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Girls.......does size matter ?
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um... yes it does, the bigger the better within reason... but confidence, rhythm, making me comfortable, attraction—are all important too!!!
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I would say that most men think it does..............but as you're on the receiving end, so to speak, what do you think ?
Honestly I agree with some of the above posts . However I am thinking of it from the oral stand point . I love oral and for me the thing that I think can lack is the width . I don't care how long you are if you are a pencil. That leaves me nothing to suck on width wise.
Probably should not have answered while in a dirty mindset but there's my opinion
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All things being equal, size does matter. (sorry guys) Bigger is better, but it is only one consideration. Women put different emphasis on size. Some feel it is more important than others. My husband is a little above average, but is a great lover in other ways. I still like it big sometimes. (at least I used to when we played around)
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I think you mean
you're really not too intelligent.
lol. gotta love when someone talks about intelligence and displays the least amount.
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Quote by SexySophie
Of course size matters ... a girl needs to feel that hot something deep inside her, and without decent girth how can the clitoris be stimulated? unless compensatory measures are taken.
I'd say girth is more important than length. An overall circumference just below the glans of 15 cms (5.6ins) with a length of 18cms (7.2 ins approx) is quite ideal and very sufficient.
Of course most guys I've chatted to here on Lush are far bigger than that ... Ahem!!
Good heavens! Have you had calibrators out? I've never come across such exact measurements since trigonometry!
YES, he needs to have a massive brain!
But honestly, all women are contoured differently... Some need extra girth or length to hit the sweet spots, especially after multiple pregnancies etc... For me nothing over 7" and between 5" and 6" is the sweet spot... of course bigger could work, but I wouldn't be able to take it all and have the intimacy of our bodies rubbing together... Bigger is not better for everyone, but it is for some!
But honestly, all women are contoured differently... Some need extra girth or length to hit the sweet spots, especially after multiple pregnancies etc... For me nothing over 7" and between 5" and 6" is the sweet spot... of course bigger could work, but I wouldn't be able to take it all and have the intimacy of our bodies rubbing together... Bigger is not better for everyone, but it is for some!
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Size matters to me! I love women taller than me and since I'm only 5' 2" easily done, and the taller the better. Fantasy size say 6' 2" 
Mmm and voluptuous is a good thing too. Love my friends to have some curves. So to me YES size matters. 
Mmm and voluptuous is a good thing too. Love my friends to have some curves. So to me YES size matters. 
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I'd say it's more important that they know what they are doing with it. A guy can have a big cock, but suck in bed. And a guy can have a smaller cock and give you amazing orgasms. As long as I can feel it, it's good.
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i had an affair with a guy that wasn't that big but he was a great lover because he was able to create a real sexual tension between us. he was really great at foreplay and used his mind, voice, words, hands and mouth and made sex more than just fucking. i also have been with a guy that was huge but he also knew how to use it. he took his time getting me ready for it. they were both very different experiences but both were great.
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I'd like to say a resounding "NO," but there is a condition...
You really DO need to know how to use what you've got. No matter what your size, you need to know how to use it to its greatest potential.
I've had some nice cocks in my pussy, and I've been with a guy who's cock was smaller than my pinky finger when he was fully erect (NO KIDDING!). If the guy knew how to use what he had, then it was all good. If he didn't.. then, yeh, your size is going to become an issue. However, I have to admit, the bigger the cock... the less masterful you might have to be.
It also depends on the girl--if her pussy is so stretched out that you can't feel a thing when you are pumping into her, it might not be all your fault! (just saying...Ladies, I'm a mom of four... kegels are VERY important to the sexual well-being for both partners!)
You really DO need to know how to use what you've got. No matter what your size, you need to know how to use it to its greatest potential.
I've had some nice cocks in my pussy, and I've been with a guy who's cock was smaller than my pinky finger when he was fully erect (NO KIDDING!). If the guy knew how to use what he had, then it was all good. If he didn't.. then, yeh, your size is going to become an issue. However, I have to admit, the bigger the cock... the less masterful you might have to be.
It also depends on the girl--if her pussy is so stretched out that you can't feel a thing when you are pumping into her, it might not be all your fault! (just saying...Ladies, I'm a mom of four... kegels are VERY important to the sexual well-being for both partners!)
From my personal experience, the most fulfilling (no punn intended) penetration!....... has derived from the more well endowed gentlemen, including girth as well as length. When it comes to deep down and dirty slut feeling decadant sex, size matters to me. However sex is not all about penetration, is it? A bigger brain can produce the wettest of sex.
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Yes it matters. Some guys are just scarey huge, while others make me wonder if it would even be worth it. I guess as has been stated, it all depends on the guys skill level. I do know one thing for sure though, there is an appropriate time for jack-hammering. And if you are over lets say 7.5" every single time you have sex ain't it. My cervix can't take every time!
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I'd say it's more important that they know what they are doing with it. A guy can have a big cock, but suck in bed.
That's autofellatio and he's a lucky guy.y1xRgAF8AlRo6vMJ
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The most amusing thing in this thread is the number of times "knows how to use it" is mentioned. I always assumed sex was a two way street, surely you all know the best way to get yourself off even with a smaller cock size. Just take charge of the situation, he'll love you for it.
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I think guys should make the most of what they've got. I'd be completely hypocritical if I said size doesn't matter as it does, two experiences of mine have confirmed my views on that. One was so small it felt like his little finger and the other felt as though I was going to be ripped in half. These where the mistakes in my life but I didn't give them the chance to show me what else they could do because they could of been amazing lovers in other ways.
Size is definitely an issue. My husband is a biggie, mostly in girth…and I never got used to it. I never complained, but it hurt every time. Sex with “normal” men, more reasonable “members” was an absolute pleasure. Frankly, for my money, a huge cock is just a . . . (wait for it) pain in the ass.
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I never want a ridiculous monster. Apart from that size Is no Issue. It matters how you use It. That said, as long as It is not a monster as mentioned, I do like a big cock to fill me up, spread me, pound me and fill me with cum.
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YES, he needs to have a massive brain!
But honestly, all women are contoured differently... Some need extra girth or length to hit the sweet spots, especially after multiple pregnancies etc... For me nothing over 7" and between 5" and 6" is the sweet spot... of course bigger could work, but I wouldn't be able to take it all and have the intimacy of our bodies rubbing together... Bigger is not better for everyone, but it is for some!
what a brilliant post... made me ROFL ty
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I'd say it's more important that they know what they are doing with it. A guy can have a big cock, but suck in bed.
how do guys think after sex?
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The most amusing thing in this thread is the number of times "knows how to use it" is mentioned. I always assumed sex was a two way street, surely you all know the best way to get yourself off even with a smaller cock size. Just take charge of the situation, he'll love you for it.
That point was way overdue in being made around here. I've had the same thought, but you were much clearer and more concise than what was in my head.
It's not all on the guy to make it satisfying (though of course, inconsiderate partners ruin everything). Ultimately, chemistry will take care of much of the whole "is he/she good in bed" question. Big cock, small cock, thick cock, thin cock: we all have preferences that either become the whole story or a footnote, depending on who and what the encounter entails.
It's almost as if we're pre-programmed to repeat the "it might be big but is worthless if he doesn't know how to use it" line whenever the size question comes up. If you find yourself thinking back on encounters with big penises and thinking "you know, it's too bad that none of those dudes knew how to use it", then it's likely that you just prefer cocks that aren't that big.
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That point was way overdue in being made around here. I've had the same thought, but you were much clearer and more concise than what was in my head.
It's not all on the guy to make it satisfying (though of course, inconsiderate partners ruin everything). Ultimately, chemistry will take care of much of the whole "is he/she good in bed" question. Big cock, small cock, thick cock, thin cock: we all have preferences that either become the whole story or a footnote, depending on who and what the encounter entails.
It's almost as if we're pre-programmed to repeat the "it might be big but is worthless if he doesn't know how to use it" line whenever the size question comes up. If you find yourself thinking back on encounters with big penises and thinking "you know, it's too bad that none of those dudes knew how to use it", then it's likely that you just prefer cocks that aren't that big.
I agree with most of what you said. But I think, well at least when/if I say that "it was big but he didn't know how to use it", what I mean is that a lot of guys think that just because they have a big cock they are automatically great lovers. So they don't need to make an effort, we should be grateful for their cock!
But the point is correct, GREAT sex is a Two Way Street!!
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I'm quite short at around 5" and 5" circumference. I've been married quite a few years and made love with dozens of girls before I married and not one of them ever mentioned I was smaller than average.
The only person ever to tease me about cock size was a jerk off buddy I had in my late teens. He was huge so I was closer to average than him.
The only person ever to tease me about cock size was a jerk off buddy I had in my late teens. He was huge so I was closer to average than him.
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bigger is always better. haven't you seen those... i think it's AT&T commericals? or is it faster is better? oh, screw it. words ending with "er" are usually better. bigger, faster, prettier, hotter, bladder... bladder? ok, yeah, think about it - if you didn't have a bladder, you'd just be leaking every time you had a glass of water. pretty embarrassing, right? unless you're into that kind of stuff. still, it'd ruin the furniture in no time. you should take this moment to thank your bladder or one day, it will leave you and thEn where will you be?
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bigger is always better. haven't you seen those... i think it's AT&T commericals? or is it faster is better? oh, screw it. words ending with "er" are usually better. bigger, faster, prettier, hotter, bladder... bladder? ok, yeah, think about it - if you didn't have a bladder, you'd just be leaking every time you had a glass of water. pretty embarrassing, right? unless you're into that kind of stuff. still, it'd ruin the furniture in no time. you should take this moment to thank your bladder or one day, it will leave you and thEn where will you be?
Doing extra Kegels! Or peeing on the rug.
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bigger is always better. haven't you seen those... i think it's AT&T commericals? or is it faster is better? oh, screw it. words ending with "er" are usually better. bigger, faster, prettier, hotter, bladder... bladder? ok, yeah, think about it - if you didn't have a bladder, you'd just be leaking every time you had a glass of water. pretty embarrassing, right? unless you're into that kind of stuff. still, it'd ruin the furniture in no time. you should take this moment to thank your bladder or one day, it will leave you and thEn where will you be?
Doing extra Kegels! Or peeing on the rug.
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Quote by Tellerman
The only person ever to tease me about cock size was a jerk off buddy I had in my late teens. He was huge so I was closer to average than him.
I am so jealous, a jerk off buddy! I'd have loved to have had one of those.
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Yeah, I don't think most girls are too thrilled with a dick so long that it pokes them in the cervix.
Also pricks longer than 10" tend to wear out.
Also pricks longer than 10" tend to wear out.
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