I'm talking about when with a guy. What do you think when dressing in stockings and suspenders and sexy bra and panties?. Yes you know its going to be a massive turn on for him, but is there part of you that just thinks, "whats the point, the way it looks and feels, it will only make him cum sooner". Ok if its just getting the first load out of the way, but what if thats his Only load?
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Her Royal Spriteness
while it's sometimes fun to play dress up, do you have any idea how much work it is to do the entire fancy lingerie bit? quite honestly, that stuff only comes out for super special occasions and then, it's for a pretty serious partner as opposed to a casual date. yes, i want to look good for a date, but i don't want to give them unrealistic expectations that i'm going to be dressed as a Vickies fashion model every time we go out for a drink.
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For me personally, sex has little to do with what she is wearing as much as the signal she is sending. I mean all that glitter and glam is nice, don't get me wrong, and I like it when a girl goes out of her way to look hot. But I have seen hot girls in blue jeans, in a bikini, in just an old oversized t-shirt, and just panties too!
Arousal is about the possibility of sex... if a guy and a girl are sitting at a restaurant and she licks her lips seductively or whispers "Take me home", does it really matter what she's wearing?
Besides, lingerie is meant to be taken off. It is the wrapping paper for the present underneath. Only cats and children play with the box the toy comes in!
Arousal is about the possibility of sex... if a guy and a girl are sitting at a restaurant and she licks her lips seductively or whispers "Take me home", does it really matter what she's wearing?
Besides, lingerie is meant to be taken off. It is the wrapping paper for the present underneath. Only cats and children play with the box the toy comes in!
Rainbow Warrior
Frankly, it's not worth the effort. At least to me. I've done it a few times for special requests, but my guys usually can't wait to get me naked. For that matter, I'm usually naked anyway, because I'm a nudist/naturist.
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just get or stay completely naked is the best
Top Shot
I don't know. I love myself some exquisite lingerie, and love 'dressing up' for my partner. Maybe it's the tease that I enjoy?
I never think of it as a bother. Even when I'm just going out for a (rare) night with the girls, it's lace top stockings and a skirt or dress just exactly short enough to expose a bit of pale thigh and stocking tops when I cross my legs, and exactly long enough to not reveal anything more.
I never think of it as a bother. Even when I'm just going out for a (rare) night with the girls, it's lace top stockings and a skirt or dress just exactly short enough to expose a bit of pale thigh and stocking tops when I cross my legs, and exactly long enough to not reveal anything more.
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Maybe I do it more for me than for him, I don't know. I love the way I feel when I'm dressed for sex as you say. Yes it's a bit time consuming, but I'm going to continue to take the time because I love it.
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My last of any significant note anyway, liked me to wear red lipstick so dressing up for sex really just meant putting on lipstick. red typically is not a color I use and I found L'oreal DIY Red 324 seemed to do the trick.
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My last of any significant note anyway, liked me to wear red lipstick so dressing up for sex really just meant putting on lipstick. red typically is not a color I use and I found L'oreal DIY Red 324 seemed to do the trick.
Yes, but exactly where did you put the LIPstick,,,????LOL. Sorry i could not resist!
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I have never "dressed" in order to undress or to make it more desirable for him - or have I been asked to.
I was often asked for my cum stained pants after we had had sex and I usually obliged on the understanding they are replaced.
It was a good way to get another date, or to deny the request and refuse any further propositions.
I was always prepared to model the replacement for them before having him remove them completely. More often the replacements were erotic or extremely expensive lace.
It would be extremely rare for me to wear anything apart from scent when engaging in sex.
I was often asked for my cum stained pants after we had had sex and I usually obliged on the understanding they are replaced.
It was a good way to get another date, or to deny the request and refuse any further propositions.
I was always prepared to model the replacement for them before having him remove them completely. More often the replacements were erotic or extremely expensive lace.
It would be extremely rare for me to wear anything apart from scent when engaging in sex.
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No Panties and No Bra is my choice.
But, I know one gentleman when his is coming to town, a package of beautiful and expensive Lingerie will arrive.
He like to take me to a Classy Restaurant and have me remove the garments,while we are at the table. Plus he does not seem to care who is watching.
By the time we get to his suite he is amazingly hard for a man of his age.
If that is what it takes.
But, I know one gentleman when his is coming to town, a package of beautiful and expensive Lingerie will arrive.
He like to take me to a Classy Restaurant and have me remove the garments,while we are at the table. Plus he does not seem to care who is watching.
By the time we get to his suite he is amazingly hard for a man of his age.
If that is what it takes.
The Linebacker
I've found women get really excited seeing me with sock garters on and silk Daffy Duck boxers.
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There certainly seem to be lots of companies, stores and or websites providing clothing and accessories of the "dressing for sex" type. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one keeping all of them in business. Maybe a couple, but not all of them.
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Nice pic 'Chelle. Thanks for sharing.
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