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Have you watched people have sex or have others watch you have sex? which would be more exciting

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I have been on both sides of that. For me its more exciting having people watch me pleasing a lover.
Being watched would be more exciting for me.
I love being watched. I think guys are more into watching. As a woman I love seeing the effect I have on men. That might be some ego thing but it excites me to see guys watching me and see how worked up they get.
I've watched my boyfriend having sex with my girlfriend, but since I'm an exhibitionist at heart, I enjoy being watched more.
Between the two, I love being watched more than watching. But that doesn’t mean I don’t love watching.
Nafisa
I am in a FWB group so we often enjoy sex as a group and its all out in the open so we watch and are watched. We are not usually all 'busy' at he same time.
Talking ti them as we are watching or being watched is always a turn on for me ... and usually them as well.
Have never watched or been watched (at least to the best of my knowledge). But if I had to choose between the two, I'd say watch. I'd be too self-aware if I knew I was being watched.
Meagan
I have watched and been watched. I find more of a turn on being watched.
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I have watched and been watched. I find more of a turn on being watched.


Yess
Yes to both. I love being watched.
Yes, to both,

I have watched people, and if there is someone else to play with it can be fun.

I have been watched multiple times and find it extremely arousing. I like being put on show for the enjoyment of others, sharing in other's pleasure, and being watched!
Have been watched which is great turn on being caught between pleasing the partner or showing of your sexual stamina, watching is a great turn on if your with some one compatible.Sean
Have been watched which is great turn on being caught between pleasing the partner or showing of your sexual stamina, watching is a great turn on if your with some one compatible.Sean
I'm extremely more of an exhibitionist than a voyeur, things I like to wear mostly,
but sex in semi-public places or openly at a gathering as well.
For me, to become a sexcited voyeur very much depends on who I'm watching,
und what they're doing.
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I prefer being watched but have watched friends have sex as well.
I have watched a few at a camp I vend at and in dungeons, not necessarily intentionally, but I didn't walk away either. As for being watched, I am way to unsure of myself to let someone watch me.
Guilty and guilty. Found both exciting, but suppose being watched was even more of a turn on.
I have watched many couples have sex, I have been watched having sex, and I have also joined in. So yes I like to watch or be joined in with.
I have only ever been fortunate enough to watch a couple having sex once, and I found it an utterly erotic experience !
There are no strangers here - just lots of sexy friendly folk to chat with ?
Been watched, as I requested of a best friend. It was wild, hands down the hottest sex yet
Both, watched and been watched. One was an ongoing FWB with a couple. She and I would have sex regularly and he usually watched and when I was done he would always clean her orally and if he did not cum from giving her oral he would take her. Sometimes I would watch and sometimes I would leave.
I have done both, and I think being watched is more erotic
Both.

Several years ago, my husband and I went to the beach and rented a beach house along with our son and my friend of his. It was a two story and we had the top floor for us. Late one night some people came into the bottom floor of the house in about 2 in the morning, we heard something outside of our window below us on the deck. my husband and I both got up and we're looking out the window and it was the man and woman that rented the space below us. They were in one of the lounge chairs going at it, she was being very vocal and not trying to be quiet at all, both of them were completely naked and moving around all over the deck in different positions. It was pretty hot and my husband got really turned on and started playing with himself, and me, while we were watching and then next thing I know he's behind me and he starts entering me as we're both looking out through the blinds of the window. I don't think they knew we were there though.

I have been seen or caught having sex several times in my life, but the time that was most memorable was because it was so awkward. My first husband and I were staying with his parents during the holidays once and we were sharing the room with his brother and his wife. We were in the bed next to the pull-out sleeper sofa they were on. I was awoken by my husband entering me from behind. I was asleep when he started so I wasn't quite aware of everything around me. After he was inside of me and starting a rhythm , I opened my eyes at one point and his brother was laying not even 5 feet away from me looking right at me watching. I froze, I didn't know what to say or do, and I just laid there as he watched until my husband finished. I didn't want my husband to know he was watching (not sure why, was just my logic at the time) so I didn't tell him. His brother got quite a show as my husband had my nightgown pulled down and squeezing my breasts, and at one point had his finger up between my lips making me suck on it. The next day he didn't bring it up, and neither did I. Never spoke of it.
Being watched is more exciting...
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Noexperience in either case
But being watched would be thrilling exciting embarrassing and so on
I have watched others and have been watched I find being watched is more exciting.