i love to cuddle i like the way it makes me feel, but i have had a boyfriend who says he feels akward cuddling, but i have others who have loved it...
so do you like to cuddle?
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I have to be in the mood. Say me and my girlfriend, after a nice Sunday together out and about and a nice meal come home and get in lounge about clothes. Then we might get in bed and watch a movie. That's definitely the time to cuddle for me. Sometimes in the morning while deciding what to do for the day is a nice time for it too.(morning breath permitting)
I dislike cuddling in almost all other situations though. I hate cuddling when trying to sleep. I toss and turn too much. I also don't like cuddling on the couch or anywhere besides a bed.
Also sometimes outdoors in the cold if we are waiting in line for something. Does that count? But thats the only time I can think of outside of the bed.
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I was thinking about this and cuddling for guys reminds me a little of exercising. Most people don't like exercising but they do it anyway because they know that eventually they are going to lose weight. Some may exercise a lot and grow to enjoy it as long as those pounds keep coming off... Guys will cuddle because they know it will lead to sex. Stop rewarding them with sex and the cuddling might stop. I know I wouldn't cuddle with a friend of mine all the time just to cuddle and talk about feelings if I didn't have a sexual relationship with her.
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I was thinking about this and cuddling for guys reminds me a little of exercising. Most people don't like exercising but they do it anyway because they know that eventually they are going to lose weight. Some may exercise a lot and grow to enjoy it as long as those pounds keep coming off... Guys will cuddle because they know it will lead to sex. Stop rewarding them with sex and the cuddling might stop. I know I wouldn't cuddle with a friend of mine all the time just to cuddle and talk about feelings if I didn't have a sexual relationship with her.
You're basically suggesting than men don't really enjoy cuddling. I'm not sure that's true for all men.