I guess I faked myself into thinking I have orgasms.
I guess I faked myself into thinking I have orgasms.
Women (plural) frequently and easily have orgasms, it is only the introduction of men into this equation that blocks the process of climactic success. Occasionally you may find yourself in the middle of such an orgasmic paradise. Mostly not though.
Yes, I can’t read the road map
you must be a Joker or a provocateur.
Yes and No, It all depends on the lady's mood and the environment.....and if she really likes the guy she's with. I have found that women in general (not that I'm that experienced) can orgasm if they are "teased" for varying periods with or without music (ask her). Also it depends on her experience. Don't dive right inther and don't do anything to embarrass or hurt her. Save experimenting for later encounters with her and ask her 1st if she enjoys.....cunnilingus, manual manipulation, pain (of varying degrees) or any other questionable actions. If you're not sure, ASK HER!! we can't read her mind as they can't read ours. And TAKE YOUR TIME. If she want's to go faster, or slower she'll tell you. I'm no great lover but I have found that ALL ladies can experience orgasm if the guy just takes time and COMMUNICATES with the lady. If she doesn't orgasm the 1st time don't sweat it. If she enjoys the experience she'll tell you that (we) can try again. If she NEVER orgasms, you're doing something wrong.......ask her.....or she has had bad experiences that cause her inhibition. (moms can make their daughters afraid and unresponsive.......but as my sainted mom once told me, there's no such thing as a really frigid woman, there are only inexperienced or clumsy men!!!!
In my experience it is ridiculous to make such a sweeping statement. I have almost always been able to have satisfying orgasms when I pleasure myself, but it took a little longer to get the hang of orgasming with a partner, especially if that partner is not sensitive to what is going on with me. Have I faked orgasms? Not a lot, but I don't always need a big O to be satisfied. Do I like orgasms? Yes, I adore them
Its pretty easy to make a woman have an orgasm, all you have to do is leave.
And you live in what Universe?
Not every women is going to orgasm every time they have sex. There have been times I've had sex and not orgasmed. There also been times my lover could not get off too. I think orgasmic sex depends on the mood of the women as much as the technique (or lack thereof) of the man (or woman).
Buddy, if people are writing that women don't have orgasm its because the writers, men, are too busy thinking about their own pleasure than making their partner feel good. My advice to you? If you've never had the great experience of your partner orgasming because of something you've done.... it's not a them problem, it's one hundred percent a you problem and you'd better adjust how you approach having sex.