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do guys like to cuddle?
Advanced Wordsmith
I love cuddling, and I think most guys do too. There is something about holding someone special that gives comfort and stability to me. 
Quote by maliboy88
I love to cuddle. And it doesn't always have to be about getting close and horny. There are a lot of nights where i just want to rent a movie, eat some popcorn, light a candle and get close with someone special.
The tricky part is to know when I'm aloud to go any farther. lol
maliboy
The green light is when she places her hand on the inside of your thigh, or starts caressing your top button of your shirt LOL
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by HoneyBee000Quote by maliboy88
I love to cuddle. And it doesn't always have to be about getting close and horny. There are a lot of nights where i just want to rent a movie, eat some popcorn, light a candle and get close with someone special.
The tricky part is to know when I'm aloud to go any farther. lol
maliboy
The green light is when she places her hand on the inside of your thigh, or starts caressing your top button of your shirt LOL
Lol you are very right on that one! That's what my experience has been, and I would add if she starts moving her hand on you chest and gets lower
I love to cuddle. Before sex, after sex, during sex, no sex at all. I love spooning, head-on-shoulder, head-in-lap, holding ... I'm somewhat of a hopeless romantic, as well as an insatiable hornball (quite a combo, I know), so I love cuddling almost as much as I love sex. Just something about holding my girl feels ... right.
Id say he is attracted to you, at least physically. Also, consider where you were leaning. Turning on a guy is about as easy as touching that area.
Take it as a compliment. It means he finds you sexy.
Though yes, he probably will be embarrassed about it. Sexual attitudes these days are quite repressed. We are taught shame about our sexual behavior.
Tell him you liked it, that is, if you did, indeed, like it. Otherwise, i dunno. Pretend it didnt happen?
Take it as a compliment. It means he finds you sexy.
Though yes, he probably will be embarrassed about it. Sexual attitudes these days are quite repressed. We are taught shame about our sexual behavior.
Tell him you liked it, that is, if you did, indeed, like it. Otherwise, i dunno. Pretend it didnt happen?
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Magical_felix
I was thinking about this and cuddling for guys reminds me a little of exercising. Most people don't like exercising but they do it anyway because they know that eventually they are going to lose weight. Some may exercise a lot and grow to enjoy it as long as those pounds keep coming off... Guys will cuddle because they know it will lead to sex. Stop rewarding them with sex and the cuddling might stop. I know I wouldn't cuddle with a friend of mine all the time just to cuddle and talk about feelings if I didn't have a sexual relationship with her.
Wild at Heart
Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by Magical_felix
I was thinking about this and cuddling for guys reminds me a little of exercising. Most people don't like exercising but they do it anyway because they know that eventually they are going to lose weight. Some may exercise a lot and grow to enjoy it as long as those pounds keep coming off... Guys will cuddle because they know it will lead to sex. Stop rewarding them with sex and the cuddling might stop. I know I wouldn't cuddle with a friend of mine all the time just to cuddle and talk about feelings if I didn't have a sexual relationship with her.
If only communication between the sexes was this clear... We'd never fight! This concept should be taught to girls early on so they won't be so shocked by men when they're older... Maybe like a psychology of cuddling merit badge or something would do the trick.
Wise Ass
I agree with Felix as well but be careful what you wish for...
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Love cuddling! Could lay there for hours just doing nothing but cuddling. Makes me feel like im protecting her and that she's no one elses but mine 
Wild at Heart
Quote by Dudealicious
I agree with Felix as well but be careful what you wish for...
This isn't cuddling... It's attempted murder.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Magical_felix
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This isn't cuddling... It's attempted murder.
Isn't this a kind of sexual fetish or something? I think it's called squashing.
Looks like a bone crusher to me though... (as well as a boner crusher, actually)
Wild at Heart
Quote by Dancing_DollQuote by Magical_felix
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This isn't cuddling... It's attempted murder.
Isn't this a kind of sexual fetish or something? I think it's called squashing.
Looks like a bone crusher to me though... (as well as a boner crusher, actually)
It is called squashing!
From urban dictionary:
1. A sexual act that involves a large person jumping or falling onto the partner, therefore crushing that person with their immensity.
Some huge kinky girl was squashing me with her big giant self.. it was amazing.
And doll please... I don't think there was ever a boner involved in this enormous equation.
Alpha Blonde
Quote by Magical_felixQuote by Dancing_DollQuote by Magical_felix
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This isn't cuddling... It's attempted murder.
Isn't this a kind of sexual fetish or something? I think it's called squashing.
Looks like a bone crusher to me though... (as well as a boner crusher, actually)
It is called squashing!
From urban dictionary:
1. A sexual act that involves a large person jumping or falling onto the partner, therefore crushing that person with their immensity.
Some huge kinky girl was squashing me with her big giant self.. it was amazing.
And doll please... I don't think there was ever a boner involved in this enormous equation.
Yeah I think I saw it on one of those late night sex show documentaries. It was interesting because some women made it a business (like being a dominatrix) where male clients would pay them to be squashed, but there would be no sex involved. I found this interesting. Stay home (and fat) and charge men to sit and jump on them. I guess there is a fetish to please everyone...
Active Ink Slinger
i like it. nice. comfortable... i love being able to play with her hair too... or just have my hand resting on her ass...
my problem is that i'm a friggin' human furnace and living in Texas... the extra heat isn't so welcome in our weather!
my problem is that i'm a friggin' human furnace and living in Texas... the extra heat isn't so welcome in our weather!
Active Ink Slinger
Nothing like having a lady snuggle up to you, put her head on your shoulders, and just stay there. Yes.
Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.
BigDaddyRich
BigDaddyRich
I am a real 'hugger', most people kiss others when greeting but I prefer a good hug. Much more pure and personal.
What I like best is walking up to my girlfriend when her belly is bare and just wrapping my right arm around her belly whilst caressing her hair shoulders or back with my left one.
I like to be cuddled by my girl when we're laying in bed. She lays her head on my chest, her top arm around me and our bodies just flow together. Hope you get the picture, pure magic!
Pro-tip: just lay still, cuddle and listen to each others breathing.
What I like best is walking up to my girlfriend when her belly is bare and just wrapping my right arm around her belly whilst caressing her hair shoulders or back with my left one.
I like to be cuddled by my girl when we're laying in bed. She lays her head on my chest, her top arm around me and our bodies just flow together. Hope you get the picture, pure magic!
Pro-tip: just lay still, cuddle and listen to each others breathing.
In experiments, baby apes that were not cuddled much, grew up to be like that all their lives. There can be none cuddling families. It seems in apes, and in humans, bahind this slight coldness, there can be emotional and psychological problems. After sex and money, the cuddle factor is one of the biggest reasons why couples split up.
It is advisable to get relationship councilling if there is some incompatability. In about fifty per cent of cases, anxieties about cuddling can be cured.
It is advisable to get relationship councilling if there is some incompatability. In about fifty per cent of cases, anxieties about cuddling can be cured.
Advanced Wordsmith
I love to cuddle, clothed unclothed, just to watch a movie and be together, before after and any time i can. I am single now and missing the cuddling
Cogent Sensualist
Short Answer
Heaven is having her in my arms.
Longer Answer
Whether it's aftercare, foreplay, sleeping, watching tv, or "just cause", the closeness and intimacy (along with shades of protection and possession at times) of cuddling in any state of dress/undress can be amazing. I never understood why anyone wouldn't like it. Then again, I've met couples who don't like to use tongue when they kiss so I guess there are all kinds out there.
Now that I think about it, I could use some of that about now... Wandering off in search of my girl.
Heaven is having her in my arms.
Longer Answer
Whether it's aftercare, foreplay, sleeping, watching tv, or "just cause", the closeness and intimacy (along with shades of protection and possession at times) of cuddling in any state of dress/undress can be amazing. I never understood why anyone wouldn't like it. Then again, I've met couples who don't like to use tongue when they kiss so I guess there are all kinds out there.
Now that I think about it, I could use some of that about now... Wandering off in search of my girl.
I love to cuddle! My wife and I leg lock and kiss, rub noses and kiss. Then, we hold hands while sleeping because we naturally lay in opposite directions. Holding hands is a way to stay connected.
But cuddling, stroking, squeezing, leg-locking, kissing, sucking and licking...all the things that lead up to sex, to me are sexier than sex. The sex is the exclamation point at the end of the paragraph.
Then we begin another paragraph all over again with cuddling, stroking, kissing....
But cuddling, stroking, squeezing, leg-locking, kissing, sucking and licking...all the things that lead up to sex, to me are sexier than sex. The sex is the exclamation point at the end of the paragraph.
Then we begin another paragraph all over again with cuddling, stroking, kissing....