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I would say that most men think it does..............but as you're on the receiving end, so to speak, what do you think ?
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Girls.......does size matter ?
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I would say that most men think it does..............but as you're on the receiving end, so to speak, what do you think ?
WOW!! Not the i'm insecure so does my dick size matter syndrome!!! Give it a rest women for the most part dont give a darn about a guys package. They would prefer a man with some intelligence to know asking questions like this shows that in essence your reallly Not to intelligent.
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I would say that most men think it does..............but as you're on the receiving end, so to speak, what do you think ?[/quote
WOW!! Not the i'm insecure so does my dick size matter syndrome!!! Give it a rest women for the most part dont give a darn about a guys package. They would prefer a man with some intelligence to know asking questions like this shows that in essence your reallly Not to intelligent.
Obviously not that intelligent.................you've totally misunderstood the question. It was a question asked for a woman's perspective. Why would any guy feel insecure about the size of his dick ?
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nope
but brain size does!!!!
I would have thought that went without saying..................
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Obviously not that intelligent.................you've totally misunderstood the question. It was a question asked for a woman's perspective. Why would any guy feel insecure about the size of his dick ?
In the real world as long as one's member is big enough to make love with..you will get no complaint. Mind you mine is at least 12inches so there (only joking 13" )
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I agree peteyx.........................I just wanted to get a female perspective on the subject. My own personal view is size doesn't really come in to it. Obviously some here at Lush seem to have taken objection to the question, maybe it's hit a raw nerve, and others just seem to jump on the bandwagon.
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your reallly Not to intelligent.
I think you mean
you're really not too intelligent.
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I would say that most men think it does..............but as you're on the receiving end, so to speak, what do you think ?
Yes, size does matter!!
If the appendage is less than 4" ... or more than 9" ... it's not favourable.
But you know ... women are lovely creatures that can appreciate what is attached to a man they adore. And, those with the less or too much usually accommodate in other areas, if they are at all interested in pleasing their partner.
As a side note, I would have thought by now, men (intelligent and otherwise) would have figured out the female's answer to this repeated question.
Of course size matters ... a girl needs to feel that hot something deep inside her, and without decent girth how can the clitoris be stimulated? unless compensatory measures are taken.
I'd say girth is more important than length. An overall circumference just below the glans of 15 cms (5.6ins) with a length of 18cms (7.2 ins approx) is quite ideal and very sufficient.
Of course most guys I've chatted to here on Lush are far bigger than that ... Ahem!!
I'd say girth is more important than length. An overall circumference just below the glans of 15 cms (5.6ins) with a length of 18cms (7.2 ins approx) is quite ideal and very sufficient.
Of course most guys I've chatted to here on Lush are far bigger than that ... Ahem!!
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So... here's the deal on size:
Is there such a thing as too small? - yes.
Does size matter? - yes, to a degree.
The people who say it doesn't matter haven't been with a guy that was too small (it's only happened to me once, most guys usually hit at least average). The guy who was too small asked if I enjoyed the sex afterward. I assured him it was awesome. Even though it wasn't. So if he was in this thread, answering on behalf of all women, he'd probably also tell everyone that size doesn't matter at all and it's about his personality and intelligence. Most women aren't going to be mean about it and say anything outright, but we are going to be thinking "damn, he's small" *sad face* when we reach into your pants.
It's probably not the end of the world if you have a solid relationship going or there's real potential there. Some women care less than others about penetration. But yeah, contemplate intercourse using a tampon for the rest of your life. It does kinda matter. You can work around it, obviously, but it depends on the women and maybe the guys skills at oral and the way you mesh as a couple (if you're thinking long-term).
I don't think any woman really cares as much if a guy is at least average though. For example, whether he's 6 inches or 9 inches probably isn't a big deal. Although to be honest, if you're too big, anal might be off the table, so there's no sense in wishing for an overly big one.
Is there such a thing as too small? - yes.
Does size matter? - yes, to a degree.
The people who say it doesn't matter haven't been with a guy that was too small (it's only happened to me once, most guys usually hit at least average). The guy who was too small asked if I enjoyed the sex afterward. I assured him it was awesome. Even though it wasn't. So if he was in this thread, answering on behalf of all women, he'd probably also tell everyone that size doesn't matter at all and it's about his personality and intelligence. Most women aren't going to be mean about it and say anything outright, but we are going to be thinking "damn, he's small" *sad face* when we reach into your pants.
It's probably not the end of the world if you have a solid relationship going or there's real potential there. Some women care less than others about penetration. But yeah, contemplate intercourse using a tampon for the rest of your life. It does kinda matter. You can work around it, obviously, but it depends on the women and maybe the guys skills at oral and the way you mesh as a couple (if you're thinking long-term).
I don't think any woman really cares as much if a guy is at least average though. For example, whether he's 6 inches or 9 inches probably isn't a big deal. Although to be honest, if you're too big, anal might be off the table, so there's no sense in wishing for an overly big one.
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So... here's the deal on size:
Is there such a thing as too small? - yes.
Does size matter? - yes, to a degree.
The people who say it doesn't matter haven't been with a guy that was too small (it's only happened to me once, most guys usually hit at least average). The guy who was too small asked if I enjoyed the sex afterward. I assured him it was awesome. Even though it wasn't. So if he was in this thread, answering on behalf of all women, he'd probably also tell everyone that size doesn't matter at all and it's about his personality and intelligence. Most women aren't going to be mean about it and say anything outright, but we are going to be thinking "damn, he's small" *sad face* when we reach into your pants.
It's probably not the end of the world if you have a solid relationship going or there's real potential there. Some women care less than others about penetration. But yeah, contemplate intercourse using a tampon for the rest of your life. It does kinda matter. You can work around it, obviously, but it depends on the women and maybe the guys skills at oral and the way you mesh as a couple (if you're thinking long-term).
I don't think any woman really cares as much if a guy is at least average though. For example, whether he's 6 inches or 9 inches probably isn't a big deal. Although to be honest, if you're too big, anal might be off the table, so there's no sense in wishing for an overly big one.
My problenm is with average, most say that it's in the 5" to 6" range but that means for all the 6+" guys there must be a legion of -5" guys. Where are they? They're not on Lush.
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dpw, Dancing_Doll, SexySophie and PersonalAssistant.................thank you for your views, that was the reason for the question, to get peoples views. It had nothing to do with guys feeling inadequate or their egos.
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Obviously not that intelligent.................you've totally misunderstood the question. It was a question asked for a woman's perspective. Why would any guy feel insecure about the size of his dick ?
Well you must otherwise youd KNOW that asking this question was entirely stupid
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Yes, size does matter!!
If the appendage is less than 4" ... or more than 9" ... it's not favourable.
But you know ... women are lovely creatures that can appreciate what is attached to a man they adore. And, those with the less or too much usually accommodate in other areas, if they are at all interested in pleasing their partner.
As a side note, I would have thought by now, men (intelligent and otherwise) would have figured out the female's answer to this repeated question.
Well as i stated above, the guy who ask this question obviously has not
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this question has obviously hit a raw nerve with you Barry007..........................sorry.
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On the forum topic 'Biggest cock you've ever had', there was around 12 responses with the smallest penis being 7". No women responded to say they'd had a 4" or a 5".........from that response, I would have thought that size does matter to some women, hence my question.
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On the forum topic 'Biggest cock you've ever had', there was around 12 responses with the smallest penis being 7". No women responded to say they'd had a 4" or a 5".........from that response, I would have thought that size does matter to some women, hence my question.
To be fair, the question was for the biggest and it should not be difficult to get one over average size. If you asked what was the smallest, I am sure you would see the shorter numbers.
But like others have pointed out, size is relative. Sure, it matters. But not always in the ways people might WANT it to matter. Being the RIGHT size for your partner is more important than just being "a" size. There is a range of "normal" sizes, both for penis' and vaginas. And that happens for a reason. And most will be perfectly fine with anyone in the normal range (both male and female ranges). Those outside that range will usually have issues, but they could actually pair up and be perfect for each other.
Within the normal ranges though, yes, some women prefer one size over another. But that IMO is like preferring one body type over another, or one eye color over another. We don't always end up WITH what we prefer, but that does not mean we are not perfectly satisfied with what we DO have. More so since sex is about more than a penis and vagina.
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Noquite the contrary I just have sense enough to realize that women are sick and tired of hearing idiots like you wondering about dick size
Would you like a Snickers? You're not yourself when you're hungry.
Seriously though, you could ease up a bit. These questions have been recycled a hundred times over. If women had problems with answering it, they would say so...or just ignore the question completely.
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Noquite the contrary I just have sense enough to realize that women are sick and tired of hearing idiots like you wondering about dick size
Actually I get more sick of guys who insist on answering a question on behalf of the female gender and then getting the answer wrong.
As always... hate the question? Don't answer it. The easiest way to a stress-free forum existence.
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Yes, it matters to a degree, but it’s not something I’d walk away from. If it was a random hookup, maybe, but I don’t do those, so no worries. I’ve been with a guy who was kind of small, but he was able to hit all the right spots, did me just fine. I don’t like men with huge cocks, either. If a man came at me with anything over, I don’t know, eight inches, I might say no. I’ve never been with someone over 7.4 and that was big enough. As I said, it matters to a degree. I mean that both ways, small and big.
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Again, for those of you who have taken the time to respond to the question and stimulate the debate..........thank you !
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Noquite the contrary I just have sense enough to realize that women are sick and tired of hearing idiots like you wondering about dick size
But obviously not enough sense to realise when women are sick and tired of complete knobheads having a go at people because they asked a question, I see.
Size doesn't currently matter to me, but then, I have too little experience to make an informed opinion. However, I am of the school of thought that a person's body is merely their shell, and if I can make that shell feel good because the person it holds makes me feel good, then I would be glad of it, whatever their physical body looked like. There are always ways round things if certain needs can't be met, I like to think.
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Noquite the contrary I just have sense enough to realize that women are sick and tired of hearing idiots like you wondering about dick size
Don't be so damned mean!!!
It was a legitimate question for the gals - if we were sick of it, we wouldn't answer.
In answer to the OP - my fellow ladies have got it spot on...
Although I have to say that while I DO like a large penis inside me, simply because it will hit the right spots and the feeling of friction being greater as it opens me up, I have been with more well-endowed guys who seem to feel that having a big cock is enough - it's not!!
Conversely, I've had smaller dicks that haven't got me off from straight missionary, but with a bit of creativity in positioning, feel amazing.
For me, it comes down to how much I'm into the guy. If he can stimulate me emotionally, intellectually etc, then whatever size dick he has, it's going to feel better, sexier, hotter. If he can be a bit creative and imaginative in bed - teasing, build up, foreplay, changing positions, dirty talk, using his hands and mouth, perhaps a little role play, using his brain - then the actual sex itself is less important.
I don't need to cum to enjoy the sex - I don't always cum, but I still enjoy it.
So, in answer to the question - I want his dick to be big enough that I can feel it inside me and small enough not to tear me open - somewhere in between those to ends of the spectrum is just fine - I'm more into HIM, than just his cock...
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Size definitely matters! But that doesn't mean Bigger is Better. All women are different. What feels good in me may not feel good in you. I may love to fuck a guy with a nice thick 8" cock but I also love anal and a cock that size doesn't feel that great in my ass. So I would rather a guy be 6 or 7". But if I didn't like anal I may prefer the 8" guy. Some women are very small and may find a 6" is perfect and an 8" is painful. Some women may not get the prober stimulation from a smaller guy and rather hop on the big guy!
I have only been with one guy who was really too small to enjoy and like DD, I told him he was good. I was also with a guy who claimed to be 10 1/2" and while I didn't measure him he was HUGE and it turned out to be one of the WORST experiences of my life.
But while "Proper Size" is important, if the connection is there I will find a way to make it work!!
BTW, I think guys are more concerned with cock size than women are. You guys watch way too much porn and feel you need to live up to those guys.
I have only been with one guy who was really too small to enjoy and like DD, I told him he was good. I was also with a guy who claimed to be 10 1/2" and while I didn't measure him he was HUGE and it turned out to be one of the WORST experiences of my life.
But while "Proper Size" is important, if the connection is there I will find a way to make it work!!
BTW, I think guys are more concerned with cock size than women are. You guys watch way too much porn and feel you need to live up to those guys.
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Ha and they call gay guys bitchy.
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