Hey guys, how do you define 'pussy whipped'? Does it scare the hell out of you and make you want to run for the hills, or at least to the nearest sports bar?
A guy that is afraid of his woman and dose every thing that she tells him to Not out of respect but out of fear. It is scary that people let others have that much control of there lives. Where is the bar?
Pussy whipped...mmmm let me do the whipping!
Some people can only wish to be looked after and told what to do on a regular basis, but we are all so different, it all comes back to mutual respect!
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Ok, I don't want to get all preachy. I know this isn't the place for that. But anyone who reads the Bible and understands God's deffinition of love knows that it's primary characteristic is giving. A man should not have to wait to be asked to massage his woman's feet when she sits on the sofa, takes her shoes off, and rubs them. You know they're sore from being on them all day, make her feel better. And the same thing goes for women. I think a person's perspective may skew their opinion of whether a person is "whipped" or not. But the kinds of things that will generally provoke another into using that term are really the kinds of things that people should do if they love one another. Women, offer him a blow job (or whatever he likes) just because, not expecting something in return. And men, bring her flowers (or whatever she likes) on a regular day, for no reason other than you care. You might be called "pussy whipped" but only by the losers who spend their time complaining about their partners, while they have them, and not loving them. Love gives.
It all just boils down to control.
pussy whipped is a deep subject. ,,I know a couple in this situation, and there is a good reason for this, the man is dumber than a bag of hammers.,,but people view him as being P.W. ,the only time I 've seen him speak up is when he thought her spending was only to serve her wants, and not the familys needs.
then you have men , that cant focus on the best decision to make (for us).,,and if their partner is better at this kind of decision making, then let them do it,, just dont let other people know that you and your partner sit down and make decisions together ,,usually the lady will let you take the credit for being the smart one,,the man looks good before his guy friends ,and the lady is smiling inside,because she know's she is the woman behind the man behind the wheel!
Heh, where's the line form up at. Sign me up for some of that action.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
WellMade Male ,,, believe it or not ,,that line is from an old Truck driving song ,,, That I remembered.
For some people having their partner take complete control is a much needed release for them. For their partner taking control is caring for them. May look like they are whipped but actually they are loved in the way they need it. I think the difference is respect and caring rather than just being a mean old bitch.
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Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! I think pussy whipped is a guy who does everything his partner tells him to, all the time. It's also a guy who ditches his guy friends 100% of the time, at the whim of his partner. He doesn't have any time that is his, his partner occupies all of his time and doesn't allow him to have his own activities because she makes him follow her around for all her activities.
Basically a guy who gets led around by the choke collar she placed around his dick.
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av. I think pussy whipped has multiple definitions, the dom/sub that most have mentioned where the woman is in control of her man due to a weakness in him. But an alternative definition is the man who willingly submits to the woman because the sex is so good he is willing to do as he is told as a means to keep getting the great sex.
Just my .02
its not necessarily the womens fault when a guy is pussy whipped, ive known some girls to actually define the guy as "too nice" but when we say a friend is "whipped" it means this girl is his top priority, he is willing to abandon time spent with even his family just to please his women. Some girls are bitchy and demand attention and the guy is obedient to it and other times a girl just wants to be apart of his life and he moves too fast or is too clingy, bottom line is a guy who is whipped is usually just starving for that emotional feeling of being needed by someone which is why they put themselves to their womens disposal.
Pussy whipped is an acusation made by someone who doesn't understand someone else relationship. I won't fight with my lady unless it is over somthing that I know I won't back down from. Once she understood that, she and I don't fight. She still gets her way the vast majority of the time And that's fine. But if I give her that look and say no, she has found that I mean no and yelling or mental pressure will only mean that she is alone that night.
"Pussy whipped" is a concept that means different things to different people. There is no definitive single definition. "Pussy whipped" to me describes a dysfunctional relationship with neurotic co-dependency issues.
Any person that stops doing things he REALLY enjoys because his girlfriend says no (and I do not mean just one or two things, I mean, MANY things). As well, as makes many other drastic changes to his life.
For example, my friend Dan used to party a lot, play lots of sports and Xbox, and hung out of his friends virtually all day. Then Dan meet Anne, first thing to change was he completely stopped partying, for a while he used to ask her she'd say no, eventually she'd just look at him and that'd be his no, in the end he quit asking all together. After that, he quit hanging out with his friends, started spending all day with her, and doing the things that she enjoyed (IE: Going shoe shopping with her and her friends etc.). Now he lives with her and I do not think anyone has really talked to him in quite a while (well unless Anne is with him).
Now I am not saying it is bad to spend time with your girlfriend, but when you quit all your hobbies and quit hanging out with your friends, you are probably whipped.
I have often thought about "Am I Pussy Whippped". I have done many things over and beyond what other men, I think have or are doing, to keep their women. It is a very complex issue for me. Their are some very deep issues underlining each case. My women has mental illness (severe depression and recently re-evaluted to bi-polar type 2). At times I have to say a do things as if she were an egg in my hand. I do this out of love. There are those times when I think PW! I guess it really depends on the whole picture of the relationship. For me, i do things that others may think PW but are actually just trying to keep my egg from cracking. My egg has cracked before and just recently almost cracked again. Life is tough at times. PW syndrome is complex!
About all I can say is that when I was married to my 1st wife I might have been "hen pecked" but I didn't get enough pussy to be pussy whipped. The lady I am married to now (she is 17 yrs. younger than me) does not try to control me and still gives me all the pussy, ass, and head (not necessarily in that order) that I can handle.oSBX8N18gLokaGUj