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how true is this??
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Also is it true that ladies start to lose interest when they pass that age.
A 60 year old male doesn't worry about the age difference.
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A 60 year old male doesn't worry about the age difference.
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I don't think that's entirely true. In my experience women in their late 30's, their 40's, even well into their 50's are much more interesting than a 29 year old. Does that mean I don't ogle or desire women in their 20's? It does not. But, generally speaking,women with some real experience know themselves and know men a thousand times better than women in their twenties.
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It depends on the man and it depends on the girl. I think a big part of it has to do with the dating pool in that the number of single people decreases with age so a single guy would need to date relatively younger in order to not see his options continue to decline. Amazing and available women exists past 30, for sure, but I imagine that they are harder to find then one in her 20s as many of the great ones are already taken by that point.
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Not for me. I was fortunate to have a chance to play with a lass who was just turning 30 recently, but at my age most of the women I play with are older than that. My tastes are eclectic; not restricted by some arbitrary cutoff age (except at the lower end of the scale, of course).
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I know my wife lost interest in sex in her 40's after our last child was born. I still have urges but age-related ED has gotten me finding an alternative lifestyle at the local Adult glory-holes as a very happy cock-sucker. Maybe it was always in me but buried deep down, now it has given me a great time. Wife still happy just being a housewife with no sex, and doesn't know.
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You may be right, but it is not always the case. We have a family friend that asked this woman out when he was 25 and she was 38. She declined due to age, he asked again. But got the same result. The third time she agreed to have a drink with him. But it is to be understood just a drink and it would go no further.
They have been married for over 53 years and I have never seen a woman who is loved so much. We all want to be loved like that.
I know she was the exception, but you only need one good guy or gal.
My Dad remembers her when he was young and says she may have been the most beautiful woman he ever saw. He better not let Mom here that!
Beauty could not have been a factor or could it?
They have been married for over 53 years and I have never seen a woman who is loved so much. We all want to be loved like that.
I know she was the exception, but you only need one good guy or gal.
My Dad remembers her when he was young and says she may have been the most beautiful woman he ever saw. He better not let Mom here that!
Beauty could not have been a factor or could it?
I have never seen the appeal of younger in and of itself. Not saying I wouldn't date or sleep with a much younger woman if something clicked, but it's not necessarily what I'd be looking for. I'd rather have someone close to my age (51), maybe between 40 and 60, though I'd dip into the 30s for the right person. Even when I've been playing with escorts, I've tended to ones in their thirties or even forties rather than the hot young ladies (though age is hard to gauge, since most understate their age in their ads).
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Dismissing "older" women out of hand because "ladies start to lose [their] interest when they pass that age" is, IMHO, a rather silly thing to do.
My own drive has never been higher--certainly wayyyy higher than when I was 25 or 28 or 30 and breastfeeding, constantly stressed and exhausted. I'm far more confident in my body and general sexual appeal than I was at 25, and it's likely that this confidence is what makes me far more sexually adventurous now than when I was younger.
Pretty sure that my partner would agree with the above.
My own drive has never been higher--certainly wayyyy higher than when I was 25 or 28 or 30 and breastfeeding, constantly stressed and exhausted. I'm far more confident in my body and general sexual appeal than I was at 25, and it's likely that this confidence is what makes me far more sexually adventurous now than when I was younger.
Pretty sure that my partner would agree with the above.
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I don't think that's entirely true. In my experience women in their late 30's, their 40's, even well into their 50's are much more interesting than a 29 year old. Does that mean I don't ogle or desire women in their 20's? It does not. But, generally speaking,women with some real experience know themselves and know men a thousand times better than women in their twenties.
Well i'll be damned LOL!! I just turned 29 on saturday, I guess i'm fucked!
The last man I dated was 43 and I was 28, he was "stretching it" by dating me. He prefers women older than himself, so I guess he's out of this stereotype. I really think it depends on the man, and how the woman carries herself, physically, and emotionally. It's totally possible that men try to hold onto their youth by dating younger women as well; but they also mature a lot slower than women. A man that is physically 30, is only mentally the age of a 25 year old women 
.... I just go with everyone is an individual, and there are people out there for everyone ;)
.... I just go with everyone is an individual, and there are people out there for everyone ;) 
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I'm thirty five. Younger women (e.g. 21 year olds) are attractive to look at, but in terms of actually dating one, I think they'd annoy the hell out of me. It's just a matter of being at different places in life. I don't want to go to the club anymore (I had my fill in my 20s), and I doubt they'd be interested in staying home watching documentaries on Netflix. But it's more about maturity and personality than it is about age as a number. I've met some surprisingly mature 25 year olds, that I'd consider dating (if I weren't already married), and some women my own age or older who acted like stupid teenagers whom I have no patience for.
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I've met some surprisingly mature 25 year olds, that I'd consider dating (if I weren't already married), and some women my own age or older who acted like stupid teenagers whom I have no patience for.
I think that's kind of the key, really. It is maturity, rather than age, than really determines desirability. A mature twentysomething would be more desirable than an immature fiftysomething. While age and experience would tend to give the advantage in that department to older women, it's not a guarantee and I've met some very mature college girls.
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Oddly I have a 28 y/o friend & a 29 y/o woman I occasionally had sex with last year is still open to it. Conversely the 49 & 55 y/o who are much closer in age & interests have made themselves unavailable. Assorted reasons for that, but I'm unsure if I have figured out all the aspects & core thinking with each lady.
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True for Trump. Not so for me. For me, the individual woman is a more important factor than her age.
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For me I like women older than me. They know what it takes to make themselves happy and aren't afraid to communicate it.
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True for Trump. Not so for me. For me, the individual woman is a more important factor than her age.
She's mad, but she's magic. There's no lie in her fire. ~ Charles Bukowski
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Well I'm 49 now, I have tried the pinwheel of dating trust me! Been divorced for several years now. I started off dating in my age group in general at the time and found the women often boring honestly. Not to say all are just the ones I seemed to date at the time. You know they wanted to go shopping and dinner and sex once or twice a week was more than enough. Well that was just like being married lol, I was looking for a bit more adventure as that was my nature. So I looked in the 30s and found some very interesting dates at the time. Very active and out going I must say, then there seemed to be the issue of very young children which posed its own tribulations, so I slowly realized that's not where I wanted to be either! Then along came my next adventure, dating girls in there 20s with no kids and didn't want kids. While I must say it takes the heart of a lion and stamina of a stallion to keep up, I was up to that task! But truly no matter how you slice it, 20 plus years difference does catch up in the relationship, there are friends and family that struggle with the notions, there are the stares everywhere you go. Men smile and women give the death look, like you have eaten there baby. Honestly I found that somewhere around 5-8 years younger than I had the right things for me. Is that a gauge for all men?? That I cannot say and would doubt it to be true. But typically we are all looking for something, that click, that flow that we know it feels right to us, and if the other half has those toward you it can be magical and you look back and shake your head and wonder why didn't I find you sooner. So to answer your question in a nutshell you have to seek what makes you happiest deep down.
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I don't buy it....younger isn't all that it's cracked up to be...if I started over again I'd definitely would be chasing older ladies