremely enjoyable, part of a good 'session.'
Well said Swollen. For me it's something very special between two people, very erotic and sensual. It is extreamely enjoyable.
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was married for 15 years to a man who did not like to be sucked.
never did it until the marriage ended
who KNEW that it was something I love to do ....LOVE to do...can i say LOVE to do...and to swallow
can i ask one question..since i am new to....it...is there ONE thing that women do when sucking YOU dont like?
sorry to highjack .....
never did it until the marriage ended
who KNEW that it was something I love to do ....LOVE to do...can i say LOVE to do...and to swallow
can i ask one question..since i am new to....it...is there ONE thing that women do when sucking YOU dont like?
sorry to highjack .....