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I frequented strip clubs when I was in my twenties. Then I read an article that interviewed the girls. One of the questions was, "What do you think of the male customers?" Their answers were not flattering. I saw no further need to spend my money on them.
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Some years back I was a frequent traveler to Los Angeles and visited quite a number of the strip clubs there. I wound up dating three of the ladies I met at the clubs over the years and for the most part they were fun, and genuine people outside of the club.
One of course was as greedy as they come, but sexy as hell too. My suggestions:
Remember these girls are dancing to make a living. Do not bother going to the club unless you plan to spend quite a bit of money.
Treat the girls with respect and for the most part they will respect you. Try to avoid the very young or inexperienced girls.
By all means go for the "VIP" room experience. It is well worth the price.
As with any service business some people will be better at it than others. Don't get discouraged if you find a bad apple or two.

In addition to the L.A. area I would recommend the clubs in Tampa and Miami as well.

Most importantly; Have fun.

Dino
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Some years back I was a frequent traveler to Los Angeles and visited quite a number of the strip clubs there. I wound up dating three of the ladies I met at the clubs over the years and for the most part they were fun, and genuine people outside of the club.
One of course was as greedy as they come, but sexy as hell too. My suggestions:
Remember these girls are dancing to make a living. Do not bother going to the club unless you plan to spend quite a bit of money.
Treat the girls with respect and for the most part they will respect you. Try to avoid the very young or inexperienced girls.
By all means go for the "VIP" room experience. It is well worth the price.
As with any service business some people will be better at it than others. Don't get discouraged if you find a bad apple or two.

In addition to the L.A. area I would recommend the clubs in Tampa and Miami as well.

Most importantly; Have fun.

Dino


he's not lying, Los Angeles (a while ago, so no age shaming please) had a great strip club scene. Many of the strippers were very cool - they used to even let me trade art prints for dances; I became (outside the club) friends with a few people I met at the clubs.

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I agree totally with Dino3434. It is essential to treat the girls with respect. My best strip club experiences have been when a good rapport builds up between the audience and the girls and there are no guys who misbehave. The girls know they are appreciated and strip with a smile. You can feel the good atmosphere when there’s a good rapport.
Not my thing, I love a sexy sassy lady, but I'd much rather meet up with one and enjoy her company rather than paying to be teased and left wanting.
My ex-husband and I went to a few together which was actually quite fun ? ?, I was there to watch the men as I was always curious as to what really happens in those establishments. Some of the clubs were trashy and some were not but I’m glad I experienced both. Highly recommend an adventure with your SO always fun once we got home!

Don't see the point, have been a few times when younger. Don't get me wrong watching hot naked women dancing is fun.

It's all about the $$$

I used to work at a company that had a big strip club culture. The big bossses (all white men) loved to go there after a long day of work. Sometimes it was hot, but sometimes it was depressing. Not so much the women, who seemed cool, but the men. Faces blank with lust, and sometimes weirdly angry.

I agree that it’s Big Fun with a SO. Buy your girlfriend a lap dance!

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I went to a few a long time ago. I didn't like the 'culture' - it's always 'stripclub-chic' with very little variation and overly transactional, pressured, rushed and somewhat depressing.

I did enjoy a topless bar that had very little of the performance aspects - just topless woman bartenders / waitresses and mixed male and female costumers. Other than the topless ladies, it could have been taken for a typical bar. Much better. If it was still around, i'd would take my wife there and she'd be fine with it.

I'm not a huge fan of strip clubs mostly because the guys behave like idiots. I have had exactly one lap dance from a stripper that was great and in the bar at the time there weren't a lot of rules so there may have been some touching involved. I did date a stripper for about 3 or 4 months. I highly recommend it.

Exciting for about 20 minutes if it's your first time to a club. After that, repetitive, boring, and kinda depressing.

Don't believe everything that you read.

One of my biggest clients had a VIP membership at one of the better strip clubs. He required entertainment once or twice a month which usually ran about $1000 a visit. The women, for the most part, were gorgeous and let the customers do almost anything. It was transactional and not very enticing. It was at its essence simply a rather boring business transaction.

When I worked on the road constantly I worked with a team, one coworker and I would check out the local talent. I always treated the women well, and our table would end up being the one where they could sit for a bit and just chat. I did meet some fascinating women.

To answer your question, yes I did get a lap dances. One birthday I wound up handcuffed to the pole and each of the dancers took a turn.

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When I worked on the road constantly I worked with a team, one coworker and I would check out the local talent. I always treated the women well, and our table would end up being the one where they could sit for a bit and just chat. I did meet some fascinating women.

To answer your question, yes I did get a lap dances. One birthday I wound up handcuffed to the pole and each of the dancers took a turn.

It’s awesome that you treated the women well and created a fun vibe at your table. I’ve had a blast in those kinds of settings too. One time in Korea, I tried out a place with [Link removed] and rented a private room. We just chilled and chatted with some amazing women who had some wild stories to share.

It was all about enjoying each other’s company, and the atmosphere was really relaxed. The girls were super friendly, and we ended up laughing a lot. I can see how that birthday with the handcuffs sounds like a memorable way to celebrate! It’s moments like those that stick with you, bringing a lot of fun and good vibes.

I saw your post while looking for something myself. I’ve been to a few strip clubs, and honestly, they can be quite an experience. It depends on the place you go. Some are classy and have a nice vibe, while others can be wilder. The key is to go in with an open mind and enjoy the show. The performers often have serious skills, which can be fun to watch.

Just remember to respect everyone there. It's all about having a good time without crossing any lines. Also, it's good to check out reviews before you head to a spot to see what others are saying. If you’re looking for a recommendation, I found some great info at https://spearmintrhinowpb.com/ .

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I’ve been to a few strip clubs, and honestly, they can be quite an experience. It depends on the place you go. Some are classy and have a nice vibe, while others can be wilder.

I agree with MissBebita,

Very recently I visited a club with my cousin sister to know what is happening, for me it was fine, In fact, very close friend of mine is working in a strip club as per her she is happy.

My roommie in college stripped and talked me into amateur night. It was nerve wracking but empowering and fun. The guys weren't overly crude and the vibe was fairly professional. I enjoyed the hoots and attention as I got naked and scooped up dollar bills lol! i was pretty horny so I actually had lesbian sex for the first time when my roommie and I got home! That was the only time I stripped in a club though.

A wonderful way to spend a ton of money on an illusion.

Went a handful of times when I was a young man, but here's how long ago that was: the women still had pubic hair.

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I had a similar phase in my younger years, and I get how reading something like that could shift your perspective. It’s interesting how our understanding of places evolves with time. I remember visiting 신림셔츠룸 https://www.xn--jt2b1n91qhtbrv0a.kr/ during a trip to Seoul, and what struck me was how different the vibe was from what I expected. It felt more like a space for people to unwind rather than anything sleazy or superficial.

One of the staff even chatted with me about how much effort goes into maintaining a welcoming atmosphere. It made me realize that not all venues are the same, and some are truly about creating a respectful, enjoyable experience for everyone involved.

My favorite strip club experience happened about 30 years ago in an all-nude strip club in Washington DC. Went up to out some $ in her garter. She grabbed my tie, turned around facing away from me, and ran the tie back and forth on her pussy and ass crack. That also brought my face within inches of her ass and asshole. I sniffed that tie for years

I like seeing beautiful nude bodies so I have enjoyed the occasional trip to a strip club. My best experience was when we sat next to an attractive couple and the guy bought his date a lap dance. It was so hot watching his gf with the stripper that we bought her about 8 or 9 more dances. Closest I’ve ever been to watching two pretty ladies have sex!