Hello all!
I am new here, not sure why!?...
I found myself on this site by searching for erotic stories, and soon found that there was a lot more than just some sexy literature.
I spent most of an afternoon looking at profiles, reading likes, dislikes, stories and generally perving on all of the hot girls on here.
I started wondering when creating my profile what type of pictures I should put up.
So, my question is (in the form of a poll), do girls trawl through the profiles in the hope of seeing nudity, for a perv, or, do you look at profiles for more mental stimulation?
Please comment what turns you on about profiles if you feel creative, if not, the poll is a sufficient benchmarking tool...
James x
I could care less about guys and their cocks because I'm not shopping. It's not offensive but it doesn't compel me to say hi either.
Cock pics do nothing for me, especially when it is just the pic of an anonymous cock. I don't find them offensive, just not sexy!
Maybe it is because I'm straight or what not, but dicks in general aren't pretty things to look at. I can't see the appeal in dropping my trunks and taking a picture of my dong for all to see.
We all know what happened to ole' Brett Favre don't we? How about ole' Michael Weiner. Ooops. Infamy, and not in a good way. Then again, I don't understand the appeal of letting any stranger see you naked. That should be for special folk.
But anyway, lady parts are the far more beautiful sex organ anyway.
All I say is…
If you’re in a public place and you see a woman you think is really hot would you approach her, pull out your cock and ask her for a date?
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I'm IMMEDIATELY repelled by cock shots. I'll actively avoid your profile if I know I'm gonna see your dick. I feel like I'm being assaulted if I'm looking through a profile and then suddenly a dick. It does nothing for me.
My advice would be that if you wanna include dick pics in your profile, put it in a private photo album so a girl (or guy) at least has the OPTION of looking at your cock if they choose to do so.
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I don't like seeing random cocks when I visit someone's profile, even if they are on my friends list. I don't much like looking at them either. The only time I “like” seeing cock, and or even nude photos is if I know he took it for ME in mind. I once asked someone to take one of his arse, to me that was hot. I don’t want to see random nudes of men I really don’t know, and you’ll never see me comment on them either, even if I ask for them. I think the comments on nude photos are so cliché, and won’t do it. I’ll tell the person privately!
Thanks for the responses!
I suspected as much. Really the question wasn't so much about my own profile and just cock shots, it was really about what women look at when they check out profiles.
I completely agree with the comment that woman are inherently prettier to look at!
James
I'd rather not see cock shots. A nice butt shot with your jeans on would be nice, shoulders and chest shots are good too.
Well, I date a lot, and if a man's profile has a cock shot as his main photo, I pass him by without a second glance.
We girls assume that every guy has a cock, so a photo affirming the obvious is not required, I like to see the face of the guy I'm considering.
Just my 2 cents worth.
"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
Someone said it but I lost track I who, it was a very good point: guys haven't mastered the sexy or attractive nude shot. Some have. I do enjoy seeing males in porn shots and stroking. Cock shots are unapealing when they're just a random pic of a dick. . Class it up and I might put you in my album ;)
When I did take revealing shots I put a lot of time into myself. I bathed, adjusted lighting, picked out an appealing background, etc. most guys don't bother to do anything of the sort. Like - I really don care if you sit at your desk and get hard. LOL. But a suit and tie tossed on the bed and your nice and clean ;)
It's not going to get my attention. A teasing avatar, maybe your jeans partially open, your hand under the band of your briefs, being playful is erotic. In your face, no mystery, not interested.
If you're going for nudity, go for a pulled-back shot that shows some of the rest of your body... abs, thigh muscles, or go for the headless torso pic. The main turn-off is the close-ups of cock and balls. It holds no thrill to the average female because it's just an appendage and two dangling accessories underneath it. It shows nothing of what you look like or what we can expect. All we know is that you have the basic tools to do the job. A sexy body with a nice cock can be erotic. Medical grade close-ups - not so much.