I told a guy I loved him and he shyly looked at his feet, when he looked back up at me he smiled and said nothing.
Me personally I liked being told I'm loved it doesn't freek me out, as I like telling friends and lovers that I love them quite freely.
You might want to try to learn the difference between LOVE and LUST,,, before you get The I LOVE YOU"S going too soon.
It would only scare him away if....
1. he is only with you for sex and not love, or
2. he is romantically interested but not as far into the relationship as you are and think you are moving too fast.
Best to find out which it is before you decide whether to chase him or leave him.
3. He's had a history of bad relationships and is "scared" to believe in any relationship anymore.
"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
It all depends on the relationship before it's told, doesn't it?
It doesn't sxare me I actually like to know a girl loves me
I think its nice to hear.
Depends on how long the relationship has been going on before she says it. I would be feeling awkward if she said it after a week, that would be weird. I would only be "scared" if I liked her enough to not want to hurt her feelings, but did not like her enough to return the feelings she had for me. That scares me because I don't want to hurt anyone.
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av. If I knew the lady was being totally honest, I'd love her to tell me that
Most men will tell you whatever you want to hear if the the one eyes trouser snake can get indoors
It would depending on the time frame. If theyb were telling me that they loved me on the second week I might be a little scared. You can't really know each other after that much. A few months, not at all.
After dating for 3 months, I once told a guy "I love you" after a wonderfully romantic day together and he responded with "thank you." I never heard from him again. Fucker.
I've always been the one to say it first. (Toe pick)
There's nothing a guy wants to hear more. But only if he loves you back.
If he doesn't love you back this scares him because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
If he has a fear of commitment, then you're screwed.
But, if you say it and he's not feeling the same yet, it can make for an awkward situation, just like if a guy says it and she isn't feeling the same way.
I don't mind a woman saying she loves me as long as she respects that I have other female friends and can live with that without getting jealous or to clingy.
This can also work both ways.
Sometimes a guy will say it too soon, or when you don't feel the same way....
And then you either have to say it back to avoid awkwardness, have "the talk" about where you see the relationship going, or just smile back and listen to the crickets ominously chirping.
This is always a tough one. I've never been one to casually use the "L" word in relationships. I do think its something special when you do say it, and if you're not sure of the other person's feelings, its probably just better to wait.
NOT AT ALL!!! Only a coward afraid of commitment, or a man there to use you will be frightened off..... TRUST ME I AM A GUY...