You know the ones, who constantly message and chat request you and once you talk to them they're just BORING!
Nothing interesting to say, they keep leaving the chat due to some 'technical problem' and you just lose interest!
What do you do, just tell them to eff off?
You must give up the life that you had planned, in order to live the life that is waiting for you..
Just delete them. Reserve your time for more interesting people.
yup- just delete and thats it.
I usually reject the requests. saves me a lot of time and energy. My time is better used for the forums, reading stories, and doing other things.
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if i dont "know" the person somehow i delete with out even looking at the persons profile
Delete them, block them and pray that they aren't somehow obsessed with you.
I've met a guy on lush who seriously stalked me and when I told him to leave me alone, he took it as a challenge and started making new profiles, just to annoy me.
When they see the avatar you used as "you", they actually think it's your real picture, and the friend requests come in. That's when I'll delete them and not give it a second thought.
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Deleting people doesn't stop chat requests though...you my want to just set your status to "away" more often...or as CurlyGirly says "block them" if it's a problem...
If I get a friend request from someone I have never had any contact with, I usually look at their profile just to see who they are. When I first joined Lush, I would accept friend requests from most every woman who asked but rarely from men unless I really knew them and felt comfortable with them, But now, I usually just reject everyone unless I already know them. So many woman have asked me to add them, then I never hear from them. Like it is a contest to see who can get the most "friends".
As far as chat requests, I if dont know you, chances are I will not acceopt your chat request. I havent had to block anyone but sometimes do get tired of a guy asking me 5 or 6 times and never getting the message. Then when I get fed up and tell him I am not interested in him, being called a Lezzie slut or some other really clever comeback.
Oh, I really love the ones who make it sound like it is my lucky day that he has some time to cyber with me, LOL
I made friends with a dude, and we chatted for a while, but he started to get really clingy and telling me what to do, which was....wierd.
I think he had something like 4 accounts that he had made, just so i didnt know i was talking to him. I knew everytime who it was, every name he gave began with the same letter, his age was the same, his job was the same, he spoke the same. If you're gonna be a stalking wierdo, be a bit clever about it for god sake!
Or you could just all set your profile to "Male". You won't have any problem anymore. I actually wish I was harassed from time to time.
It is kind of strange that this post came up today because today when I checked my in box there was the nastiest message from someone who had been chatting with me here in the forums then through messages. I had a knot in my stomach for about a minute then thought oh well it was just fantasy communication anyway. Not anything I would consider important to me anyway. I just wasn't used to anyone ever speaking to me that way on here or in real life. I took him off my friend list immediately and blocked him. I noticed later that he took his profile off Lush.
!st indication of discomfort with a member... contact Lush.
If it is innocent no harm.
If it escalates they already have been informed and are here FOR us not against us.
Use them. These administrators are very smart and helpful.
well it depends on the person really...if they are annoying and all that and you don't want to talk to them then just delete them.....if they are annoying and won't leave you alone then you might want to block them in some cases, and maybe even delete them too. It really just depends. Also if they are like "harassing" you then you should contact Lush.
There have been a few guys who seem so amazed to have a girl who's prepared to reply to their messages that they then can't leave you alone. Then, if you don't reply, they think they've offended you. Good grief. Grow up, guys. I have used the block on a couple, and it works perfectly.
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Where is that darn delete button and there is a blocking procedure.
Yes, for sure. Thats why I tend to lurk. Or have my away light on so that i can't get random chat requests
yes and if they get too annoying i delete them
so far no,,, but still a bit new here
What time is it. Only everytime I open my chat room and unwanted people come in.
On The Flip Side, Sometimes I Wonder If I Am Annoying Someone By Poking Or Sending Them Messages When they Dont Want To Be Bothered.
Wow, some great tips here. 
