The mind of the woman is the part you want to tease after all you have to make her feel the emotion, the heat, and the excitement. I can make my woman wet and excited without even touching her privates talking is the key. I say naughty things to her and I tell her what I am going to her and she can picture the thoughts in her head and makes her excited just by thinking about it. When you talk to a woman and telling her things you like to do might get her excited, but you have to look on what she is into and if you know then that's good plus it takes skills to make a woman feel turn on after all teasing the mind of the woman can make her excited.
I got lots of ways on turning on my baby and the one part I know is her neck area, lips, feet, stomach, legs, back, and all the other parts besides her breast, ass, and kitty area. Some woman can get excited by rubbing or kissing on parts of her body and some might have a special spot to turn them on. For example if I kiss her on some areas she likes she will be under my spell lol.
There are so many ways to turn on a lady without heading straight for the common spots. So many here have stated that the mind is the biggest sex organ. Sexy texts and emails throughout the day, a special phone call when she least expects it, a poem or note, photos.
Get her mind engaged first then just the right passionate kiss on her lips or neck, the small of her back, her legs or abdomen... a single finger meandering on her face, neck, back, legs... she will be receptive to almost anything provided she feels loved and craved, especially if she knows your only there to please her.
Whisper in her ears and give her playful nibbles... my god the list is vast. Experiment and have fun, she will appreciate it guaranteed.
If the woman enjoys then the feet are a good place to get a woman going when you know what your doing
Show her my european stamp collection may be or my badges that I got when I was in the boy scouts .. failing that drop my panties.
I would talk nicely to her and gain her confidence... Whisper in her ears and try to understand her mind... Talk naughty with her to arouse her ... Finally would come very very close to her and start stripping slowly slowly
I know how to do that! Whispering certain words in your ear! ;)
Touch her heart and mind
Treat her like a princess when she is good and a schoolgirl when she is naughty ;)
I'd take out the garbage and mow the lawn.
Looking in her eyes, Talking to her, kissing her deeply catching her breath, slowly licking her legs, ankles, feet, moving Then to' her bellly...
Do i have to' go on?
Pick her up and put her against the back of my Jeep. Her legs wrapped around me for our first kiss... Would that work? Lol
I can buckle your knees with kiss.
I think a key to turning on a women would be making her feel at ease, making her laugh out load, doing the dishes and cleaning the house, so when she comes home she can relax with a glass of wine, put up her feet and read her favorite book
I would look into her eyes and say," You are the most gorgeous girl this eyes ever seen, you are amazing person someone who captivated me from day one and still keeps my attention." Then give here a long kiss holding her tight.
show her my investment portfolio
Depends on the woman. A good sensual firm foot massage can do it. A shoulder and back massage. A massage beginning at her feet and moving up but avoiding all those areas. Kissing and licking and nibbling her thighs. Her neck and behind the ears. And those are just the areas for physical contact. Never forget the mind. Whispering your intentions, and describing in detail in a sensual whisper can do it as well.
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I know I'm not supposed to post in here, but that topic really caught my interest and even though you have brought up some very good points I think there are some more. First of all I'm wondering what kind of relationship do you have with that woman. Do you know her well, are you together or is she a random pick up?
Anyways one thing that seems to be undervalued is the fact that a well groomed man in fitting clothes, who is freshly showered has it a lot easier. I don't say you need to look like James Bond, but making an effort is showing her she is worth and at least for me is a turn on.
The next thing that at least for me is very important are words. Especially if he has a deep voice, ha can melt me into a begging puddle on the floor by just making some suggestive comments, a few intelligent jokes and using the right words.
If he then just tells me what he is going to do to me, while sitting across from me not touching, just his eyes wandering the path his words describe. I will start fidgeting in my chair, barely able to keep myself from ripping his clothes off.
Sensuality in general is a huge turn on and can make a woman wanton and very aroused. Those little touches and kisses and smiles can drive someone crazy. Good food, music and wine can help too.
Moving on to touching, massages are always a great start to initiate contact. Even better are slow light caresses and kisses at all those hypersensitive places some man never discover. The base of her neck, the little valley over her collarbone. The inside of her underarm, the part of her back right over her bum and the back of her knee.
One of the biggest turn ons of all is anticipation. One time someone just trailed his fingers from my ankle over my calve, the back of knee, the inside of my thigh up to my core and back down again over and over slowly driving me crazy without ever touching me at the places I really wanted to be touched.
I quoted myself, no idea how that happened. Maybe I should stop drinking.
I agree with many responses here, but for me....appreciation goes a long way. For example...I spent 5+ hours roasting a perfectly crisp, succulent duck and making a lovely meal...just because. My soon to be ex and my child refused even a tiny bite. A woman spends that kind of time cooking for you...eat the damn duck. Just sayin'
one of my skills is actually listening to her and care about her
Smile, listen to her, and speak soft words.
Be attentive to her, gently touch her hand. Maybe then hold her hands and look at her eyes, smiling as you lean forward to brush her lips with yours. Watching for signs of her pleasure as you maybe let your lips slip to her neck as you very gently kiss her neck , while letting your hands run up her spine
That’s a matter of knowing your lady, first you must win her mind and that is the biggest key for any woman. If a man can win her mind her heart and lust shall come as well…
