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Why do women care so much about getting cheated on?

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We don't care. We love being lied to. It's sooooo hot.


Same
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
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If I know the guy is clean and I not really care about him but only sex?
Then why would I care what he does then?
He's not really cheating on me anyway if we are not really mates.

I just not want to catch anything from him, and I not like anyone who can so easily be a liar too.

If he wants to fuck someone else? Just say so.
I not care about him enough to bother me I think.

If I did care a lot about a guy or girl, I would tell them I wanted to fuck another guy or girl?

Why not tell each other the truth?

They know another guy or girl is gonna fuck me and they ok with it.

That is hot I think...smile
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They tend to ugly cry.


THAT is decidedly chuckle-worthy and pointedly truthful...
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Women can usually forgive but won't trust completely again but men are always over dramatic when women cheat. They tend to ugly cry.


I only ugly cry during sex after orgasming. I just feel so close to her in that moment.
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It's just sex???

It used to be a stoning offense.

There is a reason why marriage vows have...
"Do you take this person as your loving husband/wife till death do you part."
"I do"

You lied, so you died.
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Think of it. Millions of years of human evolution is involved.

History is full of people killing their cheating partners. And in some nations it is still legal or at least a reason for a softer punishment.
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stick your nose somewhere, that's one story. But let someone into your soul, it's a completely different thing. Both literally and figuratively. I hope you understand what I mean.
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If you are just friends and its a booty call great, no problem

But it is disrespectful to put your tool into another woman when you have gifted your body to me and demand the same from me in return. of course it would hurt. of course it would make one angry but worst it would make one feel "not enough" and that is demoralising too.

on top of it. the trust is broken and with out trust their is not relationship.
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Think of it. Millions of years of human evolution is involved.
Being cheated on as a guy can mean, perhaps 'your' kids are not your own. So yeah, you just found out that you wasted your time/energy on somebody else kids.
Being cheated on as a gal can mean, the guy is no longer interested in you and possible stops providing for you. Thus the oncoming winter, you are on your own. (And good luck with hunting prey if you have some crying baby next to you.)

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This is why being cheated on is a huge thing.

And why do people cheat themselves, for males, more offspring simple as that.
For females, more diversity in their offspring. Look, what if a female put all her eggs in one basked (IE faithfully to 1 man) and that guy turns out to have a hidden genetic disorder, than she has a problem. If she cheats and has kids from multiple partners, she overcame this problem.

Ps, I see 'open' relations as extended one night stands who keep on seeing each other out of convenience. Yes I am aware some rock it well, but this is not the norm in society.


Do you genuinely believe offspring diversity is the reason people cheat, or are you high?
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If you are just friends and its a booty call great, no problem

But it is disrespectful to put your tool into another woman when you have gifted your body to me and demand the same from me in return. of course it would hurt. of course it would make one angry but worst it would make one feel "not enough" and that is demoralising too.

on top of it. the trust is broken and with out trust their is not relationship.


Wow! Just can't put it any better than this....
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Yah, we need conditioning because we're entirely too stupid to form our own opinions or even to determine our own emotional states.

LOL. You are so funny, I had to laugh out loud when I read your remark. Please ladies, and especially you, HeraTeleia, don’t be too hard on the poor guy. After all, ‘everyone knows’ that you little women have to depend on us guys for all kinds of emotional support, and to help you form your opinion on any and every topic. Now isn’t that true?

HeraTeleia, now that I’ve made enemies of all you lovely ladies, I’ll run and hide behind Sprite for protection, as your hand flashes down to that big Colt-45 hanging from your hip to shoot me.

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P.S. I can’t believe anyone would start a thread like this one, however, if his purpose in doing so was to generate some activity in these forums, he certainly has accomplished his goal, especially from you ladies.
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Because for me sex is part of a relationship, an emotional relationship. Never had sex with a stranger, never had sex with a friend, have no desire to have sex with multiple men or women or couples. For me its one on one. I'm not saying forever, have the courtesy to say - it's over Meagan. Then go your own way. What I hate is guys who want to burn the candle at both ends, who see maintaining a relationship with me as their lifeboat in case their new girlfriend doesn't work out, who are afraid to burn a bridge by ending a relationship.
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Women can usually forgive but won't trust completely again but men are always over dramatic when women cheat. They tend to ugly cry.