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Why do BBW's hide their BODIES from public view on the Internet ?

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LOL! love that movie....heh heh

Chef I think she was deemed a lurker by Nic......


Nope, nothing to do with me.

Is that Jim Carey?
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yea it is
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Which movie is it from? Looks a riot.
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Maybe Ace Ventura Pet Detective?
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BBW are just that. All women are buitiful and no matter what size they are. I like women of ALL SIZES.
Some people think that because a woman is not a size 2-8 she can't be pretty but they are lie to themselves.
Just my opinion.
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Speaking as a BBW, I know that the public (with some exceptions) views us as gross, out of control, disgusting and any number of things of this nature. I know I am a beautiful woman, but I just don't want to have to deal with the negative responses to my visage.

But I will also add that many men (or women for that matter) don't realize that BBWs, almost without exception, have SKILLS. Ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies, but if you would like to know what I mean, feel free to inquire and I would be happy to expound on my particular skill set.

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I dunno why they hide their Big Beautiful Bodies from public view, but it is rather unfortunate that they do.... if only they knew how much so many men love and admire their sexy bodies, they would flaunt it openly.
Here's a little encouragement from my corner to let them know we love their sexy and curvy looks....

Sexy & Curvy

Don Abdul

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
It resides in all, young and older
It is the warmth in a sunny smile

It is the sparkle in the eye, that personal style
It is that smooth richness of the body

That rounded fullness of the booty
That swell of each luscious booby

The thickness of silken thighs
The chubby mound, the essence of which give awesome highs

Beauty is in being a sexy and curvy woman
That's how I see it though, and I'm truly a man
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because i've been told all my life how ugly my excess fat is. and i'm not used to being thought of as sexually attractive.


i was told similar things but since i have been working out and eating right (have lost 40+ lbs.) i feel allot better about myself ... but im still not where i want to be physically but im trying hard and doing my best ...


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"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It make you so vulnerable. It opens up your chest and it opens up your heart and it mean someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole set of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different than any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life... You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. The did something du mb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and your life isn't yours anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. Eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should just be friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. Its a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love." ~Neil Gaima
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I agree, because people alway tell us we have such a pretty face, so what does that say about the rest of our body. I am VERY sexual and I think sensual, but don't feel that very many others feel that way. the older I have gotten the more I have blossomed sexually. I can honestly say there aren't too many things I wouldn't try or like to try!

Weight does hinder some sexual positions though and for that I am sad. I am in the process of losing weight but don't want to be and never will be a skinny person, I like curves but would like to handle more positions with a little more grace and style! LOL


KUDOS HG!!! You took the words right out of my mouth!! I am a BBW as well who has finally reached her sexual peak. Thankfully, I have a BF who enjoys me just as I am. My weight does not affect our sex life and I too am trying to lose some. However, it feels nice to be loved and accepted just as you are!!
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I honestly don't know what constitutes a BBW anymore. Society has turned a size 6 women into somebody who could lose a few pounds. The average size of a women is size 12. Grown women (with some exeptions for really petite women) should not be a size double 0. I can't even believe that is a size!!! I think the term fat is carelessly used. Women should feel good about any size they are. And I for one do.
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I love BBW, they have every thing a skinny girl has and more, much more and they know how to use it! Real women are BBW, curvy girls, voluptuious, what ever you want to call yhem. I do love the BBW, great lovers and usually wonderful people. No woman has boobs the way a BBW does! Gotta love em!
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I think it's all been mostly said. Thanks to all the BBW lovers in the area. But yeah I'm also a larger-figured woman, and I feel very self conscious. I've been bullied and put down most of my life for being the way I am. I'm trying to get to a healthy (not skinny) weight, but it's not easy. I can't speak for the rest of us, but I'm personally annoyed by the vast number of people who'd look at my naked form and say "ew" or something similar. So I sort of just wear loose clothing and try to aim the camera right.
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I think the only big that isn't beautiful is unhealthy. Like grotesquely obese that you have health issues. Same thing with being toothpick skinny. Other than that, I try to focus on the insides of a person (easier said than done.)
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I heard Zafia has got a big booty ... anybody confirm that ...
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Oh is that BBW means? Big Bootied Woman? Then I LOVE all of them.
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Did someone call me..?
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Did someone call me..?



The mersey tunnel just flashed thru my mind
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Did someone call me..?



The mersey tunnel just flashed thru my mind


Cool imagery DB, now, how do I get to drive through it
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For crying out loud people, Are your fingers BROKE !

How much frigging effort does it take for anyone to type a response ?

I know that there has to be at least 1 among you who is a BBW that could respond but you wont because your fucking ASHAMED !


wow, with such caring comments why on earth would any woman that is of a larger than size nothing, come and talk to you. you really not know how to turn on the women that your getting at!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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It take all sorts ....




ha ha is that you inthe polka dotted dressing gown on the left hee hee he looks like he has your beard haha
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As a big woman myself i can say that without a doubt we hide because more than not we are looked at as unclean or pigs because of our size. being big has kept me the "quiet girl in the back of the room" all of my life. even on here. being big isn't accepted by a lot of people. And i've never found anyone in Ohio who accepted me for me.
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...they weren’t that good with personal hygiene...


that right there is why i hide online. just becaue we're bigger people automatically assume we don't take care of ourselves and don't keep clean. And thats just bullshit!
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Your not "big" Chelle!! Geesh! How many times do I have to tell you that?? LOL
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I don't like to categorize people. There's men and there's women. They come in all colours and shapes. You can have what is considered a beautiful woman, but with a poor attitude and you can have someone who's considered to be BBW (had to look-up what it means exactly) with the 'right' attitude.

I used to avoid bigger girls, until I fell for one. It's funny how a girl/woman's attitude can change the way you look at her. I once almost fell off my chair in the pub when this gorgeous blonde walked in. I was smitten and in love and infatuated and going nuts, alll at the same time. Until she opened her mouth. She had the most obnoxious way of speaking, using foul language like the pope sings Gregorian tunes, with an accent to cut marble with. And in a split second of time, she lost 50% of her beauty to me.

The point is, you shouldn't judge people by how they look. When they're beautiful on the inside, they become more beautiful on the outside too.

Also, I'm from the country that brought us Pieter Paul Rubens, so, hey, big women are a bit of a norm in Belgium. Or at least, they used to be.


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...they weren’t that good with personal hygiene...


that right there is why i hide online. just becaue we're bigger people automatically assume we don't take care of ourselves and don't keep clean. And thats just bullshit!


Yeah Chelle, that seriously pisses me off when people assume that!
There's no freakin' reason for BBW's to be judged like we are.

This is what I say to those idiots who do:

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Ay ay ay ay I am guilty of thinking that at one time, please forgive my ignorance! I believe I have grown up since then, and I personally take offence when I hear someone talking bad about a BBW; and I totally understand where the anger comes from.

But, it’s up to you guys to shatter the stereotype. FUCK what people say, FUCK what they think --- you guys need to be proud of who you are, and be comfortable in your own skin. Confidence is sexy, and sexy isn’t defined by a panty or bra size.

If I offended anyone with my previous post, I am sorry.
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Don't even understand where this BBW term came from. Guess I'd be considered one at 5'11" with a big booty but I've never hid anything and found most guys love a girl with some extra T & A. Maybe I've never thought in these terms because I'm not a BBW but a BBS - Big Beautiful Slut!!! LOL What I find the most hilarious of all is the fashion designers that promote the waif look don't want a great looking women to model their clothes because they want you to pay attenetion to the clothes not the girl they just want coat hangers then everyone thinks that's what beautiful woman should look like - ah it's all a big bunch of CRAP.
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It always amazes how many people can't see the forest through the trees.
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Ay ay ay ay I am guilty of thinking that at one time, please forgive my ignorance! I believe I have grown up since then, and I personally take offence when I hear someone talking bad about a BBW; and I totally understand where the anger comes from.

But, it’s up to you guys to shatter the stereotype. FUCK what people say, FUCK what they think --- you guys need to be proud of who you are, and be comfortable in your own skin. Confidence is sexy, and sexy isn’t defined by a panty or bra size.

If I offended anyone with my previous post, I am sorry.


Nah Mara, I understand that you were using a past tense form of "think" meaning you don't anymore, I appreciate the support. But I got all pissy because it's a common thought. So I got mad at the thought in general, not you. Anyway, you're right. It's something I've learned to do recently. I'm learning to be more confident, but at the same time being healthy (not skinny, but healthy). So fuck all the idiots who say we're not sexy
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Ay ay ay ay I am guilty of thinking that at one time, please forgive my ignorance! I believe I have grown up since then, and I personally take offence when I hear someone talking bad about a BBW; and I totally understand where the anger comes from.

But, it’s up to you guys to shatter the stereotype. FUCK what people say, FUCK what they think --- you guys need to be proud of who you are, and be comfortable in your own skin. Confidence is sexy, and sexy isn’t defined by a panty or bra size.

If I offended anyone with my previous post, I am sorry.


Nah Mara, I understand that you were using a past tense form of "think" meaning you don't anymore, I appreciate the support. But I got all pissy because it's a common thought. So I got mad at the thought in general, not you. Anyway, you're right. It's something I've learned to do recently. I'm learning to be more confident, but at the same time being healthy (not skinny, but healthy). So fuck all the idiots who say we're not sexy


Fuck all the idiots who say you're not sexy? "You're not sexy."...

Now just waiting to be fucked...
Forget who you thought I was, I'm The Chris J bitch!