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Mysteria27
Prolific Writer
Guys -

Have you ever hired a prostitute/escort?

If so, was it the best sex you ever had?

Would you do again?

How much did you pay?

Hugs,
Mysteria
Xo
Buz
The Linebacker
I haven't.
Robert0909
Active Ink Slinger
I haven't, but never say never.
Unknown User
Quote by Mysteria27
Guys -

Have you ever hired a prostitute/escort?

If so, was it the best sex you ever had?

Would you do again?

How much did you pay?

Hugs,
Mysteria
Xo


Yes, I have patronized local escorts and still do on occasion. It's easier and more discreet than a conventional affair in my experience. The sex has been good to great (last one was fantastic) but I am fairly careful to choose ladies from a reputable agency in my area or ones who are well reviewed on a website I frequent. Rates around here run the gamut from $150-$300 per hour for a one hour visit, depending on the lady and the services sought.
leonardo001
Active Ink Slinger
Buying dinner and drinks or paying the cash straight up. I don't see a difference. Personally I don't like the labels prostitute/escort. They are women who enjoy sex just as I do. With that being said the answer to the first part of the question is a resounding yes. The second question is difficult to answer. All women are great to be with and each is different in a very special way
Unknown User
Quote by leonardo001
Personally I don't like the labels prostitute/escort.


"Service provider" seems to be the preferred euphemism in my parts for women who provide "full service" (i.e. sex). Those who do just massages with a "happy ending" are "massage providers". I almost prefer "escort" (and some of the ladies do ,too). "Provider" feels too cold and generic for what they are offering.
Guest
Lurker
use them often
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
Nope, never tried. We have open marriage but I guess I'm too damn cheap. Can't see paying for something so many are giving away free.
Mysteria27
Prolific Writer
Quote by leonardo001
Buying dinner and drinks or paying the cash straight up. I don't see a difference. Personally I don't like the labels prostitute/escort. They are women who enjoy sex just as I do. With that being said the answer to the first part of the question is a resounding yes. The second question is difficult to answer. All women are great to be with and each is different in a very special way




I am not talking about a date with a regular girl.

I'm talking about hiring a prostitute or an escort. Ladies that are selling their bodies.

xo
Mustang531
Active Ink Slinger
When I was younger, I did hire some. Without question, it was the worst sex I ever had. A man is better to just stay home and masturbate.
The romantic bi guy.

Stay horny my friend.
Guest
Lurker
Absolutely. A lot of women and some men will criticize for doing so, but so what and who cares? Sometimes the hunger/need just doesn't allow for the usual rituals and the destination becomes more important than the journey.
realz
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, and enjoyed it immensely.

Simple, no strings. No games. It's understood I'm there for sex, there's no reason to dance around it or pretend otherwise. Much better than a drunken pick up in a bar. And it keeps my personal life separate, she doesn't expect me to call her in the morning.
Regnadkcin
Active Ink Slinger
No, never. I'd prefer if fair maiden wanted me for something other than money
Guest
Lurker
A few women have tried to hire me, but I declined. It wasn't quite enough money
Porgy87
Senior Analyst
I lost my virginity with a pro.

It was a training exercise, really, not good sex by a long shot, looking back on it.

I've never done it again, but I did pay for phone sex way back when it was new, just to see what that was like. I haven't repeated that again either, at least for cash.

Finally, it was in '65 (that's 1865, naturally) so it was only $10, including the room and the condom.
MichaelMax
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by Mysteria27
Guys -

Have you ever hired a prostitute/escort?

If so, was it the best sex you ever had?

Would you do again?

How much did you pay?

Hugs,
Mysteria
Xo



Yes , and it was not the best sex I have had since but one of the girls left an indelible mark in my memory bank. I was 17 and in AIT training at Ft Polk La, It cost me $5 and $2 for the room and then she said I was taking too long and insisted on $5 more. It was fun and well worth it though even though I think I was making only $100 a month as a Private E1 in the army. Many more times in Vietnam for about $5 and the brothels in Saigon charged like $20 for all night. New girls would wake me up in the middle of the night to see if I wanted to come to their bed. Such fun but I'd get wore down to a nub and couldnt get it up eventually. It was a tough job fighting for our country over there, but somebody had to do it.
Now I've been married for more than 30 years to the same woman, who I love more anything. However, the sex is not nearly as exciting as it was. I can not even imagine being able to have an affair without getting caught and wrecking my marriage. I think a much simpler way would be to hire an escort who definitly is going to be discreet and not get possesive or start calling me.
It'd be much simpler to skip the games and the wining and dining if all you want is a strange POA
GoNE68
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Nope. Was tempted once when I was younger, but could tell by the quality that I wouldn't have been able to afford her.
69Kisses96
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I was in the Army, so it was a long time ago. However, if you think about it, we are all prostitutes in one way or another. We have skills that other people pay for. I've had bade sex with hookers and I've had really good sex with hookers. It should be legal, safe and honorable IMO.
1nympholes
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use them often


Someone is telling the truth.
Guest
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Never have and really not my thing. If both parties are willing then who am I to judge but just not something I could do myself.
loanabone
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was the only way I was to screw an asian chick and she was great
Sholbin83
English Gentleman
nope, i cant say i have. not that i wont, just havnt.
MichaelMax
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by 1nympholes


Someone is telling the truth.


I get the impression many feel they are a holier than some others and they can get as many women as they want for free. However if having sex with them is all the time you want with them, or that's all the time you are able to give them, I wish I knew where to find these women that are available when ever you want just for sex.
I think it's kinda discriminate or hypocritical to make it illegal but they still advertise all over the world.
noll
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
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a drunken pick up in a bar


... sounds a bit creepy.


===  Not ALL LIVES MATTER until BLACK LIVES MATTER  ===
1nympholes
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Quote by MichaelMax


I get the impression many feel they are a holier than some others and they can get as many women as they want for free. However if having sex with them is all the time you want with them, or that's all the time you are able to give them, I wish I knew where to find these women that are available when ever you want just for sex.
I think it's kinda discriminate or hypocritical to make it illegal but they still advertise all over the world.


MichaelMax

Men always pay for sex. It just is counted in different ways. Some are direct and upfront as in a Prostitute or Escort. So many Dollars for so long a time some times the amount of time is a week or more.

Dinner, Dancing, Flowers and Gifts you not consider that paying for sex. Every time you spend a few hundred dollars for such an evening does not guaranty the end result.

Then there is wife she on get half of everything you have and in some states will every have.

Now who is paying and who is providing a good value for cost of services rendered.

But you already know that don't you MM
HotWife4U
Madam Carol
I'm curious why any guy would pay for something that is given away free.
HotWife4U
Madam Carol
Quote by VirgoGo


I'm not a guy, but I have some insight in this area.

1) Perhaps sex is not freely available to him. Perhaps he's shy...Feels unattractive....Is disabled.
2) Perhaps the transactional nature of pay to play has an appeal. Exchanging money offers a thrill.
3) Perhaps he likes knowing that it's a sure thing, rather than an open question involving dinner and a movie first.
3) Perhaps there are time constraints - he's visiting town on business, and he wants a very specific kind of experience in a very specific window of opportunity.
4) Perhaps his tastes veer towards things that most women wouldn't do for free - i.e., anal, BDSM.
5) Perhaps he likes being with strangers, and the odd pro can satisfy that hunger for strange.
6) Perhaps he thinks of being with a prostitute as being something purely "physical" That the money enacts an emotional and symbolic barrier, and thus the exchange of funds protects his primary relationship. i.e., being with a sex worker isn't the same as "cheating"
7) Perhaps he has a taste for a very specific kind of woman - porn stars, models - who are otherwise out of his league. He can rent one for an hour, where he could never afford one otherwise.
8) Perhaps he has a very specific fetish - for Asian women, for latex bondage gear, for spanking, whatever. The odds of that fetish being satisfied under normal circumstances might be very low - especially since few women care to be objectified so narrowly in their routine relationships.

There are scores of reasons why sex workers exist and why men (and it's mostly men) continue to patronize them -- even as sexual mores have changed. At heart, there's an inequality of supply and demand.

V


Wow! Thanks. That answered every question and a lot more. Better than chance a blind date with chatty Cathy, where the guy wants to stick a dick in her mouth to just shut her up.
69Kisses96
Active Ink Slinger
1nympholes and VirgoGo knocked it out of the park.