started getting serious with a new girl friend.. she is very petite and tight... tips for the first time apart from being relaxed.....share your insights on a guy with a larger cock being with a very tight girl first few times
Use lots of lube, make sure she's relaxed and fully aroused and be slow and careful when you go in and then wait for her go-ahead to start thrusting. Usually if I'm with a well hung guy I make sure I have an orgasm before he enters me, that way I'm very relaxed and very very wet
Just make sure she's really comfortable in your presence, don't be too hasty make her feel like you want to get to know HER, not just her vagina.. Elongate the foreplay too, her muscles will be more relaxed and you will be more revved up too! It's a win-win!
thanks .. any other technique tips.......wondering which positions have less peni..
Start with a lengthy massage, and segue into the foreplay, then into the sex. It doesn't hurt if she has an orgasm first, and the first few times, I'd say don't take too long. If it does hurt her a little, she may not say anything, but you don't want to break her for a week. Have fun!
Lots of lube is essential. some stretching by beginning with one finger, then adding a second one or starting with a smaller toy, then going to a bigger one can help. Also, as others have said, getting her aroused with a clitoral orgasm first will get her relaxed and more apt to handle whatever slight discomfort may occur as you enter her.
I was never small and that tight. But one of my friends is very petite and was very tight.
When were were young she was even tight to a finger.
All the above recommendations were excellent.
But she was with a older and wise man the first few times. With her in the top position, she had control and could take as much or as fast as she could handle it.
Seems reasonable to me. And she sure has no problem today.
I usually find it easier if I am on top then I can ease myself into it at my own speed. Also make sure she is very wet/ lubed up and as well like you said she should be comfortable and relaxed.
I like lube. I love the feel of it when its so wet. Adds to my excitement.
I agree with the above statements use lots of lube & make sure to get her excited & ready for sex watch a porn before maybe & then give her a little back massage, then move into foreplay its very important that she feels comfortable with u so her muscles will relax, and I find that being eaten out & then finger play gets me ready haha. If she's very tight u might want to put her ontop so she can handle as much penis as she can without hurting herself nothings worse than having a guy just stuff himself in u grumble a sorry & not care until hes spent himself
-Leah x.
If a guy says that you are tight, its usually because his is large.I love a dick that is 6
' or better but not over 8"....I hate getting bottomed out.
I am large and have an a few girls who were extra tight. The right trick that I found was foreplay. On top of relaxing/turning them on with foreplay, make sure you finger them. Start with one finger and make sure to wiggle it and not just go in and out. get her relaxed and wet enough for two fingers (finding her g-spot really helps here) with two fingers as well as wiggling them gently, you also gently spread your fingers apart inside her, slowly stretching her out, when she's relaxed enough add a third finger and repeat. if you know what you are doing you can get her stretching out enough and wet enough so she doesn't get hurt.
As was stated above very well, lots of foreplay using your tongue and fingers. When using your fingers start with one and then slowly add another and maybe another. Ask her how that feels. Her feedback is important and will tell you when to proceed. If she cums first her body will naturally be more relaxed. Have fun
Ok i have been in your spot and it can be done with lots of care and love towards her and don't be in such a rush us men have a habit of it lol. I found that lots of fore play starting with dinner at times with holding hands to playing under the table and not porn type lol but romantic showing her you crave her touch. Small teasing kiss leading up to deep hot ones that will make her toes curl . Once in the bed room slowly undress her while softly touching and kissing her body and let her do the same to you. Know your ready to give her oral and i mean at least 30 minutes with finger play make her have tiny orgams . She will tell you when she needs you inside of her and then slowly tease her with the tip going in her till she ready for thrusting and she will let you know. This will all be worth the time trust me she will be wanting more if you just don't ram her and hurt her. Found cowgirl and doggie the best or spooning was she loved the best.
I agree with all of what the ladies are saying. Plenty of lube and tongue - extra stimulation and take your time.
In my experiance I have to say it still hurts no matter how relaxed or wet I get. But it goes away once my vagina gets used to the cock. Try fingering her so her vagina can strech a bit before you decide to fuck her. I find that it helps me with the pain.
I'm quite tight, I once had a nurse ask if I struggled having sex because my opening is so small! And yes, I have struggled at times but always with guys who skip the foreplay and go straight to the sex. Take your time, lots of foreplay, lots of teasing, keep talking and enjoy yourselves, laugh and giggle - it's fun!
give her an orgasm first..before you enter....period
Lots and Lots of foreplay. Make sure she's wet, if you need help with that use some lube. Put a couple fingers in first.
foreplay is the key, lube helps but if the foreplay isn't used, you won't have a willing partner, no matter how much lube you use. If a woman gets played with her pussy will lube it's self, and if you really do your job it will be dripping.
Well guys still say I am very tight. Two guys even thought I was still a virgin, but I'm not. It's true I'm very petite and not that experienced like some girls on here, but you just need lots of foreplay and for her to get really aroused. Once I'm really wet the guy just needs to take his time entering. Once he is inside I'm fine. I love my breasts and nipples being played with and lots of touching and kissing first to get me ready. I think maybe she's very nervous? If girls are nervous they tighten up and won't get that wet? Try lots of foreplay and make sure she's not too nervous. If you party and are drinking and having fun for sure she'll be relaxed when you get home. You can let her be on top the first few times so she can regulate how fast she wants to push down? I love being on top and it let's me make sure there's enough lubrication before I push down any further. As a petite girl I can tell you it feels great to be on top and filled to the brim by a hot guy, she'll love it!