Hi To Everyone,
Hi I would like to know why men likes to have more than one
women in their lives at the same time ?
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I suppose a guy would answer with "Enough is as good as a feast, but more is better". They're basically greedy.
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There is an evolution answer to the question, may I suggest that if this is happening to you, make sure not to tollerate and get rid of the wanderers! Self respect and basic rules in the relationship should be defined early in such!
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There appears to be an unspoken assumption here - that men are more likely than women be involved with more than one romantic partner at a time. Maybe so. Or maybe not. I've known plenty of women who enjoy attracting the attention of multiple suitors.
I do suspect that many women probably switch to the "desire for commitment" mode sooner than many men. Which is fair enough. As long as BOTH parties are completely honest with each other, there should be no cause for complaint. It's when honesty gets sacrificed (generally for short-term gratification) that people get hurt in the long run.
As far as ToniC's statement, I agree that it's most men's wet-dream (i.e. two women at once). However, there's a reason, I think, that most civilizations have gotten away from polygamy. Two wives (or more) is almost certainly a recipe for disaster, for any man.
I do suspect that many women probably switch to the "desire for commitment" mode sooner than many men. Which is fair enough. As long as BOTH parties are completely honest with each other, there should be no cause for complaint. It's when honesty gets sacrificed (generally for short-term gratification) that people get hurt in the long run.
As far as ToniC's statement, I agree that it's most men's wet-dream (i.e. two women at once). However, there's a reason, I think, that most civilizations have gotten away from polygamy. Two wives (or more) is almost certainly a recipe for disaster, for any man.
I don't know if this was in reference to having two women in the same session (threesome) or not, but if it was I only have one thing to say. It is something my father told me and I have always remembered it.
"Being with two women is like driving two cars; you have to get out of one to get into the other and try to maintain both at the same time."
Funny, yet true.
If that wasn't the point of the post, sorry I butted in...
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"Being with two women is like driving two cars; you have to get out of one to get into the other and try to maintain both at the same time."
Funny, yet true.
If that wasn't the point of the post, sorry I butted in...
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Just to clarify - I'm certain that BeachGirl's question (and ToniC's respopnse) was about romantic involvement with two or more women in parallel, not having sex with two women at once. I didn't mean to imply otherwise, thereby bringing down the intellectual level of the discussion.....(*smiling*)
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I haven't seen this in very many men.
In fact, I wish I had...
It would make my world a lot easier.
But, well, most seem to think that monogamy is the only way and if you think anything else you are a stupid slut.
Or you have the person who think it's ok for him, but not for you. ( only met one of thoose, liked that better )
The phrase "as long as you are happy, I'm happy" didn't really apply on a relationship I thought built upon it. He ended up with anciety attacs and me with marrige thoughts.
See, the world works in mysterious ways.
In fact, I wish I had...
It would make my world a lot easier.
But, well, most seem to think that monogamy is the only way and if you think anything else you are a stupid slut.
Or you have the person who think it's ok for him, but not for you. ( only met one of thoose, liked that better )
The phrase "as long as you are happy, I'm happy" didn't really apply on a relationship I thought built upon it. He ended up with anciety attacs and me with marrige thoughts.
See, the world works in mysterious ways.
Because when you are still being guided through life by all of the brain cells located in the tip of your dick...you realize that at any moment one of them may find out you have been Spelunking in someone else's cave and now he's down to one girl...but she's already broken in an there is no down time for "Willie".
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Spelunking
WTF? Is this a new word?
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Thanks for clearing that up for me Jason!
I have speluncked a time or two myself.....it's quite enjoyable!
I have speluncked a time or two myself.....it's quite enjoyable!
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I have a girlfriend that I am very much in love with and intend to marry. I have another girl that I have a "it's just sex" relationship with. It started out as just flirting and went from there. We had about 3 months of "mental foreplay". The tension that developed over that time was incredible. When we finally had sex it was unbelievable. We have done everything that you can imagine (sexually). Some things that my girlfriend refuse to do and others that, if I asked, she'd ask me to go to therapy.
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We have done everything that you can imagine (sexually). Some things that my girlfriend refuse to do and others that, if I asked, she'd ask me to go to therapy.
Well now you have to tell us what it is, I need to know..!
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To be fair to guys, I am a female who has two men in her life. I know there are many who would disapprove, but both men love me and want me and know about each other....and somehow it all works. NOT as a threesome btw. But it would never be something I would do unless both men were okay with it. I have a girlfriend as well, although we only see each other a few times a year. Both men know about her too. Anyway, the key to any relationship is communication. I am probably the luckiest woman alive, but it's because I am honest about who I am and what I do with the people involved. It would never work otherwise.
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I'd reverse it and say women actually 'need' (in a needy way) more than 1 man at a time, if she has more than 1 partner. a guy doesn't need it. He likes it. A guy can have multiple women that he wants to 'f', but a woman actually appreciates the love /attention. I could care less about the other one, if i was in a relationship, and getting some on the side. Then, I'm a dog, when it comes to sharing myself with more than 1 emotionally.
BTW, this is just my opinion. Feel free to disagree.
BTW, this is just my opinion. Feel free to disagree.
It is like Tech said. It is all about communication and understanding. There must be agreement up front about what the relationship is all about. Friends with benefits? Just dating to see where it goes? No sex until I get a commitment of some kind? (not likely but....) This is a "writers' site" so shouldn't there be an emphasis on communication?
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Hi To Everyone,
Hi I would like to know why men likes to have more than one
women in their lives at the same time ?
I would never cheat on a woman if we were committed to one another. But I would absolutely love to have multiple lovers if everyone was happy with it. I mentioned this in another thread as well. The idea of having say five wives, would greatly appeal to me. Who wouldn't want multiple people who love them? I would adore that.
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Hi To Everyone,
Hi I would like to know why men likes to have more than one
women in their lives at the same time ?
I would credit this behavior to Genetic heritage, BeachGirl. Our base instincts, for the growth of our species and the survival of our species. The base desire of a Woman being to have a protector, while a Man's base desire is to mate, with as many mates as possible. It's a method of keeping the Human race going. Just look at the way we seek out mates. A Woman will seek out the best candidate, while a man will simply catalogue the sexy ones.
Not to say we all follow this. Life is way to random to be categorized in specifics. Not to say we consciously think this way either. Probably just more of a feeling... an itch. Something telling you that maybe this isn't so bad, no matter what society tells us differently.
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In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av.