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I adore getting flowers. Its a nice symbol of affection and makes a girl feel special. sure they die, but they are pretty and they smell nice for a while
Cryptic Vigilante
Thanks for your feedback people. Most of you share the same opinion as I do.
To me, flowers are a bit risky to bring during early dates. It really doesn't prove anything to the woman, so trying to impress her with flowers is kinda stupid to me. Wow dude, you just invested $20 for a nice bouquet, that's quite a sign of dedication. This is half the amount you gave to that stripper last night. Congratulations.
Trying to make a correlation between flowers and money can be quite insulting to the woman too (ie. bringing a huge bouquet of roses), as if money could win her heart more than anything. It's also so anti-romantic, and I'm not quite interested in women who like me for my bank account.
I really don't expect anything from women when bringing flowers, and I'm surely not trying to 'score points'. Usually the relationship is already stable/established and it's just a little attention to cheer her up and make her smile. The best 'season' to bring flowers for me is around April/May, when winter is about to come to an end; that way, it's meant to celebrate the upcoming of spring more than anything.
Otherwise, I did surprise girls a few times on dates by bringing a single rose (usually when inviting her at the restaurant, which was often followed by a quiet walk in town). A single flower is way more appropriate in these situations; the girl isn't exactly interested in carrying a huge bouquet during the whole evening. I simply love 'provoking' these situations where just a single flower attracts quite a lot of attention, for many reasons:
- it shows the girl that I'm assertive about my affection for her, and proudly signify that she is 'mine' publicly
- it makes other women jealous, which makes the girl who accompanies me even more proud to be with me
- other people can look at us and imagine us having sex, which is both quite raunchy and amusing
- girls are so awesomely adorable when they hold a flower
- it can make the girl a little uncomfortable for the above reasons, which I personally find so fucking cute
Concerning how I've used flowers for jokes in the past, I'll share just one of those stories...
Imagine a girl with a similar 'no bullshit' style as pictured below, which was my fuckbuddy for a while. That girl once explicitly told me to never act romantic with her, and that she would just punch me right in the face if I ever did (she actually got in trouble for punching guys a few times).
Knocking on her door with a huge bouquet of multi-colored flowers that I purposely chose to look cheesy was kinda fucking hilarious to me.
Luckily, she understood the joke and I proved to myself that flowers can even make a girl like her smile.
To me, flowers are a bit risky to bring during early dates. It really doesn't prove anything to the woman, so trying to impress her with flowers is kinda stupid to me. Wow dude, you just invested $20 for a nice bouquet, that's quite a sign of dedication. This is half the amount you gave to that stripper last night. Congratulations.
Trying to make a correlation between flowers and money can be quite insulting to the woman too (ie. bringing a huge bouquet of roses), as if money could win her heart more than anything. It's also so anti-romantic, and I'm not quite interested in women who like me for my bank account.
I really don't expect anything from women when bringing flowers, and I'm surely not trying to 'score points'. Usually the relationship is already stable/established and it's just a little attention to cheer her up and make her smile. The best 'season' to bring flowers for me is around April/May, when winter is about to come to an end; that way, it's meant to celebrate the upcoming of spring more than anything.
Otherwise, I did surprise girls a few times on dates by bringing a single rose (usually when inviting her at the restaurant, which was often followed by a quiet walk in town). A single flower is way more appropriate in these situations; the girl isn't exactly interested in carrying a huge bouquet during the whole evening. I simply love 'provoking' these situations where just a single flower attracts quite a lot of attention, for many reasons:
- it shows the girl that I'm assertive about my affection for her, and proudly signify that she is 'mine' publicly
- it makes other women jealous, which makes the girl who accompanies me even more proud to be with me
- other people can look at us and imagine us having sex, which is both quite raunchy and amusing
- girls are so awesomely adorable when they hold a flower
- it can make the girl a little uncomfortable for the above reasons, which I personally find so fucking cute
Concerning how I've used flowers for jokes in the past, I'll share just one of those stories...
Imagine a girl with a similar 'no bullshit' style as pictured below, which was my fuckbuddy for a while. That girl once explicitly told me to never act romantic with her, and that she would just punch me right in the face if I ever did (she actually got in trouble for punching guys a few times).
Knocking on her door with a huge bouquet of multi-colored flowers that I purposely chose to look cheesy was kinda fucking hilarious to me.
Luckily, she understood the joke and I proved to myself that flowers can even make a girl like her smile.
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
Sexygeek posted this in the "pictures of the day" thread ..... PERFECT!!!!
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They are for those special occasions. If received I am thankful and love them - especially roses. If I give them the person better be appreciative or I would be extremely insulted and pissed. Gratitude cost nothing but good manners and a smile.
Given as a joke.
Given as a joke.
Rookie Scribe
To be fuckin' honest, I think guys who still give flowers to a girl is just...hands down. 
I mean, guys these days are too insensitive, aggressive, they're not romantic anymore, like..
A quickie is enough for them. They call it "sex" instead of "making love".
Call me "Old School" but I think guys who gives their girl flowers, even if it's just 1 rose, it's still fuckin' sweet. Specially if it's not Valentines, Anniversary or any special event. Like..
"I just want to give you a flower because you deserve it, beautiful."
I mean, guys these days are too insensitive, aggressive, they're not romantic anymore, like..
A quickie is enough for them. They call it "sex" instead of "making love".
Call me "Old School" but I think guys who gives their girl flowers, even if it's just 1 rose, it's still fuckin' sweet. Specially if it's not Valentines, Anniversary or any special event. Like..
"I just want to give you a flower because you deserve it, beautiful."
Innocent Puck Bunnii
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Sexygeek posted this in the "pictures of the day" thread ..... PERFECT!!!!
Thanks PA 
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I can think of much more meaningful ways to show you love someone other then a plant that will die in a week if you're lucky, save your money and put some thought into your gift if you know me well enough to bring me flowers, you will know what i'd really enjoy.
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if they are still planted they are ok but if they are cut and in a bunch i think they are a waste as who wants to be given a gift that will die.
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I love getting flowers, doesn't happen often though
In-House Sapiosexual
I'm a sucker for flowers. When dating, I appreciate the effort. I can also tell how much thought has gone into it and that makes a difference. It doesn't have to be an expensive, elaborate floral arrangement; it can be simple (often times it represents more). I've had a room full of roses delivered and it kind of was a turn off--freaky overkill. He turned out to be rather a jerk with too much money on his hands and not enough personality. I do advise, never give carnations to a lover. I like roses but do something different. I love peonies. A guy bought me a bunch when I was quite young. He said that they reminded him of me. I've been in love with them every since. My husband gave me peonies and I knew then that I was going to marry him.
If a mood hits me, and it often does, I'll buy them for myself. The great thing is when I buy them, get home and some have been bought for me. I feel like someone is paying attention. Timing is everything.
If a mood hits me, and it often does, I'll buy them for myself. The great thing is when I buy them, get home and some have been bought for me. I feel like someone is paying attention. Timing is everything.
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Top Shot
Lilies, cut or potted, are the way to my heart...and other things.
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I prefer if you give ne chocolates
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I received flowers in the past and I just leave it to the side
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Quote by SereneProdigy
flowers are getting more and more controversial in the dating process nowadays
Really? In what world? I've never heard any of my girlfriends say that they don't appreciate receiving flowers from a man.
In my opinion, there is no bad time for a man to give a woman flowers, within reason. That's not to say that giving a woman flowers will get you something from her, such as her affection, but I can't imagine how a woman would ever be offended by such an offering.
I'm interested in knowing what types of flowers women prefer. Me, I don't care for roses that much. I like tulips, daisies, and zinnias. I don't like ridiculously large bouquets. I think a nice, simple, small bouquet is best. Even just a small bunch of lavender is great. Guys, don't overdo it with flowers. It's the thought that counts, not the size or expense.
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I think for a first time meeting its wonderful. 
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Flowers are nice but lingere is nicer.
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Do guys like you exist? haha
my last girlfriend, i'd get her flowers every now and then for no particular reason. nothing fancy, just a nice little bouquet from the supermarket. i don't know about once a month, but i did it fairly frequently. i just want the person i love to know that they are loved and appreciated.