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Ladies, can you tell when someone is checking you out?

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I’ve talked to so many women who say they can just feel eyes on them when they’re walking down the street or whatever, but if someone doesn’t blow an air horn and hold up a sign that says, “Hey! I’m checking you out!” then I’m completely oblivious. Am I alone?
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You'll know if im checking you out. I look hard. I'll keep my eyes on your ass or if you are facing me I'll check out you tits and work my way around your body. I dont hide it even if I think you know
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The humungous bulge in the trouser department is usually a bit of a give-away.

Seriously, if I'm dressed to attract I'll probably notice because I'm looking out for it. Otherwise, I'm often oblivious, I think.

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if it's obvious, i notice. if it's too obvious (see DrLove's response) it'll creep me out and, depending on the situation, i'll either find somewhere else to be quietly, or give him the finger, and then find somewhere else to be. if it's not obvious, or i'm not paying attention, i probably won't notice, nor mind. i assume that i get checked out fairly often, but if people are cool about it, i'll be cool. if not, you gets the finger.

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Only if it's obvious
Rainbow Warrior
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After 25 yrs of being checked out, it gets to be an instinct. But I'd miss it if they ever stopped.
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You'll know if im checking you out. I look hard. I'll keep my eyes on your ass or if you are facing me I'll check out you tits and work my way around your body. I dont hide it even if I think you know


Yeah, that would be the air-horn-and-sign-holding method that I mentioned- I can pick up on that almost a lot of the time. But what I'm talking about is more the sidelong-glance-on-the-sidewalk or staring-at-me-over-your-coffee techniques. I rarely feel/see that. And then I'm blindsided when someone comes up and says, "hey." And I'm like, "wuuut?"
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I have felt I was being checked and when I make contact with my eyes I either get a smile or they look away, but I know they were looking at some part of me.
When I was a nude model I was frequently checked out if we were doing something outdoors. I would have been disappointed if I hadn’t been.
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Of course, but that isn't necessarily a bad thing.
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Yes a woman can usually tell when they are being checked out
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YES. Not saying it's bad but yes. And I can also tell if it's with bad intentions.
I get a lot of hate stares. I get more smiles or curious looks. If it happens let it be quick.
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I am usually on the receiving end . Some women are more subtle than others but either way they are experts when it comes to body language and eye contact. I see their eyes starting at my eye level and slowly working down and coming back up again and trying to hold my gaze. Some will make a complimentary comment when walking past .

For either gender its just a game .
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I have been more conscious of being checked out since I divorced and stopped wearing a wedding ring
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Yeah I can tell
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Only if they are being glaring obvious... I'm talking neon flashing signs of obvious!

I've always been the 'average' girl compared to my friends, so I never looked to see if anyone is checking me out
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Most times, maybe? But I wouldn't be so foolish to believe I've noticed them always.

I've checked out others at times und I'm quite sure many of them never knew...smiles
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If it's blatantly obvious then yes, but I'm generally oblivious. I have anxiety problems so usually when I'm somewhere busy I'm preoccupied on remembering to breathe!
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If I'm going about my day and busy, I'm usually oblivious to it. But if I feel sexy, aroused, dressed sexy then I'll be more aware and notice it. I work in an environment where most of my clients or environments I go into are mostly men, so it just goes with the territory and usually assume they are trying to get a peek.

Like many said before, it so depends on the guy and the situation. It can be a big turn on or a creepy turn off depending on the guy and how he does it. I've noticed guys fall into three groups when checking a woman out...

- 99% of heterosexual males will look, sometime not even realizing they are looking, they just can't help it :-) most will get embarrassed if you make eye contact or acknowledge them and look away

- Some will let you know they are looking. This is that tricky area, guys, where you make us flattered/feel sexy or creeped out. Smile, maybe nod or wink, and then move on. If we want more we will approach you. DO NOT keep staring with your mouth open, make a licking motion between your fingers, grab your crotch, hand motion a blow job with your tongue in your cheek, or start to follow us like a stalker LOL

- The rest will be so into the part of your body they are staring at they are not even aware you are looking right at them ;-) I had a guy looking at my legs and up my skirt once at a café so intently, I was just staring straight at him smiling for over a minute and he never noticed.
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Quote by ElizabethS
If I'm going about my day and busy, I'm usually oblivious to it. But if I feel sexy, aroused, dressed sexy then I'll be more aware and notice it. I work in an environment where most of my clients or environments I go into are mostly men, so it just goes with the territory and usually assume they are trying to get a peek.

Like many said before, it so depends on the guy and the situation. It can be a big turn on or a creepy turn off depending on the guy and how he does it. I've noticed guys fall into three groups when checking a woman out...

- 99% of heterosexual males will look, sometime not even realizing they are looking, they just can't help it :-) most will get embarrassed if you make eye contact or acknowledge them and look away

- Some will let you know they are looking. This is that tricky area, guys, where you make us flattered/feel sexy or creeped out. Smile, maybe nod or wink, and then move on. If we want more we will approach you. DO NOT keep staring with your mouth open, make a licking motion between your fingers, grab your crotch, hand motion a blow job with your tongue in your cheek, or start to follow us like a stalker LOL

- The rest will be so into the part of your body they are staring at they are not even aware you are looking right at them ;-) I had a guy looking at my legs and up my skirt once at a café so intently, I was just staring straight at him smiling for over a minute and he never noticed.



Good answer. Definitely true about men because they are genetically programmed to check out women. It's as natural as breathing.

I had an odd experience in the supermarket on the way home - a woman walked past me and her skirt was semi-transparent at the back - legs, bum, knickers. I looked twice because it felt like I had x-ray vision. I saw that she had somehow tucked her underskirt into the top of her knickers without noticing. I had a quick stream of thoughts as to whether to tell her, and then how to tell her. I went with, "Excuse me, I think you've got a bit of a wardrobe malfunction going on with your underskirt."
Kind of excruciating for both of us, but she was very grateful.
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yes, I have sort of a sixth sense when it comes to that.
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yes .. its quite flattering actually . partners tend to be offended though lol
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I once walked into a party. In the corner of my eye I saw a girl immediately look down and adjust her hair. I found out later she liked me. ?

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Yes and I don't mind them looking either.
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Well when I see a guys pants tenting its kind of obvious that hes checking me out
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Quote by Littlefreaky
Well when I see a guys pants tenting its kind of obvious that hes checking me out


In your case, who could blame him? ;)
Advanced Wordsmith
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There are times when I notice men checking me out. Sometimes it gives me the creeps, other times I like it and it makes me feel sexy and occasionally, but rarely, I smile back flirtatiously. I've even done a full spin before continuing to walk away.
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I think a lot of women develop a sixth sense about being checked out. I can tell when I am being looked over and I like it.
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Yes men are not usually that discreet, the woman hide it better, but can usually tell from both.
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No, I can't really tell when guys are checking me out, lol.