I think you need a girl to be a bit of both...you don't want too much of one or the other a nice balance works
I'd like (at least) one of each please. Time and a place for everything that way.
"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
I think for me it is totally modd dependant, when im horny and want some dirty sex, I want slutty
but as for a relationship to date, sweet for sure
Slutty in the bedroom--sweet outside the bedroom.
I would have to say that this is sort of an unfair question. Its impossible to separate a woman into categories and decide which one you like better. That would be like asking, "What do you like better, a smart guy or an athletic guy?" Just because someone is one of those things, doesn't make it mutually exclusive. A woman can be an absolute sweet heart both in and out of bed, but also be a sex hungry slut at the same time. Being a slut doesn't make a bad girl, and being sweet doesn't ensure a nice girl. No one wants nothing but sex in a relationship, but on the other hand no one wants stagnation. That's just my two cents though.
I would have to say a sweet girl thats not afraid to show her sexual side.
I've had a great chuckle over this thread. I've read it a few times just for laughs alone.
Basically, I am a slut because I enjoy sex. Because I am a natural teacher and share my personal experiences with those around me. Be they my actual students, or friends, or you all. Because I am adventurous and not ashamed to talk about my experiences (ah heck my foots asleep again!!!!)be they good or bad or negative or positive, share them in stories and discuss my inner most desires with people.
Sigh... Vie l'sluto!!!!!
I flirt, I banter, I tease like there is no tomorrow. But... that does not mean you have a chance in hell (I hear its warm there this time of years... I'd kill for heated floors right about now!!) of even coming close enough to smell what kind of perfume I am wearing.
This thread is like asking a woman.. ice cream or chocolate?? Or asking a man ice cream or chocolate??? I betcha nine times out of ten, you will get the answer, "BOTH!!!!!!"
Living life and enjoying life are two different things... just need to figure out how to do both at the same time to live it right!
Woman... GO FLY A KITE!!!!! Take a slideshow walk with me on a walk through the parks of Inner Mongolia, China. Then enjoy the tale of a very traditional day in the life of a white Woman in China. Holy ravioli!!! I just read some guys profile (I love reading profiles by the way!!!!!) and his first sentence said it best.... "
I'm a gentleman on the streets and a freak between the sheets. ;)" I couldn't say it better myself!!!
Living life and enjoying life are two different things... just need to figure out how to do both at the same time to live it right!
Woman... GO FLY A KITE!!!!! Take a slideshow walk with me on a walk through the parks of Inner Mongolia, China. Then enjoy the tale of a very traditional day in the life of a white Woman in China. sweet and confident ,wins hands down.......although slutty in private can be very nice
Sweet around our friends, slutty at home alone and in the bedroom.
Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.
BigDaddyRich
Some famous woman said to keep your man you should be an angel in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom. Or was it the other way around? A whore in the kitchen?
The mind boggles at what a whore in the kitchen might be like!
Sweet. I've met too many girls who would fall under slutty and they all piss me off.
"So how does it feel to know that someones kid in the heart of America
Has blood on their hands, fighting to defend your rights
So you can maintain the lifestyle that insults this family's existence"
Security is mere illusion; yet in that illusion lies security.
I would have to say that I like both, and for different reasons. Slutty woman turn me on faster, and keep me there, but sweet women would be more likely to remain in a relationship. However, when I come to site like this, I'm looking for something to turn me on, so over all, I would have to say taht the slutty woman would probably win. Horny beats happy every time.
I'd rather have a princess than a whore.
For me she has to be at least a little slutty or other wise she'll be just plan boreing.
i want to be with someone who will be her self all the time show what she feel i don't want a girl who always on denial and hide for what she truly is
I've tried and tried to latch onto this kind of sweet v slut dichotomy and given up.
For me it's like, some women ooze sexuality/sensuality ... they could be rattling a collection tin for The Blessed Order of the Eternally Cellibate and if that factor is there I'd be captivated. Then again, if she breathed in my ear as she walked past, "I reckon there's about a grand in here. Fancy a nice hotel suite for the night and a seriously good fucking?" I'm not sure I'd rush into pointing out the error of her ways either.
What am I trying to say, ummm, we tend to sense a connection or not. More likely, for me, by way of eye contact than an up-the-skirt flash as it happens. Hmmm, does she look sweet, or does she look slutty? And does sweet mean less fun in bed than slutty? Or is a transformation into slutty later in the evening required? I dunno, kind of abstract concepts I think. Though I don't mean that disrespectfully, just not convinced there are such clear definitions.
I think the whole poll is kind of dumb given the choices of being Sweet or being Slutty. There should have been more options. Im in tuned to my husbands wants and needs so im going to say im both.
Personally, I'd want a sweet girl. Yeah its great to have amazing sex, and you're more likely to find that with a slutty girl. I'm not interested in sex more than a real relationship. I want a girl who ill work to keep the relationship before the sex is even considered. If she's bad at it, then that means that there is room for improvement, and that means lots of practice. ^_^
Ain't I a Stinka? Heheheheh
In many ways you all are right, how about that.
I know how to act one way and be polite in a certain SETTING, is what it boils
down to. I can be coy and playful doing what my partner wants of me in the bedroom,but when you walk out the door, at least the bedroom door, leave the sex toys and foreplay there- there is a time and a place for EVERYTHING. If someone was to actually meet me in person, they would think twice and ask if i was that writer on Lush. We all have two sides that we convey differently to two different groups of people- our family, our co-workers and then to our friends.
Can't you have it both ways? From personal experience I want a princess in the palor and a slut in the sack!