it bugs me because i just like chatting to women regardless of their sexual orientation and despite being a man I can read the word LESBIAN and understand its implications anyway Cheers to all women out there
Probably for the same reason that none of your 48 friends are male
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Anyone is welcome to request the friendship of anyone else on here, whether or not they accept the request is up to them. Perhaps your friend request wording needs a little work.
(Lovely of you to make all of the lesbian women on lush sound like misandrists by the way, thanks for that.)
Maybe because they are lesbians? haha
They don't want to talk to men on website like this if they're only interested in women.
I mean, if someone was a straight male, they're not really going to add men on here.
If someone was a gay male, they're not really going to add females on here.
If someone was a straight female, they're not really going to add females on here.
If this site wasn't a sexual site, it would be different. But it is, and people typically only want to add the gender(s) they are interested in.
I really do doubt whether there are many gay males who will not add female friends or lesbians who will not add male friends simply out of principle given their sexual preference unless its due to previous experiences, i.e. the opposite gender friends were unable to respect just friendship and no more.
Me .. I am so very lucky .. nobody sees a skunk as a threat to their sexual orientation .. I have all sorts of friends ..
A quarter of the people in my friend list are male. I make friends regardless of gender, orientation or preference.
I think the fact you're being rejected says more about you and your approach than it does about lesbians.
It depends on person to person and what they really think.
- if a lesbian woman is on lush for only sexual talk then clearly she would like to add only women.
- if a lesbian woman is on lush for making friends and interaction with others then you might see some men in her friend's list
you hardly see a straight woman sending a message saying "Hello" with a picture of her pussy, but here I have met people who have complimented my story and sent me a picture of their cock, now may be they didn't read my profile where I had clearly told that I'm a lesbian or may be they are just idiots.
Lush is not a porn site (I think so) but it is an adult site where we talk and write about sex, so if a lesbian joins lush then clearly she won't like to talk about sex to a man.
I'm a lesbian but it doesn't mean that I hate man but sometimes when men do stupid things then I really wish to kick their asses, like once this man sent me a friend request with a message "send me some of your nude pics." and because of those people even straight woman think twice before adding a man.
so it doesn't matter lesbian, gay or straight, if you are a good person than you are always welcome in their friend's list.
Be a man to treat me like a princess and fuck me like a whore.
I've got lesbians and bi females as friends. I've even got straight men as friends. I'm very careful about what I post on walls, I like to think I'm respectful towards friends on Lush.
I don't add men because 9x out of 10 I just don't want to. I keep them at arms length true but that's because they tend to think with their dick.
You have to face it, a lot of Lush's lesbian profiles are straight men pretending to be women lesbians, so naturally they don't want some guy sending them a dick pic etc.
Most of the real lesbians just enjoy having friends who ARE real friends, whether male of female. Just treat them as any other friend. Treating them as a sex object when they have no interest or such, in that direction is just stupid.
i 'd say the same as overmykneenow... it's because they're lesbians, the clue is in the word used to describe them
I cant speak for the Lesbians but I think the reasons have been pretty well stated already. Most of my Lush friends are women, some Straight, some Bi and some Lesbian. But I also have male friends too. As a matter a fact one of best friends here is a male.
The reason I normally don't add men is that the majority of the men who ask me either have no info in their profile or along with the request they send a not that says something like "you look hot, wanna fuck?" If I receive a request like that from a man, woman, or something in between I am going to reject it.
I clearly stated in my profile that I will not add anyone who has a blank profile unless we have communicated and connected on some other level. Or if they at least send a note explaining why he/she thinks we may connect. If the person can not or will not take the time to read my profile and respect what I am asking, then why the fuck would I want to be his/her friend.
I have never had that problem. Then again, I'm not trying to cyber up every woman on my friends list either...
Just sayin