Gals, does a guy have to have a great body to be your love interest? No "it really helps" answers, either.
Put it this way, I wouldn't date an obese guy.
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Hey gals, if I had 'that' great body, would you hold your's up against it?
Just... curious.
Not great, just...healthy. And I agree with Lush-obese men would certainly be a 'no'. Fat is fine. Heck I used to be bordering on being a BBW. But obese...well. Not my thing at all.
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I've had both but, really it's their personality and how good they feel in their own skin. I can be a chubby chaser as well as a iron man lover. I just like guys any way I can get them! LOL! Well, one in particular now.
Are you ladies saying you could probably never fall in love with a obese/fat guy? or are you just talking about physical attraction and sex?
i have a question in accordance with this topic...
What do u look for (body wise) in a man?
DO u like those big muscles, six packs, or what?
Do u look for great hair? nice eyes, skinny, athletic what?
see JOJ the answer is multi layered for me. I dated a guy that was zero body fat, had the perfect face and voice. He was a total asshole though. We didn't last long. I've always dated guys with great hair too. Although some were what they call metro, and I didn't like that either. But at the same time, I've always thought there was something sexy about a guy that's totally bald too. One guy I went out with for awhile was about 6'2" and what he liked to call 300 and some change. But he was funny as hell and the nicest guy you'd ever want to meet. It's just what clicks with you inside I guess.
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i have another questoin for you...
Does a guy have to have big muscles and a six-pack to be sexy to u?
alright
thx...
man...why di u have to be married...
To me, he dosnt need to have a 'great body'
But then you have to understand, I like my active lifestyle, jogging/hiking/adventure holidays. And I expect my man to enjoy the same things, so he would have to be in reasonable shape to keep up.
So the answer would be, an overweight guy simply wouldnt fit with me, but if he has a beer belly and some love handles, I could deal with it, Im not perfect either.
He doesn't have to have a perfect 6-pack and huge biceps (but it really does turn me on) for me to make love with him, but he can't be an obese person. I don't want him running put of breath before I hit my climax.
He doesn't have to have a killer body, but he's got to be healthy. Hubby's weight has fluctuated a bit over ten years, but he's usually eating healthy and fairly active. So he puts on 20 pounds over winter because he's watching more sports and doing less hiking? He's still my guy. Besides, the last thing I'd ever do is get on him about HIS weight when I'm gonna be packing some extra pounds for awhile! I dated one guy who was a fairly big guy, but like hubby, he was fairly active and ate well, he just didn't have the great metabolism to keep slim. Didn't bother me in the least.
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I have to first be attracted to the guy. Once the attraction is meet then let the fun begin. If he's not healthy then there are things you can do to help start a more healthy lifestyle. Not saying I'd want him to change who he is on the inside just saying on stand point of health. That is the most important thing to me. Hmm wondering how shallow I really am cause I don't see my self with a complete obese guy. Overweight yes. Obese No. Yep shallow. Sorry guys, but just being me.
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No.
My dream man is at least the same height as me or taller though!!! But I have dated and had relationships with men who are shorter than I.
What he looks like is not that important to me (teeth), as long as he is able to keep up and/or challenge me physically (teeth), but most importantly (teeth) he must challenge me mentally or else we will not last (teeth).
Oh, and he has to take care of his feet. If he has gross toes (not naturally occurring) then I will ask him to leave and walk away no matter what stage of the night we are in.
Did I mention teeth? For some reason teeth are important to me.
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Woman... GO FLY A KITE!!!!! Take a slideshow walk with me on a walk through the parks of Inner Mongolia, China. Then enjoy the tale of a very traditional day in the life of a white Woman in China. That question is really limiting. It's more about what having a nice body MEANS. I love doing outdoor sports and being active, and I need a guy who can keep up with me. So it's not about him being eye candy, it's about him being able to go biking or kayaking with me for more than 10 minutes. haha.
Right there. Oh yeah baby. Right there.
For me looks dont matter its whats inside that counts. Thats what makes you "hot or sexy" to me!
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