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Why is it OK to give a blowjob and not have sex ?

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doctorlove
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Why not just have sex first?
Callisto
Rocker of the cocker
Because sucking dick is the best part.
Sholbin83
English Gentleman
from a guys point of view i quite often enjoy getting a bj. many a time a girl cant be bothered for sex but dont mind giving a bj. we both get what we want.
Unknown User
Because when she is done, you probably DOA or to quote M*A*S*H-"emotionally exhausted and morally bankrupt"
Guest
Lurker
I guess it depends upon the situation. For me it's great foreplay, but if she wants to 69 instead of having sex (or is one of those who REALLY gets into giving a BJ and being fingered... ) that works too. And, then there are the TECHNICAL virgins who want to keep it until they get married. As with everything else about sex... one size does NOT fit all!
Guest
Lurker
When I'm on my period
Guest
Lurker
Yes it is. Maybe because at the time it was what I wanted to do just to suck him what's wrong with pleasing the guy because you like sucking on a nice hard warm cock. Wouldn't it be the same if the guy just wanted to lick my pussy and want nothing in return. What it all boils down to me is that you do what you want to not because you have to just to get the enjoyment out of pleasing him and doing what you like to do and get that nice warm reward in your mouth too.
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Because if the conditions aren't right or convenient for penetration it is quite simply easier to satisfy a man who's very horny and persistent with a BJ.
Once they know you're happy to oblidge with this compromise it quickly become a regular feature at short notice.
Beffer
Rainbow Warrior
I pretty much did that in high school with guys I wasn't ready to have sex with. Now, if I blow them, I'll screw them too.
1nympholes
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Now tell me who wrote that dumb rule. I thought oral sex for both players and serious sex go together. NO?

I do understand that there are times and places where oral sex is the only option available.

I love to give a blowjob just as much as the guy enjoys receiving that pleasure. However, let's not let the guys know how much some of us love it.

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lafayettemister
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It's okay if two consenting adults say it is. That's all that matters, the two people engaging in the blowjob.



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Nikki703
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Quote by lafayettemister
It's okay if two consenting adults say it is. That's all that matters, the two people engaging in the blowjob.


Or three!!
Dee_1966
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Not ok in my book. I get really, really turned on giving a blowjob, so not having vaginal is not an option.
MrAvg
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Quote by Nikki703


Or three!!
Old in chronological age. But young at heart and desire.
WellMadeMale
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Quote by doctorlove
Why not just have sex first?


Because not everyone wishes to dive into the main course and skip the h'ordeuvres?

Save some room for dessert, Doc.
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Jocelyn00
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I'm pretty much going to fuck and blow you if something happens between us.
Unknown User

I think fellatio without orgasm then vaginal would be my dream.

Unknown User

At times I just want to go to church and worship him until I cum four times then he drags me to the edge of the bed and throat fucks.

Taking care of him is taking care of me.

ErinDcup34
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Starting from way back in my adventurous youth, I discovered how much less of a mess there was to deal with when swallowing the evidence was so easy and so much fun. I'm talking mainly about the early days - in his or my parent's car, in the living room or TV room - anyplace you wouldn't want cum splattered on the windshield or furniture (or in your hair) on on your clothes or dripping out of you .... and like I said, I always found it to be so much fun anyway. There were/are plenty of places to have normal sex, but every now and then you want the fun but don't want the evidence all over the place (cum, tissues, towels, etc). So now, I have my own place, my own car, etc etc - and I STILL love giving bjs and swallowing!