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not really. don't see how that bothers me.
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my wife had been involved in many gangbangs , group sex and strangers before we meet thankfully we both agreed to carry on after we married and did so for almost 40 years mmmmm
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Yes....
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Dated several women who had done the GB thing. Since I had been a bit of a slut myself it would have been hypocritical to disrespect them for it.
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The only reason a guy may be uncomfortable with that would be if he was worried about whether or not he'd be enough for you after that. His thinking process would be, "Well if she wanted multiple dicks before and I can't give that to her then will I be enough to make her happy?" Any guy who is disgusted or judgmental of the gang bang would be bad news for a relationship, but a bit of discomfort may result from a bit of insecurity on his part. If you notice that he is uncomfortable talking about it, just make it clear verbally that he is the one you want and that sex with him is just so much better than anyone else. (Yes, even if it's not true sometimes) Guys are surprisingly self conscious about being enough to satisfy their significant others (well, if they actually care about you and aren't just in it for the sex).




Very honest answer
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Most of you know that I am highly sexual, had many partners, threesomes, groups, and GangBangs. More than a few of them too. However, if you are not in an Open Marriage as I am. It could be different.

Several guys say "what is in the past is in the past. I am not sure you guys are being completely honest, mostly with yourself.

Did your lover as she asked you to pass the Salad finish her sentence with "I had a gangbang once!"

Or were you demanding a Journal of her past Sexual History?

The first communication seems very unrealistic and not very believable.

In the second case, are you sure you do not have a problem if she has done what you wanted to do and never did?

If you are in the second group will it not always be there and will the question be "When is her Next GangBang?

My husband never questioned me about what I had done or even what I would do in the future with or without him. Plus he could not be dumb enough not to know. In Fact, he is rather brilliant. You see it is not the Worlds Best Kept Secret.

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Most of you know that I am highly sexual, had many partners, threesomes, groups, and GangBangs. More than a few of them too. However, if you are not in an Open Marriage as I am. It could be different.

Several guys say "what is in the past is in the past. I am not sure you guys are being completely honest, mostly with yourself.

Did your lover as she asked you to pass the Salad finish her sentence with "I had a gangbang once!"

Or were you demanding a Journal of her past Sexual History?

The first communication seems very unrealistic and not very believable.

In the second case, are you sure you do not have a problem if she has done what you wanted to do and never did?

If you are in the second group will it not always be there and will the question be "When is her Next GangBang?

My husband never questioned me about what I had done or even what I would do in the future with or without him. Plus he could not be dumb enough not to know. In Fact, he is rather brilliant. You see it is not the Worlds Best Kept Secret.

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I think this is a very honest answer. I would accentuate that it is a far more complex question with complex effects on her, you, the relationship you are building, etc. It is naive to answer this question so quickly.
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No, it wouldn't. I've been married for 13 years and none of my wife's previous sexual adventures nag at me. I may, or may not find it tolerable in the present; depending on timing and context (and level of involvement).
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The only reason a guy may be uncomfortable with that would be if he was worried about whether or not he'd be enough for you after that. His thinking process would be, "Well if she wanted multiple dicks before and I can't give that to her then will I be enough to make her happy?" Any guy who is disgusted or judgmental of the gang bang would be bad news for a relationship, but a bit of discomfort may result from a bit of insecurity on his part. If you notice that he is uncomfortable talking about it, just make it clear verbally that he is the one you want and that sex with him is just so much better than anyone else. (Yes, even if it's not true sometimes) Guys are surprisingly self conscious about being enough to satisfy their significant others (well, if they actually care about you and aren't just in it for the sex).


You do understand, there are some women who are not going to be satisfied by any one man. No matter how good he is. If you are married to one like that you will just need to deal with the fact.
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You do understand, there are some women who are not going to be satisfied by any one man. No matter how good he is. ....


Indeed, most of the women I've dated or played with in the past couple years were such. I'd have little objection to a relationship with such a person now.
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You do understand, there are some women who are not going to be satisfied by any one man. No matter how good he is. ....


Indeed, most of the women I've dated or played with in the past couple years were such. I'd have little objection to a relationship with such a person now.
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I'd find that attractive. She sounds like my type of girlfriend
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Gang-Bangs is about fun, why should I have a problem with my girl if she had some wild fun in her past , relationship is also about appreciating one`s partner
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Considering the number of times I've been gangbanged by a bunch of guys I probably wouldn't say much lol
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I had been in 3 ways and orgies before I met her. How could I hold that against her?