The right big girl can be positively delicious....
Big girl, white girl, black girl, skinny girl, hairy girl, shaved girl, bi girl, hetero girl, makes not matter. If you are the girl for him, then...you will be his it girl. Peace.
This has gone around before. For me, size isn't that important. Depite what mass media tells us, there's a lot more to a woman than her dress size. I actually don't like really thin women, I always feel like I'm going to break them if I get too 'enthusiastic'. lol
I wouldn't describe myself as 'liking' bigger girls as a preference as I don't have a particular type. Personally, I find wit and intelligence come above issues about size. If I get to know someone, like them and find their conversation a turn on then I find I like their bodies as well as their body is part of them. Rather a big girl who can hold a conversation and make me laugh than a supermodel wannabe who is a brain dead moron.
You're cute, but your body may not fit our society's idea of perfection. there are a couple of ways of looking at that. One is that none of us are perfect specimens of beauty. The other is that we are all beautiful in our own ways.
My grandfather used to say: there's an article for every customer and a customer for every article.
I say: we all have to play the hand we're dealt, so play as good a game as you can and try to have fun at it.
And once again, you're cute. You have a pretty face and a great smile. I'm a small, thin man, and I think we'd look great together.
Love,
Matthew
Sadly there is a stigma out there that says women need to be thin in order to be happy and find love. Today's society considers a size 12 to be overweight. Polls show teen girls are becoming alarmingly thin from the mounting adds that advertise mostly thin women. My take, curves have it over stick thin women any day! Rock your body girl, what matters most is if your happy and healthy. For the record, I think Matthew sounds lovely and you should chat with him!!
oh yes.... they are so editable... and taste to good.
I just want to give a big thanks and say that all the positive comments on this topic have been fantastic! It's really great to hear all of the love going around for the bigger girls out there.
Like many women, I went through a long phase of hating my body and being completely envious of all the stick thin girls in their crop tops and ultra low-rise skinny jeans.
Needless to say, I've gotten over all of that and I realize that having a large chest, full ass and curvy hips is actually a good thing! I know I'm a pretty awesome person and if a guy is unwilling to see that because I'm not "skinny" enough for him, it's completely his loss that he will never know the fabulousness that is me!
Trying to live up to the standards that the media throws for out there are completely ridiculous and I refuse to live off of lettuce and water to look like what Hollywood deems acceptable. This girl likes her red meat and beer!
I also came to the conclusion that a lot of guys probably would like the fact that they can toss me around without the fear of me injuring myself... who doesn't like a little rough play every now and then?
Again, I'd just like to say thanks to all those out there who admire the lushness and beauty that is a curvy woman!
XoXo
size isnt that important.
I think everyone is entitled to their likes and dislikes, as long as they are not rude to another, I have dated/slept both skinny women and bigger women, my attraction towards women is not just her size,shape or color of their skin, I firmly believe and state that a person can never be unattractive by the why they are build, as a matter of fact I have seen and experienced some slim, beautiful women who became ugly really fast as soon as their true personality came to the surface, now my questions for guys who don't like big girls is : are you looking for conquests or a partner?
Surely it is the personality that counts (intelligent, witty and funny), and where there is a connection of the heart - the connection to the body will follow.
If you were to ask me my ideal, well I THINK I prefer petite, skinny, gamine, boyish-looking girls...
Latest girlfriend was a SOOOO PRETTY 5"5' little butterball with 36DD boobs who's (second) greatest pleasure was to have me read aloud novels to her in bed.... And she had the greatest legs!
If you love the person you love how she looks.... (And YOU TELL HER THAT!!!)
xx SF