I want my man to be forceful in bed. It really excites me, but that is just play. Any man that tries to make when I do't want to is probably getting bit.
I think that it goes both ways. A man should not expect it. but if you go down on her it should go both ways. It does not always have to be that way, but it should equal out.
It should be by mutual consent and enjoyment of and by both partners, and no i would not expect it or infur it a right.
No, it's a privilege or a gift from her.
I gave this questions more thought.
We all have some level of expectation in a relationship. How we act on an expectation is what matters. The more important question for me is "Do you accept no as an answer", that I do, even in a committed relationship where there is an expectation of sex. Sometimes I say no.
I might be driving along thinking, "I can't wait to get home and have sex with her." That is an expectation. I get home, sex is the last thing she has on her mind, it is not going to happen. So it is hit the cold shower of the mind and let it go. In order to have respect for a woman you have to respect her choices including on whether to have sex or not.
Sex will come naturally, it may be on the first date, it may be somewhere down the line. Some relationships between man women are best without sex. You can love without sex. You can fuck up a good relationship with sex. Its complicated I agree. Some of my best hiking and rock climbing partners are women. I am not immure to their allure but sex is not an option much less an expectation.
I personally feel that SOME guys do expect oral from girls more than girls expect it, but maybe thats because I've only been with young guys (early 20s) who havent yet managed to appreciate the art of give and take. I went down on my ex all the time in our relationship and he did me about 3 times, never very good or very long. Most of the guys who have answered on here though (i'm guessing) are more experienced and more of a certain age so do not expect it so much.
Also, expecting oral from your other half just because you did it is a bit short sighted. Some people just genuinely dont like doing it, or perhaps dont realise that you want it. I go down on a guy not because I think he's expecting me to but because I enjoy it.
I will say that I have dated a few women who initially didn't want me to go down on them. Some allowed me too in time, but a few never did. These ladies also wern't partial to giving head either.
Conversly, Ive never talked to a guy who didn't want it, so I suppose that in general, it's more important to men than at least some women.
Still, no one is owed any thing in bed.
I don't feel entitled to anything. That way, everything I receive feels like a gift from the heart.
I dont expect it at all and I'm 18! but hey, if a girl wants to give me a bj, then that's fine with me!
I don't feel entitled to anything but if she wont give me head then she probably isn't all that into me. When I decide to have sex with a girl it's because I want to do every damn thing with her not just screw.
No entitlement whatsoever. That said, I've been with a couple of women who expected cunnilingus without ever wanting or intending to reciprocate...
I believe that any form of sex is a privilege rather then entitled, it's her choice if she wants to give me oral or not, if she does then I return the favor, if not then on well
it is plus factor of become more horny when she doing the oral sex to start the fire
There are times when at home or some where else & I just wanna get a quickie. Being that said there isn't enough time for all the oral. But now when we have time that's a whole other story.
Seduction isn't making someone do what they don't want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already!
I never EXPECT anything from a lover; everything she does with me or to me is a gift.
Was forced down by an ex to give oral sex once. I was 18 then and I didn't know any better. And it definitely wasn't enjoyable, more like demeaning. Made me draw the conclusion that younger guys (teens to early 20's) feel entitled to receive oral sex. And if they don't receive it, they usually try to get their way.
I took me a while to get over it but since then, I've loved giving oral to my man. The sight of a hard cock is enough to make me want to taste it.
I don't expect it but i love it and i do reciprocate ;)
I don't believe it is a right or an expectation; but that goes both ways. If a woman is dead set against giving head, neither should she expect to receive it and be disappointed when she doesn't.
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No, but it sure is a good way to break the ice.
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I feel just as entitled to received oral sex as she would to receive it. It is an intimate treat for the recipient and can be for the person performing the act. I personally ilike to give oral as much as I like to receive it.
My Ex expected things, he felt entitled. Sex was expected no less than twice a week unless I was on my period, then it was oral. Special occasions like his birthday, our anniversary, Valentines Day, Father's day or Christmas it was expected that I wake him up with a blow job. If he made a major purchase like a car for me I was supposed to take a money shot at the conclusion of the blow job. One money shot for every $20,000 spent. If I failed to live up to expectations I would be verbally abused. Let me tell you, it made me dislike anything sexual in nature, which is sad because I had always loved sex and oral. I'm enjoying sexual freedom once again. So guys, if you push, if you make her feel guilty, you are only shooting yourself in the foot. Side note, I never wanted him to go down on me.
I would rather give anyway, so I hope women feel entitled
its a treat for me, one that she seems happy to do for me, but i never ask for one, keeps it special
