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Fisting... Turnon or turnoff?

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Oh I love it!
It was one of my firsts sexual kinks I really went out of my way to enjoy via porn and stories. It's my go-to kink for when I need a quick fix in order to get off.

I'm writing a novel about a couple who goes through sex-therapy, together as no sex is even happening, and the wife discovers that fisting is practically the key to her happiness.

So fisting? Yes - love reading / watching.
Have I done it? Sadly - no.
Have I had it done to me - Sadly, again, no. My husband isn't quite into it. Maybe one day.
Dani
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I have, and it's enjoyable. But it wasn't just a straight up punch into my vagina like you see in tacky porn. It was nice and slow and steady. The process of it is the biggest turn on for me, and not the act itself.

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Beffer
Rainbow Warrior
It always surprises me when I talk to my friends about it how many women haven't tried it, can't do it, or are turned off by the idea! I always encourage new partners to at least try it with me because I have small hands and I always welcome their fist in me. If you do Kegels and are flexible and used to it, it feels wonderful! If you can pop a baby through there, a fist is nuthin'! :-)
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Ouch!! turn off!!
SexyTnMama
Active Ink Slinger
Fisting doesn't do much for me. I think it's more of a guy thing.
nawtygirl
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not into it at all.
wistful_wonderer
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Major, major, major turnoff. So help me if you come near me or mention fisting we cannot be friends. Ouchie. No fist zone here.

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turn off i am very sensitive in all 3 main areas and i get more stimulation and more aroused by gentle caressing of my clit than trying to get both hands and a leg inside me.
Dirty_D
Head Nurse
It's not really on my agenda.
Guest
Lurker
Turn off in a major way.
Guest
Lurker
fisting is a turn on for me, i have had both men and women do it to me i like it more when a women does it to me.
Whispurr
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Definite turnoff! I can not understand the attraction to it. I always thought that the tighter the pussy the better for regular sex. I imagine that to accommodate a fist a pussy would have to be stretched beyond the proportions that a man would like to stick his cock into. Plus it sounds painful or at the least very uncomfortable.
Guest
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Definitely a turn off.
Guest
Lurker
Turn off. Like others have said why would you want to stretch yourself that much. I'm sure more fists are larger than the average cock so how would that make it more pleasurable for him? And can I just say - o
1nympholes
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I have done it a couple of times with a special girl and I would do it with her again if she asked. but it is not really my thing.

A guy wanted to try it and I agreed. Either I am much to tight or his hand is to large for this purpose. So Guys I think I will pass in the future.
CliffordAClavin
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Admittedly, it's been almost 20 years since I was either on the giving or receiving side of fisting. My girlfriend at the time loved to explore limits and while we never actually closed the fist , she managed to get her hand inside me up to about an inch from her wrist. She couldn't close, but it was sure fun trying. I have very large hands and never got past all four fingers up to the hand. Again, she enjoyed the exploration and we did it a few times with similar results then moved on to other things.

As far as porn goes or doing it again, there's a very limited a out of stuff that turns me on regarding fisting. The true amateur stuff where both people are just exploring and having fun, I like, but the hardcore BDSM stuff is a big turn off and gaping pictures just make me sad. I can't see ever seeking it out, but if I had a girlfriend who wanted it, I'd definitely play along. A turned on partner is what turns me on, even if it isn't my thang.

As far as consequences, I didn't see any, but we always played in our comfort zone. She was the best lover I've ever had and a great set of kagels is more important than how far you've been stretched.
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depending on the person I am with huge turn on
AudriNichols
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It's not something I've ever done. My man's hands are literally twice the size of mine. So it's not likely that I will ever do that, but it's not exactly a turn off either.
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such a turn off..
honeydipped
The Bee's Knees
no appeal what so ever.

Say. Her. Name.
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
Not even close to a turn on. Like most guys, my fantasy is a tight pussy.
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A huge turn ON. I love to be fisted. The bigger the hand the better. And if I can have something in my ass at the same time, all the better. I love to be stretched and this is stretching to the limits.

I know it's not for everyone, but I simply adore it smile
Langley
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A huge turn off
Ls63563
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I've tried some big fucking things, literally, but a hand/fist... NO FUCKING WAY!
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Personally, I can't even fit three fingers inside of myself, let alone a fist so I'd have to say turn off!!