Many of my kids' friends that i have gotten close to look up to me with respect and we have built strong relationships. And, since I have had two good marriages, I never thought of that possibly occuring. Now, I have heard that a couple of my kids guy friends have made some sexual comments about me over the years (positive ones), so I do take those as compliments.
For me it might be a fantasy, but never a reality, I think! But, as I am older, now my kids are older too and the age difference blurs, so.... one never knows! Opportunities, timing, alcohol... all might change things!
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When the girls were in their teens the temptation was just to great. Not one of there Boyfriends just one or two of the guys that hung out at our place. Some temptations are just to strong for me to resist.
No, never have had that fantasy, and certainly would never act on it if I did indeed have that fantasy. There are lines that one simply does not cross.
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OK, I know that this is "ask the gals," but here's a thought from a guy...
Pretty harmless fantasy, but probably a very bad thing to live out. Think about your future son first.
While it would probably fulfill the fantasies of your son's friends, it would probably be pretty harmful to your son. He'd have to absorb all the jokes his buddies would make about how his Mom had the hots for all his peers, and we all know how mature and empathetic teen-aged boys are. Embarrassment would be the least of the negative results; he'd almost certainly resent you for your behavior, and ruining the Mom/son relationship would be something you'd both regret for a long, long time.