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Sharing your wife/girlfriend - turn on/off?

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Active Ink Slinger
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It's a huge turn on for me. I wouldn't date a woman who didn't enjoy being an exhibitionist or being in the lifestyle.
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Complete turn on!
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Turn on!

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Rookie Scribe
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I've done this with several ex partners and it really turns me on. I have a couple of rules though that help me avoid feelings of jealousy or insecurity in the relationship.

1) The other male must be a complete stranger to both of us.

2) We can only meet each guy once and never meet again.

3) I don't mind what my lady and a stranger do together while I watch, but don't want to see them kiss each other passionately on the mouth. That's something I actually find more personal and intimate than just sucking and fucking together.

This may seem weird to others but it works for me and has led to a lot of fun encounters.
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Yes I have had a gf who loved to explore. Shared her with a guy and a gal, which she loved the lady. Ended up going to a party, she had little to drink and ended up, on the floor, with me and four other guys taking turns, she came like 12 times or so, begging for us to cum on her, which 4 of us did almost at same time.
Advanced Wordsmith
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Great fantasy and we have played with it in bed, but not so sure about for real
Rookie Scribe
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We have done it for years. I have never been jealous seeing her with others, its sex and thats all. The fact that she likes to perform is even hotter.
Troublemaker
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I do like to share Bunny on occasion. I find it intensely arousing to watch her take another cock in her mouth. If you're lucky she'll share with you in one of her stories.
Advanced Wordsmith
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Yes, a thousand times yes. My first wife (RIP) and I used it as pillow talk since she was a virgin when we married 100%, (no handjobs etc). We had a party one night at our house where everyone pretty much passed out. I was laying on the floor of the living room watching her large breasts get fondled by a friend while she stroked him over his pants. Almost peed myself not wanting to move so they would go further but notta. sad.. A few years later my job required I go to a college a hundred miles away for courses and I would be staying in the dorm. A good friend lent me his car and while I was there he would come to the house, she admitted that one time they were watching a movie, she stretched out on the couch with her head in his lap, shortly she pulled his dick out and blew him to completion, and swallowed (only way she knew, I trained her well) , That was in 1981 and is still in my spank bank.
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A big turn on for me , we are both 48 and she likes young guys usually 20s and it great watching her being fucked by them
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very much so. turn on. it takes a very special relationship to do that though
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My girlfriend knows of my fantasy to see her with another man, just last week she teased me with the idea of getting her nipples and clit pierced again. I asked if I'd be able to sit in and she teased me with "no" cos she knows if I don't, I'll just create a scenario in my head where she lets him do anything and if I do, all I'll do is go fucking insane with envy, lust and the desire to see a simple piercing go further cos a stranger would be groping my gf's big tits. Does that make me a bad person?
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Its a big turn on.
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This one is tough, as a natural conversation in any long term relationship you should talk about past lovers (This is only fair, safe, and thoughtful) and for me personally i found her discussing past lovers incredibly hot! Almost to the point of sharing her early in our relationship. But now, as we are set to get married i find myself becoming incredibly...i dont want to say possessive, but i mean come on, i am marrying her for her brains, but her body is something to marvel at, is it so bad to want sole access to this myself....
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YES!!turn on, !!!!
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Yes, but only for alpha males. I'm not about to let some weak man have her. Last time I shared her, he was an electrical lineman with muscles and a well-worn Stetson hat. I learned a lot about my wife that night. He was fucking her doggy style like he was the human jackhammer and she was getting so loud I got concerned and asked if she was ok. She gave me an enthusiastic "Yes". I learned that sometimes a girl likes that slow sensual pleasure and other times she wants to be used like a rag doll by a guy who's only seeking to get his fill.
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major turn on.
Gentleman Stranger
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I enjoy it as a fantasy - in fact, a number of my stories contain that theme - but I doubt I'd enjoy it as much in RL. Too much angst, too much jealousy, and, last but not least, too many diseases and potentially bad people. Those never happen in fantasies.
Active Ink Slinger
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For sure a turn on
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Definite turn on. She had sex with a few other men in her 30's, with my permission and encouragement. The condition was that she had to tell me all about it. It was fun, but she only did it a few times. she had sex with several more guys in college when we were dating, and I enjoy those stories, too.
Advanced Wordsmith
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Huge turn on, so far just a fantazy
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Turn on
I would just love it if I could ever get the wife would do it.
Her Royal Spriteness
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Quote by Stormdog
I enjoy it as a fantasy - in fact, a number of my stories contain that theme - but I doubt I'd enjoy it as much in RL. Too much angst, too much jealousy, and, last but not least, too many diseases and potentially bad people. Those never happen in fantasies.


at one time i was thinking of starting to write realistic erotica, where stuff like that happened, but i'm pretty sure it wouldn't make me a lot of fans. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Gentleman Stranger
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at one time i was thinking of starting to write realistic erotica, where stuff like that happened, but i'm pretty sure it wouldn't make me a lot of fans. smile


Probably right, but you'll never know till you try. Just remember that the site frowns on too much blood and violence like those love triangles are famous for! (This despite all of our violent emojis...)
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at one time i was thinking of starting to write realistic erotica, where stuff like that happened, but i'm pretty sure it wouldn't make me a lot of fans. smile



Sprite, you should have a stab at it at least once. You'd garner at least one new reader.


I think it was you who was telling someone on these boards that they should always try and write something outside their comfort zone. I know you've done it in other categories so why not give this one a bash. Us guys are always having a stab at lesbian erotica, let's see how a lesbian tackles cuckold erotic. (pretty please).
Her Royal Spriteness
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Sprite, you should have a stab at it at least once. You'd garner at least one new reader.


I think it was you who was telling someone on these boards that they should always try and write something outside their comfort zone. I know you've done it in other categories so why not give this one a bash. Us guys are always having a stab at lesbian erotica, let's see how a lesbian tackles cuckold erotic. (pretty please).



oh, fine, but only because you asked me. anyone else and i'd just give 'em the finger. smile fyi? there are guys who write pretty decent lesbian erotica. and then, there are some that are kinda... interesting. that said, mine is prettied up a bit too. like i leave out the farts and giggling most of the time.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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I enjoy it as a fantasy - in fact, a number of my stories contain that theme - but I doubt I'd enjoy it as much in RL. Too much angst, too much jealousy, and, last but not least, too many diseases and potentially bad people. Those never happen in fantasies.


I agree with Mr. Dog. Enjoy the fantasy greatly, but I am WAY too neurotic and jealous for it to happen in real life. In the one story I wrote about it, the FICTIONAL guy got neurotic and jealous!

I think sprite writing about realistic sex sounds awesome!
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oh, fine, but only because you asked me. anyone else and i'd just give 'em the finger. smile fyi? there are guys who write pretty decent lesbian erotica. and then, there are some that are kinda... interesting. that said, mine is prettied up a bit too. like i leave out the farts and giggling most of the time.


HeHe. Married forty-seven years, so long gone are the illusion women fart Channel Coco.

I look forward to the improbable. But really: I'd love it if you took time out.
Her Royal Spriteness
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HeHe. Married forty-seven years, so long gone are the illusion women fart Channel Coco.

I look forward to the improbable. But really: I'd love it if you took time out.


that said, i do pee champagne. biggrin

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.