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Do you like having your hair pulled during sex?

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1nympholes
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I love rough sex with some one I trust just use me any way you want. As long a I get as much pleasure as you.

Hair pulling is certainly part of that whole experience.
Megis
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Yes love having my curly long hair pulled during sex and he is always saying things that turn me on more
Have lots of fun
Filthyhands43
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A definite yes!! Especially while getting fucked from behind.. Or having his cock in my mouth
Dan66
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So is it the pain or the domination?
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I do and I have nice curly/wavy blonde hair
VirginalViet
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Well it depends on my mood I guess? I do love men who are confident and firm with me. I'm very petite and sometimes guys treat me like a little Chinadoll that can easily break? Haha I've done a lot of dance and I'm very strong and limber so boys I won't break. Yes if I'm in the mood a man who grabs a fistful of my hair and just can't stop himself because it's just too intense.....well that feeling can be amazing . Haha like I said I ONLY LOOK like an angel inside is the other girl you haven't met.....Crissy the horny slut.
bicuriousgirl20
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depends on the sex, if i'm in a wild a kinky mood, most definitely. but if i'm in a romantic mood, than no
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Quote by Kimasa


Good question.

I grew up with the belief, inhibitions and conditioning, through cultural and parental influences, that women having their own sexual feelings and desires were dirty, cheap women, whores, and those feelings, if felt, should be hidden or suppressed.

Men, I was brought up to believe, are always wanting/looking for sexual gratification in some form or another and a woman is expected to show a level of resistance and restraint, to maintain her dignity, but ultimately give in to his demands to please and impress him.

I don’t follow these rules implicitly as I once let a guy have anal sex with me but it was too painful and totally unenjoyable. I might agree to it again in the future but it would have to someone very special who demanded it but it would be for his enjoyment, not mine.

I also have sex with women, which is totally with my cultural upbringing but I have a strong sexual desire towards women and if one I find attractive wants me I find it impossible to resist.

Back to you question “What do you get out of it?” It’s simply a release, shed of my inhibitions I enjoy being treated like a cheap tart or whore, being made to take a guy’s cock in my mouth and swallowing his cum or being taken roughly from behind with the feeling of him pulling my hair whilst doing it makes me feel I’m submitting to him for his pleasure, not mine, which relieves me of any guilt. A nice young lady with the right upbringing would find performing such actions disgusting and repulsive, but that’s what he wants and I must do what he wants to please him.

The other side of the coin is that it turns me on greatly to feel a guy or girl taking complete control over me and making me perform sexual acts only for their benefit.


Interesting response.
You wrote at the end that submitting yourself for the pleasure of your partner turns you on greatly. I am curious to know why that is?
AudriNichols
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I love it. I have issues with my neck and shoulders because of Fibromyalgia, so my man has to be careful about it and do it slowly. which in some ways makes it even hotter to me, because I know he's doing it that way to protect me. There's just something so sensual about a big man with really strong hands being so gentle.
Lisaberich
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Like many here, I do love it when I'm being taken in my ass or from behind. But I also love it when a man is on top of me and he puts his arm under my back and takes a fistful of my hair as he pounds me and kisses my neck.
lilgirl1414
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Pulling/tugging yes, not yanking. And if I'm in a kinky, uninhibited mood then yes yum
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It's a great turn on for me. A man taking control while in the middle of wild passionate sex is awesome. But even beginning with pulling hair a little before having sex can make my panties wet (when I wear them), especially combined with passionate kissing. I have found even the guys that have never done it before once I ask them to, they enjoy it and it makes it that much hotter.
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YES!!
Love it honestly.
While I suck his cock, his hands in my hair, gripping and pulling it harder as he nears his release. Or when he pulls it back off my face so he can watch me. Holding it tight while he lets go. So sexy!
While he fucks me from behind. His hands in my long curly hair, pulling my head back. The harder the better. Love it!!
alison90
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Sometimes yes. It depends in how it's done. You have to be careful to grab a lot of hair with even pressure. I don't actually like my hair pulled out. I think it's a bit of a dominant/submissive thing. It's all about control or at least the illusion of control.
Meggsy
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Basically I do when it can increase the intensity of our intimacy. Its not high on my sex scale and I don't normally seek it. If my male/female partner desirers to use that to heighten or increase the sensation for us then it can be enjoyable.
I often have my hands in their hair when they are down below but I would not say I was pulling it.
Kee
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Absolutely yes, with the right guy. Even though I am not at all submissive in my work or daily life there is something deeply sexual and loving in the act of submitting to a guy; submitting to his desires that you know will bring pleasure to both of you; to being "taken". I think, on some level, when a woman lays back and opens her legs to a man she is asking to be "taken"; how rough or in what ways is for her to decide. On my hands and knees, hair pulled back, ass being slapped, my mind is totally unfocussed; good things are happening that are beyond my control; I have sort of left the world (for lack of a better explanation) and am on a special plane of orgasmic existence with no other thoughts.

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ZigDust
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I know this is ask the gals, but I still wanted to offer up that yes, I enjoy having my hair pulled well when I'm going down on a woman! Not too hard and not all the time. But it's fun when she works her hand into my hair and grinds against my face! YEAH!!
angelaslater
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Yes I love it. It's kind of the passion and roughness if my husbands doing it doggystyle. I feel like he's owning me or claiming me
InsatiableLover
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Yes as long as it's done just right. I love him to grab the underside of my hair and pull it back. Also love it when he gathers all of my hair in a pony tail and holds it when I'm performing oral on him. Something about him doing that is very sensual and erotic to me.
Ember
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I absolutely love it!
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Not a gal, but the only hair I HAVE long enough TO PULL? NO! I WILL be interested in reading what a few lady friends think about it though.