After we were married just over a year, my wife told me she wanted a woman. This wasn't a surprise as we knew we both were and still are bi. I thought perhaps she had a woman in mind, but she didn't. She wanted my approval before she went there, I guess. However, the first woman she had after we had wed, was a stripper we picked up at a club. We had a room at a plush hotel and we shared her, slept with her, and after waking, I left the room and they had alone time together. After she left, my wife had the dirtiest look in her eyes! Giving her that alone time turned out good as we had the room for another night and we basically had sex most of the night!
As long as i could also do the same i wouldn't have a problem with it.
Ask him if I could watch, because I know who he would want to have sex with.
As far as I'm concerned, they could fuck off and never come back.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.
Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
Its what we do. So i would help her get dressed etc lol. it really is no big deal (to us) we just love the spontaneity of it all. we have a few rules but nothing big.
My relationships are usually open partnerships, so I wouldnt mind mostly
We've been in the lifestyle for a number of years now and have watched each other many times having sex with someone else. We both find it very liberating and an amazing experience.
Well so I'm currently in an open relationship so I've learned to be fine with it. My boyfriend and I share a joint lease apartment and have our own rooms which gives us some freedom to have some privacy when bringing home a lover. I've definitely felt jealous when he brings home some girl from a bar but I've started to enjoy seeing what kind of girls he brings home, and he feels the same about the men that I bring home. If anything, it's made our love live a lot more adventurous because now we are open to more stuff.
I always wanted my wife to have sex with someone else but never dared say anything. Then 1 day on holiday this guy told me that his friend had fucked her. I didn't believe him but eventually, she confessed and I could say to her that I found it a real turn on. She had lots of guys after that, mostly on holiday and I love her coming back to tell me about it. We could have just declared our hand in the first place!
If I could watch and fuck her afterward suree
No I don't think I would agree to something like that. It would make me feel uncomfortable.
too many variables here ... if i was in a full relationship and she did sleep with someone else. then no sorry leave finish your gone. But if she said one day " OMG i would love to fuck her " if we were out clubbing or partying, but didn't do anything about it then that's normal ? isn't it ?
OR isn't it what runs through your head when your watching porn films " OMG i want to sleep with her " but that's unattainable apart in fantasy so that's OK isn't it ?
He generally wants ME to have sex with someone else, so I'd be glad I could return the favor.
As one of a group of FWB we have our favourites but we all enjoy the relationships we share with our other friends. We all enjoy the variety of our relationships and have done so for over two years without a problem. There are no closed doors so we all know what is happening with whoever..
Its not for everyone but it works for us.
My relationship is open. To be honest, I lack the quality of sticking to one partner. I can commit to one person my whole life. So, it’s ok to me if my partner wants me to have sex with other person. But that doesn’t mean I am gonna fuck whoever comes my way.
Wife and I have always had an agreement. If one of us wanted to go to bed with someone else, we had to ask the other before they did anything. She asked about maybe doing a friend of ours, I said that would be fine After that there was never a maybe in our questions. Yes we both found others we wanted to have sex with, She told me NO to a few and yes to a few. I told her No to one and yes to a few. This has worked well for us. sometimes it is a discussion of why do you want to do him/her and we learn it is a fantasies and rather then go thru with it we act it out for each other in our bedroom together. Happy Wife Happy Life.
God, it would mean things are getting back to normal after the self quarantine!
To be honest before finding Lush I would have said hell no after being on here for a while I really have changed my whole attitude towards all kinds of things. Plus I would have had the option of doing the same so it would have been a win for me as he sucked in bed and that is why he is my ex-husband well one of the biggest reasons anyway.
I absolutely love to watch her getting fucked by another guy! I usually take pictures or video if I can, and there’s nothing better when she tells him to cum inside her, and watching his cock quickly piston in and out of her right before he starts filling her up. Then to see his cum leak out of her freshly fucked pussy after he pulls out... SO HOT!! After a minute, or more likely, a few seconds, I eagerly take his place for my turn and the amazing feeling of getting sloppy seconds!
I tried the monogamy thing before...it didn't take.
Now, any of my lovers that have potential for more than one-off need to pass a secret test. I'll comment on a man or a woman that I find hot and then just casually say how much fun it would be to fuck them right now. If they react negatively then I know it is a no-go. My favorite response, ever, was, "Damn that's hot. I'll call him over right now if I can watch."
In this case the teachings of my mother hold true. That which you send out returns back to you times three. If he (or she) wants to take on a new lover, that's fine. I get three! My parents were openly into free love and I guess I inherited that (lack of) morality.
Pleasures of the flesh with another is not cheating. Lying and hiding it is the actual pain-inducing betrayal. If it is done behind my back then hell hath no fury like a Krystal scorned!
Am I a good witch, or a bad witch? History will decide
at this stage of the game, being married 44 years, I think I'd say ok, if it would get her interested again. but of course it has to be a two way street. but until she shows interest again, if ever, it's just me and mary thumb and the finger sisters quintet
When I was married I would have welcomed it! Anything to end the boredom!
When I was married I would have welcomed it! Anything to end the boredom!
I'm a poly girl. I don't believe that monogamy makes any sense and its an artificial construct that goes against our nature. There's a whole biological component for why the intense attraction you have with someone fades over time. There's nothing wrong with feeling that hot spark sometimes even if its with someone else.
I'm a submissive in a bdsm relationship and my boyfriend is my Master. He has sex with other girls, I have sex with girls and other guys and its fine as long as we're all communicating with each other and honest about what we're doing. Our rule of thumb on me as his submissive is that I may have sex with many, but I'm owned by one.
