I have heard guys tell me their girls are the "proper" type and will not like to be fucked like a slut. Frankly I think "lovemaking" is hardcore fucking with cuddling afterwards. And I have yet to meet a female in the "REAL" World who had problem with me fucking her like a "slut". It is also baffling to me because I do not know of any kind of sexual act that is " decent". Even if someone was caught on the pulpit having missionary sex/"lovemaking", I don't think it would be regarded as okay because of the style. I could be wrong, so I look forward to your responses.
Defining "Hardcore fucking" and "Lovemaking" is the crux of this question... If Hardcore fucking means rough, then I'm a "lovemaker". If hardcore fucking means pound away for a long time, well, at my age, I can do that (so much more staying power than when I was in my 20s, 30s, 40s... Amazing!!! I think I tend towards lovemaking, but I am capable of Hardcore fucking. Whatever she or any other woman enjoys, that's my key
Lovemaking, that's just hardcore fucking without the dirty talk, right?
Wild abandon does not necessarily equal "hardcore", and I'm not sure that "hardcore" and "lovemaking" need be mutually exclusive. And just because a woman likes to get physical doesn't make her a slut. I like both vigorous and gentle, depending on the mood and the situation; and sometimes both in the same session.
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Both. Depends on my mood. Even both at the same time, like start of soft and romantic, get rougher and harder, then finish romantic and passionate.
With girls, I make love. With guys, I fuck like a whore.
Can be BOTH you know...
(NOT mutually exclusive...)
xx SF
(mutuatley???)
All things in their season. Depending on your mood and companion, it could go either way. Hopefully you'll both want the same thing at the same time, although unfortunately that's often not the case.
There is a time and a place for both.
Some times, I love it slow and sensual. Other days, I like it hard and rough. One we would call making love, and the other we would call fucking. Both are lovely. Sometimes we combine both. Sometimes we start off fucking but end up lovemaking and slowing things down. Other times it is reverse. It's all good!
It's always nice to make love slow and very erotic. I do this way mostly with my husband. It just shows one another how much you love one another. Lots of kissing and looking into each other's eyes.
Hard pounding sex is nice too but I find that way was more when I was single and drunk.
Xo
I think it's a very sexy look when I see myself in the mirror and my hair is all ruffled, make up disturbed or mostly gone, clothes messed up, twisted and part removed but my eyes are sparklingly bright and my face is flushed with colour and fresh sweat.
Not a result obtained from slow sensual love making.
Depends on the moment, the place, the person and, specially, the mood. Both are equally great.
With a person you truly love, slow sensuous love making ... mmmm. For the first few times with someone with whom you have fallen into lust with, can't help but pound away!
They are definitely very different.
Us girls have our emotions very closely linked to our pussies. Asking which one I prefer is like asking which one of my kids I love most. I need both at different times.
If we were keeping score though, I definitely get fucked hardcore like a slut more often than I make love.
Both please both
When I am with my husband it is all about love. A love that has lasted for years and a love I would never be without.
When I am with someone else I am a Whore and demanded to be treated exact like a Whore, rough, hard and dirty.
A time and place for both......dependin' on how the day has gone. Long tedious and beat down lovemaking. worked hard all day made it do what it do......Well there ya go.....
Are only gals supposed to respond to these? Maybe I'm just being contrary (wouldn't be the first time), but I don't like the distinction between the two. There can be much love shared in hardcore fucking, and lots of pure pleasure in slow sensuous exploration. And anyone worth a damn in bed gives you both. It's an artificial separation. Good sex is both. And so much more.
Experience tells me that I get a great deal more satisfaction out of caring, gentle lovemaking
Depends on my mood. But why pick when you can have both.
I love both. Just depends on my mood.
lovemaking can also be hard and intense - really depends on the mood. I believe its the difference when emotions are involved and any sex becomes lovemaking - slow sensual or animalistic passion.
