Difficult question to answer. The horn-dog in me wants to say "hey, I'd be up for that! Lemme join in!" but the emotional side of me wants to say "I'd be hurt. I'd question why. Am I not good enough for her, what;s missing from our relationship?" In the end, I'd talk it out. If it turned out to be just curiosity, I could live with it, we're all curious at some point and sometimes it just takes over, even if you try not to let it. Sex is a powerful thing, if you let it. If, on the other hand, it turned out that she was harbouring loving feelings toward the woman, I'd be hurt by her lack of honesty, even though I could see her reasons behind hiding it.
My opinion on lesbos? They're people, plain and simple.
If she knew she was being naughty having been caught in the act, then she would have to share! Stiffy would be out in a minute!
After Devi performed penance for a long time according to the instructions of Gautama, Mahadeva finally appeared before
Her and said that He would grant Her whatever boon she asked for. With great respect Devi prayed that She should
become half of Siva Himself saying, “I cannot live any longer with a separate body, for if separate, I may make another
mistake like this and then shall have to undergo all the hardships of penance and suffer the pangs of separation”.
Parameswara therefore acceded to Her request and so united with Her as ARDHANAREESWARA (the Lord with a halffemale
form). This is how Amba, the Mother of the universe, became one half of Siva.
...that's a complex one.
My girlfriend is pretty damn straight, and we're pretty much monogamous. There's just enough wiggle room on both of those things though that this post got me thinking a little more than I thought it was going to. I would probably be okay with it, as long as we talked it out later. I would have a harder time if she was with a guy, only because we aren't technically open at all, but if she were exploring something I would take it a little better. Since my pansexuality is well established though, I'm not sure I would get the same leeway if she found me making out with a guy. I doubt any of it would be relationship ending, but that's why communication is good. We're supposed to discuss it before we play with others and only do it together, but does a drunk kiss count? Yeah, but it's the difference between slapping somebody in the face because your pissed, and breaking their kneecaps with a sledgehammer. It's bad, but not by comparison.
Regardless, I think that people should adhere to the agreements and arrangements they have with their partners, and probably assume that they're monogamous until there's a good reason not to anymore. As for what I think of "lesbos", my response is "Why was that part of the question?" This has little if anything to do with sexual orientation, and much more to to with the nature of monogamy and trust and double standards in relationships. To answer though, many of my friends are lesbians and I have no problem whatsoever with them, but I'm quite certain my girlfriend is not one.
If I caught her I would only be mad because she never told me! Then I would join in lol
It's happened to me. My ex-wife and her best girlfriend had a lot in common, including a strong desire for each other. Did it bother me? Hell no! Was it the reason for our divorce? Hell no! end of story.
Wouldn't the answer depend on entirely on whether your sex with her was currently off the scale unbelievable or diminishing in both frequency and satisfaction levels??!!
she wouldn't do it because of the nature of our relationship. However, I would prefer all aspects of each other's sexuality be up front so surprises like this wouldn't be surprises.
if my wife is gonna cheat , then I'd much rather it be with a woman than a man . not saying I'd have to join in or even watch because if you ask , I'd say hell yeah but for her to be alone with another woman . . . I'd be ok with it . and yes I've watched my wife make out with another married woman while her husband was sitting there also and it was in a bar .
its happened and its the best feeling in the world
99% of women are total airhead hypocrites. They would sooner get eaten by their BFF. Then fuck you. It would be totally ok for your wife to lay the first bozo who comes along on a motorcycle,but when you mentor a bright ambious female subordinate at work,well band pow zoom off she goes.
My wife would never do that... so..... not really an issue. But if she wanted to, and I was also involved... oh yeah! I did see her tongue kiss one of her sisters when drunk one time. They were just playing around and NOT serious, and it was not a lips on lips tongue kiss... you know just that playful tongue crap they do sometimes.... but it was HOT! lol
I have been lucky enough to enjoy this and still love it everytime.
i have nothing against lesbians or gays in general.. it's just their sexual preference... shrug...
my only concern i guess would be the reason behind her wanting to be with another woman... if it was a casual relationship i wouldn't even think about it tho lol
yeah all kinds of problems here the main one being trust in each other
well, I actually caught my wife at the time doing more than making out with another girl, which is what led to the divorce, so if it's not something ever discussed between the couple, there could be problems.
I'd watch..............for a while, then I'd jump straight in ;-)
It would never happen but if it did I'd love it and encourage it. At least, that's what I think. In reality - I'd find out at the time!
Not if my wife ended up losing interest in me though. That wouldn't be ideal.
For me, I've always thought such pictures were sexy but it's not going to get me off.
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i would watch then ask if i can join threesome baby
Hey, I have no problem with lesbians. (I'm not being cliché with this next statement) Hell, one my best friends is a lesbian. Though if I caught my wifey cheating on me (although I know she never would as she's too morally and spiritually sound) with a female or otherwise; it's over. Cheating is the worse thing you could do to someone you love.
I think I would like to see that.
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Not a guy so my opinion may not mean a thing. Some of seem to not be threaten and some do.
In my case, my husband and I had participated in group sex any number of times and always I found a woman for at least part of the evening. So no surprises.
But he found with young girls on two ocassions and left me. He is a good guy and a valued friend, but he still left
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I would simply stand and watch to see where it was going. If she was having a good time I'm sure in time she would see me watching and hope she invites me to join.
i'd be crushed.
cheating is cheating is cheating. i'm not an advocate of the double standard.
also, not sure if the guys saying they'd ask to join in are being serious or have watched one porno too many because chances are, if you caught her with another woman, you're either not satisfying her or she rather make out with her than you.
Lesbos? Really? Can you check which decade you're currently living in and where?
Pinch myself ... hard ... is the first thing I would do if I caught my wife with another woman ... lol ... as it would be very unlikely that would ever happen ...
After pinching I would cry in pain from the pinching and smile smile smile ... and oh yeah ... watch watch watch ... ;)
I would, see it as her cheating.
