Hi all!
As a massage therapist I have had a couple of women clients that have had an orgasm during massage. Have any of you ever experienced this?
I have had two professional massages with men, but I really could not relax at all during the massage.
Since then, I only have females do my massages.
Orgasm is the last thing I have on my mind. I usually fall asleep.
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Mysteria
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P.s. - I do love watching erotic massages.....xo
I'm like Mysteria... I have a hard time staying awake! No orgasms for me during massage, unless it is a scheduled erotic massage with my lover! Then it's a sure thing...
I'm a guy, but I have had two women have orgasms while giving them a massage. It wasn't an adult or erotic massage either, just regular.
Yes - I cum off easily and when the stimulation - massage- is on or around erogenous zones I can and do cum. It doesn't have to be a clitoral stimulation.
In the beginning I resisted as I didn't want to embarrass myself. My masseuse recognised the situation and told me to relax and let it all happen - and I did/do. I am no longer embarrassed when it happens and I suffer no shame. She knows that what she is doing is working - relaxing me - big time.
The situation is that now we are both naked during the treatment and shower together following the massage - we do not engage sexually.
I have been massaged by males and it doesn't happen then.
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No, it hasn't happened to me. I have been aroused during a massage, just never had an orgasm.
I have a friend who has a very sensitive trigger, and she's had orgasms on more than one occasion while we were getting pedicures.
Orgasms are a pretty normal occurrence during a massage. It's fine as long as no one's weird about it.
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I think a lot about it has to do with the transference between the client and the therapist. If the client finds the therapist attractive then there is a bigger chance of it happening. But if there is no attraction then it is less inclined to happen.
The icing on the cake is when the attraction is mutual. I have found myself as a therapist altering my massage style depending on the client.
My nipples are insanely sensitive, and when massaged, I go off! It's only happened once with a professional masseuse however.
I think it does have to do with the therapist. Mostly I just relax and my mind wanders, but never anything sexual. But I've never been attracted to any of my therapists.
I have had Orgasms with a few messages. I fact one was quite recently when a friend took me to a special spa day. The masseuse did not have any hesitancy to work on my sensitive spots.
She gave me several nice "Os" even if I was relaxed.
We both tipped her very generously and were invited back, together or individually. I hope next time she will a naked as I was.
I have enjoyed many orgasms when being massaged. I admit the masseuse doesn't always offer it but most can recognise the signs and ask if I want to go the whole way. I do.
Like Bethany - my nipples are like two additional clits. I have managed a nipple orgasm once.
I've not had an orgasm on the massage table but in Turkey the masseuse then gave me an assisted shower and played the spray on my clit and I came then.
I've had many on the milking table.....
I've not had many professional massages in my life--probably <10, total.
That said, I have never found any of them to be arousing, and I tend to tense up instead of relaxing, because I'm stressing about how the LMT wants me positioned (does she want my head here? My arms there?).
Weirdly, the one place that I do relax totally (and more than once, have fallen asleep outright) is on the table when I'm having my legs and key bits waxed. Probably because I know and trust my esthetician (I've been seeing the same one every 2-3 weeks for at least 4 years), maybe as a way to block the pain, whatever--she's had to shake me to wake me up and roll me over more than just a few times.
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There are massages designed to do just that. Tantric and Zen massages usually end up with women having very powerful orgasms. From the very beginning of our relationship, 26 years now, I've given my wife full body massages. Having read about it, I learned to give her tantric massages. If your not familiar with this, it eventually becomes a huge gspot massage and she may "O" several times. Once, in a painful end to a relationship with her female lover, I hired a female masseuse to come to our house. This lady would give the Zen on the end, but only on a house call. She came over, I helped her get her table set up, and I left the house for a couple hours while they were together. Very different woman when I came home!
I have...mostly, with a few female massages. They are always willing to help, lol. In fact, I look forward to it !
I've had orgasms through sensual and sexual massages with a partner but not just a routine massage from a therapist no.
I have had several Orgasms during a Professional Massage. Seems really skilled Technicians can pick up Who needs it and who would be offended.
Seems this can happen with either men or women Massuses.
I know I'm a guy, but I had to share. During a Reiki treatment I once had a non sexual all-body tremor that would have shook me off the table if the therapist didn't catch me. The most powerful convulsion of my life. The influx of love was so pure. I shiver just thinking about it.
Never had one during a massage.