As a chick, I'm asking the guys this.
As guys with varying levels of experience with women, no matter on their levels of experience.
But what is better for you, as a man.
An inexperienced woman who just loves to give blow jobs and suck on a guys' ball sac and do much of anything else OR
a seasoned woman who can do everything under the sun and them some.
I'm only asking this because my bf loves it when i suck on his cock, but he wants us to try other things in the bedroom. I'm not too sure on that because i'm a virgin. He knows this and doesn't care, but he's already said that he wants to 'deflower me with gentleness and loving care'.
any thoughts from the male side....
I agree with Dudealicious on this one. Don't do something you're not comfortable doing with anyone, especially guys who really don't care. I prefer experienced women myself. I wouldn't knowingly have sex with a virgin at this point in my life. I couldn't handle the karma.
"Happiness is doing it rotten your own way."Isaac Asimov (1994)
Inexperienced Woman.
I would teach her so much lol.
thats a tricky one experience is good but can be fun if u start with a blank canvas, but never get someone to do something they don't want to
Nothing wrong with experience (many a young guy's fantasy is with an older woman.....!) but it's the enthusiasm & willingness to explore, *when you are ready*, that is the key.
Rome wasn't built in a day and no one knows all about a fulfilling sexual relationship with their partner from the 'off' - it's the desire to explore & push boundaries that brings that. Just do it in your own time.
As for your guy, he sounds as though you will be but a notch on the post.
Don't let him pressure you,sweetie.
It's your body,don't let him use you to get what he wants.
You need to be ready and willing. There are so many other things you can do with each other. Myself, I love intercoarse, but love oral even more sometimes. You MUST do what you are comfortable with only. Exploring may be an option but do not be coerced into anything you are not ready for. For the most part I have been with experienced partners, However, One fantasy of mine would be spending the night with somone who wants to either learn or try different things that they may never have done before and the same goes if I were in the mirror.
Experience is exactly that...time! Don't force it...no pun intended...just enjoy all the little steps you get to comfortably enjoy along the way.
I think you should take your time, enjoy experiementing, but don't be forced into anything you don't want to do. If your 'experiences' are not pleasurable then you will won't want to try them again.
everything that Dudealicious said above is so absolutely spot on... i wish i'd said it myself!
Experience is a must! Blow jobs are great of course, but a woman who knows how to please her man is invaluable!!
Maturity, sophistication, experience. I'd rather play with a girl who knows what she's doing.
I don't long for the old days; 8 hours of petting and 3 minutes of sex ;)
Dudealicious is absolutely correct.
Only Assholes don't care.
good luck!
so if given a choice I would opt for the experienced woman.
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